Chapter 444: The Problem of Having Children

At that reception banquet, the atmosphere was a little awkward, but that bit of embarrassment was also within the scope of what everyone could bear.

The main thing is that Liang Wei and Chen Li did not communicate throughout the whole process, as if the other party did not exist.

If it's really when the other party doesn't exist, that's slightly better.

The problem is that they know each other's existence, and sometimes they will secretly watch each other's reactions, and occasionally they will have a collision of sight.

It's even more embarrassing.

Others have found out about this, but they can only pretend not to see it.

In this process, Chen Li seemed a little redundant, except for Yan Xin, no one talked to him.

And Yan Xin didn't have much time to talk to him.

After all, this is for Liang Wei's mother and son, and Liang Wei and Chen Li have that kind of awkward relationship.

If you communicate too much with Chen Li, it will seem that Liang Wei is not taken seriously, and it is inevitable that she will be unhappy.

Then you can only grieve Chen Li.

- In fact, snubbing Chen Li like this is also because they regard Chen Li as their own person, the one who can be wronged.

Chen Li ate sullenly.

Everyone else is talking and laughing, at least on the surface, they look very happy, including Liang Wei.

After eating, Alili proposed to let Liang Wei pick up the baby and take a group photo to witness today.

Now this banquet after returning to China is for the mother and son to catch the wind and wash the dust, and it can also be regarded as the full moon wine of the child.

Liang Wei was in the United States before, and he couldn't put this full moon wine if he wanted to, so he could only make it up today.

Liang Wei did not object, and accepted such a proposal with a smile.

The photo was taken with the help of the waiter, and Arily even brought a digital camera.

All the people have entered.

Promoted by everyone, intentionally or unintentionally, Liang Wei and Chen Li, who were holding their children, stood in the middle and became C players.

At first, there was still a vacant seat between the two people, but under the pressure of the person next to them, the gap was squeezed out, and the two people were next to each other.

Liang Wei used to be Xiao Yuan, and then Xiao Yin.

Chen Li's side used to be Yan Xin, and then it was Alili.

Liang Wei didn't look at Chen Li, hugged the child, and looked at the camera with a smile.

The child's head was leaning on Chen Li's side.

Chen Li had a little embarrassment on his face, but when the waiter raised the camera, he still squeezed out a smile, but it was a little unnatural.

The rest of the people were all smiling happily, and when they were taking pictures, a few of them were sticking out their scissor hands - this is popular for taking pictures now.

Although it will be embarrassing to look at it again after a while, at least there is a little bit of a happy atmosphere, which is a little better than a motionless pestle there.

At the same angle, the waiter took a few shots before ending the shoot and handing the camera back to Elili.

Alili took the camera and looked through the photos with Liang Wei, and made sure that it could be used, so she thanked the waiter.

The smile on Chen Li's face in the photo looks too fake.

But they all knew that in this case, Chen Li couldn't have any natural smiles.

The picture of the child and the parents together is already very good, and this is the best picture they can create.

It's not good to ask for anything else.

After that, Ellili took a few more photos of the child with her camera, and also took a few photos of Liang Wei holding the child.

blinked his eyes, and said, "Why don't everyone take a photo with their children, and let the children think of this love from their uncles and aunts when they look at the photos in the future."

Madoka first agreed: "Okay, okay, I'll come first!"

Then when she came to Liang Wei, she clumsily asked her how to hold the child.

Liang Wei secretly glanced at Chen Li, and did not refuse this proposal, and seriously taught Xiaoyuan how to hold the child to be safe.

Arily took a picture with her camera.

And then there's Xiao Yin.

Then Alili gave the camera to Yan Xin and asked Yan Xin to help shoot it.

Then there was Yan Xin, holding the child.

After filming him, he hesitated for a moment and said to Chen Li:

"Chen Li, you can shoot one too."

Chen Li pursed his lips, secretly glanced at Liang Wei again, and saw that she was studying a painting on the wall, hesitated, walked in front of Yan Xin, and said with some embarrassment:

"I didn't hold a child, how should I report it?"

Liang Wei didn't look at him at this time, but when she heard him say something like that, her eyes became wet inexplicably.

- Count, this is the first time that my child has been embraced by his father.

She wanted to turn her head to see what it was like, but she held back.

You can see what the photos look like later.

Turn your head now, and nothing will happen, and it will never happen.

I heard Yan Xin and Alili teach Chen Li how to hold the child, heard Alili make Chen Li smile more naturally, hold the child higher, and the sound of pressing the shutter to make Chen Li change a posture.

One after another, whether it was a dozen or dozens of shots, she couldn't remember clearly.

I only know that when Chen Li was photographed, he took a lot of shots.

Finally, after the photo was taken, Alili took the child from Chen Li again, returned it to Liang Wei, and said:

"These photos will be sent to you when the time comes, and if you see which ones are suitable, you can print them out and keep them as souvenirs. If you put it in a memory card, it may not last long."

Liang Wei nodded: "I know, thank you, thank you."

Arily laughed, "We're all good friends, and that's as it should be."

Coming out of the restaurant, Alili also asked Liang Wei, "You just came over, do you have anything else to buy?" Or I'll take you to the mall, let's go to the mall and have a look. Buy whatever you need, otherwise it's too inconvenient for you to have a child alone."

Liang Wei was going to excuse herself - it's embarrassing to always trouble others.

But she really has some daily necessities to buy, and it is really inconvenient to be alone with a child, so she can only apologize again and accept her kindness.

Pushing the stroller, I got into Arili's car.

It was still early to come out after eating, Yan Xin and Chen Li summed it up, and instead of going home immediately, they went to the gym to exercise.

By the way, Xiao Yin and Xiao Yuan were also brought back to the community.

After Xiao Yin and Xiao Yuan got out of the car, Yan Xin said to Chen Li, "Why don't you look a little unhappy today?"

Chen Li drove the car, gave him a blank look, and said, "Do I have an obligation to be happy?"

Yan Xin smiled and said, "Shouldn't you be happy when you see your son and take a photo with him?"

Chen Li corrected him: "That's someone else's son, a native of the United States, legally speaking, it has nothing to do with me."

"But that's your own son, you know it in your own heart." Yan Xin said.

Chen Li ignored him.

Yan Xin didn't say anything more about this issue.

It can be seen that Chen Li doesn't want to talk about this now, and he doesn't need to say too much, it will be boring to talk about all his friends.

I just asked, "Do you want to send you a set of those photos you took today?"

Chen Li opened his lips and wanted to say something, but he held back.

After a while, he said, "Whatever, you can do whatever you like."

Yan Xin said "oh", probably understanding his attitude - it's still acceptable to send photos.

If he can't accept it, he will simply say no.

He said, "I'll send you a set of them when I export those photos."

Chen Li let out a "hmm" and didn't say anything more.

It didn't take a while to drive

, and they got to the place where they were fit.

I didn't do too long of exercise, I exercised there for more than an hour, sweated profusely, and then went home.

In the car, Yan Xin also made a phone call to Alili and asked her where she was now.

The answer I got was that I was still walking around the mall with Liang Wei, buying a lot of things, and asked Yan Xin if she could help send things to Liang Wei's house after she went back.

Yan Xin glanced at Chen Li.

When he made this call, he turned on the speakerphone, and Chen Li also heard the content of their conversation, knew Yan Xin's thoughts, and shook his head lightly when he saw him.

Yan Xin knew that this guy was saying that he would not go over to help.

It's helpless.

But you can't force people to come over, you just say, "No problem, I'll be waiting for you at the east gate."

When he arrived at Park Garden, he did not enter the community, but went to the east gate and waited for Arily to drive back.

It didn't take long to see the red Mazda that Arily was driving.

waved his hand, then followed the car, went to the basement together, and drove to the building where Liang Wei lived.

I did buy a lot of things this time, basically some daily necessities.

Liang Wei didn't use up those things in Mi Country, but it was impossible to bring them all back, and many of them could only be bought here.

There are a lot of things in the trunk, and with only these two women, they will definitely not be able to take it in one trip.

With Yan Xin joining, it will be much easier.

Helping to send all those things, Liang Wei thanked them again and left them to sit.

But they all refused—it was already late, and there was no need to stay in someone's house anymore.

And it's also inconvenient to have a single mom with a few months old child entertain herself.

Go down from the elevator to the garage, then drive the car away, drive back to the downstairs of your house, park in the parking space you bought, and the two of you go upstairs again.

Alili said to Yan Xin, "I asked Liang Wei some things about giving birth in the United States, and it was not easy. Not to mention spending so much money, there are also many difficulties for a person in a foreign country. When I saw her tell me those things, her eyes turned red, and I thought there were a lot of unknown sufferings."

"What are you asking for?" Yan Xin was very curious, "You don't want to go to the United States to give birth, do you?"

"I'm not going, how desperate is it to give birth alone in a foreign country?" Arily said.

She told Yan Xin: "The main reason is that Sister Ru always says that, if she wants to do a test-tube baby and want to go to the United States to give birth to a child, I will help her inquire." It sounds terrible, but I think it's better to forget it, and I have to persuade her."

"Then you don't need to persuade her," Yan Xin said, "You also know Sister Ru, she doesn't want to fall in love or get married, but when she is at that age, she wants to have a child of her own, and there are many inconveniences in China, so the only way to have a child abroad is to have a child." Liang Wei thinks it's difficult, but Sister Ru doesn't have to be difficult, because Sister Ru has more money, can buy better services, and can even let her family accompany her, the situation is different."

Although Alili didn't think so, she thought that Gu Rudu was already in her 30s, and now she didn't want to fall in love, and after a few years of delay, she would become an elderly mother.

Now it is not easy to be a single mother in China, without a marriage certificate, and even doing IVF is very troublesome.

There really is no better way to want a child.

I could only shake my head: "Okay, I won't persuade her, just tell her what I know, and let her decide whether to go or not."

Yan Xin said, "If she wants to go, she can also ask Liang Wei herself."

Alili said: "I'm afraid she won't ask, you know, her relationship with Liang Wei is not very good, in this matter, she is also on Chen Li's side, and she seems to have some opinions on Liang Wei."

Yan Xin also knows this.

Then he smiled and said, "Okay, if she wants to know anything, you can go."

Ask Liang Wei, after all, Liang Wei has really been there."

Allylie pouted, feeling as if she had become a middleman.

But there is no way, who calls Gu Ru also a friend?

She didn't have many friends since she was a child, so every friend was cherished.

For the sake of her friends, she can be regarded as heartbroken.

When she accompanied Liang Wei to go shopping, she basically talked about Liang Wei giving birth to a child in the United States alone, which made her feel a little emotional.

[In view of the general environment,

At the same time, he also has some dissatisfaction with Chen Li - if Chen Li is a responsible man, takes the initiative to take responsibility, and marries Liang Wei, Liang Wei will not need to go abroad to give birth to children, she can give birth to children in China openly, and someone will take care of her.

It's not so bleak.

And then there is some luck - fortunately, her man is not an irresponsible man like Chen Li, she doesn't need to be so long, and she goes to a foreign country thousands of miles away alone to give birth.

In this world, not every woman will be so lucky, and not every woman can meet a man as responsible as Yan Xin.

Thinking of this, she felt very happy, very satisfied, and felt that God was really good to her.

Although the first twenty years were unfortunate, in the end, she was sent to the best man in the world.

Listening to Liang Wei's story, it made her feel a sense of bittersweet memory.

In the pain of others, I feel my own happiness.

On this night, she was also extraordinarily gentle and obedient to Yan Xin.

He even said, "Husband, let's have a child too."

suddenly said such a sentence, which made Yan Xin stunned for a moment, and he didn't know what kind of state he was.

But in this case, he can only agree:

"Okay, we want a baby."

- Maybe it's just fun?

After a few struggles, he asked, "Do you like boys or girls?"

"Boys and girls...... It's good to be your child......" replied Elili.

When they finally rested, Alili came back to her senses and asked Yan Xin seriously:

"Husband, do you think boys or girls are better?"

Yan Xin's heart sank: "She doesn't really want to have a child with me, right?"

Answer, "It's okay, I'm not patriarchal, so I think each has its own benefits."

Then he smiled and said, "The best way is to have two, a son and a daughter."

"But you can only give birth to one...... " Arily said depressedly.

She was a little worried: "If you only give birth to one, if you give birth to a girl and can't inherit your Yan family, will you be angry?"

Yan Xin was funny again, and he was a little sad.

turned around and hugged her, and said, "No, I don't have any obsession with such a thing as inheritance, it's the same for boys and girls, as long as it's our child, it's treated well, you don't have to worry about this."

"But I've seen a lot of people quarrel and even get divorced over this issue," said Arilee.

She has lived in Xiaorong Town for a long time, and she has indeed seen a lot of such things.

One girl is okay, some pay a lot of money to give birth to a second girl, and there are really divorces because of this.

She herself wasn't quite sure if Yan Xin would be like this.

Because in her concept when she was a child, it seemed to be a very important thing to pass on the lineage.

Yan Xin now has a net worth of hundreds of millions, and when the time comes, he may feel uncomfortable if he has no son to inherit him.

I haven't asked such a question before, mainly because I feel that Yan Xin has not yet reached the age of marriage, and the matter of having a child is even farther away from him.

Now that I mentioned this, I couldn't help but ask.

There is still some apprehension in my heart - who can be sure that they will be able to conceive a son?

What if I had a daughter?

Yan Xin comforted her: "You don't have to worry about this at all, I'm not that kind of old feudal, my father won't think so, my son and daughter can accept it."

"Maybe you'll change your mind then......" Arily whispered.

"No, I don't have that in mind." Yan Xin assured her.

He really didn't have that in mind.

He can make such assurances.

What he can't guarantee is whether he will marry Arily in the future.

Feng Xi and Alili, which one to choose, he still can't make up his mind.

Ideas are always changing.

Seeing that Ellili was still a little worried, she said:

"Let's just say that I have that kind of feudal idea, and there's nothing to worry about, it's not that we don't have money, the first child is a daughter, it's a big deal that the second child learns Liang Wei to give birth abroad and enter the nationality of a foreign country, don't some celebrities do this? That's not a policy violation. Don't talk about the second child, the third child and the fourth child are no problem."

He knew that the policy would change in the future, and there was no need for Arily to worry about it at all.

It's just that there is no way to say this thing explicitly, so she can only find such a reason to reassure her.

He didn't have that in his own way.

Arily "Ahh

"I'm talking about what if," Yan Xin said, "Moreover, even if you go abroad to give birth, you don't have to worry, I will definitely accompany you, you won't be alone."

"Oh yes." Arily said.

When she said this, she became happy.

I finally let go of a big stone in my heart.

It's not a good solution, but it's better than no way.