While eating breakfast, Wu Xiuhong asked what was going on with Yan Xin and Feng Xi, and Yan's father, who usually doesn't like to talk much, couldn't help but asked some questions.

Yan Xin had already anticipated such a situation, and he had also thought about how to answer, so he easily coped with it.

Why didn't he say it was Feng Xi before, his explanation was that Feng Xi felt that he was still a college student, so he was a little embarrassed to fall in love, and he didn't want to make it public so early.

I want to think about the reputation of other girls, so I can only hide it.

Now to talk about this matter, it is the Mid-Autumn Festival to see that they are still worried about this problem, so they will say goodbye and say it to make them feel at ease.

Bai Xiaoling also confirmed on the side that she had known about this for a long time.

and said that he was able to find a job with Feng Xi, mainly because of this relationship, not Feng Chen's intercession.

There are a few things that make sense as soon as they are explained.

The old couple realized that there was a precursor for the two of them to be together.

It's just that Yan's father was a little worried, and asked Yan Xin: "I heard that their Feng Xi's own company is very profitable, can she afford you as a part-time worker?" ”

Bai Xiaoling couldn't help but laugh.

Wu Xiuhong glared at her: "What are you laughing at?" ”

Bai Xiaoling nodded at Yan Xin: "You ask our brother." ”

Yan Xin scratched his head and said, "It's not that I can't look down on her, her company, I still have a contribution." ”

He didn't say how much he had contributed, he didn't need to say it so clearly, just be vague.

Wu Xiuhong looked at Bai Xiaoling, Bai Xiaoling nodded, and said:

"You can rest assured, Sister Xi, she will definitely not look down on our brother because of money."

The old couple let go of half of their hearts.

Then he asked, "What kind of attitude is her family?" Is this acceptable? ”

Yan Xin smiled: "She also knows at home, I don't know what kind of attitude it is, but whether they can accept it or not, it doesn't matter, Feng Xi can still make decisions for himself." ”

He has this self-confidence.

In her previous life, Feng Xi was dissatisfied with her parents and couldn't get rid of them.

Probably because her brother is no longer there in her previous life, it is a responsibility that she can't shirk to support her parents.

There has been no sign of that in her life, and she has always been very distant from her parents and does not listen to them much.

Now her parents really can't control her.

She herself has expressed her attitude to Yan Xin that she will not care about her parents' opinions on marriage matters.

Since she doesn't care, no one can control her.

Yan's father and Wu Xiuhong had heard that the girl in the Feng family was not very obedient, and now when they heard Yan Xin say this, they were a little more relieved.

Finally, there is another worry: "If you marry her, will the bride price be very high?" ”

After all, he is the owner of the company, and he doesn't know how much money he makes, anyway, looking at the villa they built, he knows that the money will definitely not be less.

There are still some worries that the conditions offered by others are too high.

Yan Xin laughed: "You don't have to worry about the bride price, it's definitely not too high, it's probably on par with the average level on our side, it means a little bit, and people don't rely on this bride price to get rich." ”

He said it so surely, which made Yan's father worry a lot less.

In fact, if you think about it, it's good for my son and Feng Xi to be a couple, they are both from the same village, they know their roots, and they won't do anything too much.

And Feng Xi has also come to their house many times, and she feels that she is a very sensible girl, not at all like her parents said, an ungrateful white-eyed wolf.

When you come here to eat, you will take the initiative to help with housework.

He has good grades in reading, has a good personality, and can start his own company while still studying, and makes so much money.

Such a daughter-in-law is of course excellent.

Being able to marry such an excellent daughter-in-law can be said to be an ancestor who has accumulated virtue.

- In Yan's father's opinion, this is the case.

The only thing that made him a little worried was whether his son could be worthy of such a good girl.

But now the situation is that the woman doesn't care, and he, as the man's parent, of course, doesn't need to care about this matter.

Wu Xiuhong is also happy to see it.

My daughter works in another company, and if this boss becomes a sister-in-law, no one in the company will dare to bully.

She can also understand that her daughter can become a department manager in such a short period of time, and her salary income of thousands or even tens of thousands of dollars a month is not because of how good her skills are, but because Feng Xi sees it for Yan Xin's sake.

What is she to object to taking such care of her own daughter?

Of course, it is support, and I hope they can go on and grow old together.

The brother and sister were also quite tired all the way, and after breakfast, they both went back to the room to rest.

Yan's father and Wu Xiuhong were discussing the matter of their son and the Feng family's daughter being together.

They hope that this pair can be successful, but they are worried that the woman's family will disagree, and they are all in the same village, which is not good-looking.

Even if Yan Xin assured them that it didn't matter if the woman's parents agreed or not, Feng Xi herself would not care about her parents' opinions.

But they still have some worries, worried that the Feng family's parents will come to oppose this marriage, or ask for a huge bride price.

Even if it won't prevent the young couple from getting married in the end, it won't look good after all, and it will only make the neighbors see the joke.

Of course, worry is worry, and in general, Dad Yan is still happy in his heart.

Even if it doesn't look good in the end, as long as the son can get such an excellent girl, it doesn't matter if it's not good-looking at all.

It's just that if you can carry out this marriage smoothly and smoothly, there will be no moths, and that is the best.

Yan Xin tossed along the way, and he was very sleepy, and when he arrived upstairs in his bedroom, he took off his shoes and fell asleep.

One slept is two or three hours.

I was woken up by a phone call.

Feng Xi called: "My brother and their welcoming convoy are almost in the county seat, they will arrive in a while, and the banquet will start soon, have you set off?" ”

The custom here is that the daughter-in-law is invited to a banquet twice, once the night before, which is called a new house.

One is the noon of the main day, which is called the main seat.

Writing a gift book to receive red envelopes from congratulatory guests is also at noon.

The wine had been set up once last night, but neither of the parties to the marriage had come.

This is a special case, because the bride is from another province, and the wedding over there also has to be wine, and then it takes time to take it, and it is impossible to teleport over at once.

Then there is only a compromise.

It is not easy to ensure that the man's family completes the wedding on the right day.

In this great era, inter-provincial marriages can be seen everywhere, and some of the previous customs cannot be completed, so they can only be perfunctory in the past.

It's something that can't be helped.

There are some traditions that have died out because they don't fit the current rhythm of life.

"I was sleeping just now,......," Yan Xin said with some embarrassment.

"My brother is married, and you, as a brother-in-law, are not a little more active!" Feng Xi was a little depressed, counted him down, and then said, "Come over quickly, by the way, call your parents and your sister too." ”

"Uh......" Yan Xin hesitated, "Your parents, after knowing our relationship, what kind of reaction did they have?" ”

"It doesn't seem to be a reaction......," Feng Xi said, "Maybe they haven't treated me as a daughter for a long time, so let me be." ”

And then it was strange: "What are you asking for this?" ”

Yan Xin said: "I'm just worried that my parents have passed, and your parents want me to kidnap their baby daughter and want to do something to them, which is a bit unsightly." ”

Feng Xi sneered: "They only have a baby son, but no baby daughter." ”

He also assured Yan Xin: "Don't worry, they don't dare to do that, if they dare to do that, if they don't respect your parents, I will burn down the house!" That's a house built with my money! ”

Yan Xin Khan: "That's not necessary, today is your brother's big day, for your brother's sake, we can't make it so ugly." ”

"Okay, I'll listen to you, as long as they don't go too far, you can come quickly." Feng Xi said.

Under her urging, Yan Xin got up and knocked on Bai Xiaoling's door again:

"Xiaoling, hurry up and get up and change your clothes, and we'll have a wedding wine later!"

After waking her up, I went back to my room to wash my face, solve my metabolism, and then change my clothes and go downstairs.

It was past eleven o'clock, and Dad Yan and Wu Xiuhong had already changed into new clothes and were waiting there.

It's just that the two of them are also a little apprehensive, and it seems that they have the same worries as Yan Xin.

I was embarrassed to say it, but just asked Yan Xin: "Do you think it is appropriate for us to write a good etiquette score?" ”

When people here set up a banquet, they will set up a special table, invite a person to write a book of etiquette, and write all the gifts given by those who do not have a home to eat at the banquet.

This is a human relationship, and it must be written down.

This is called the Rite Spectrum.

In the future, when I go to someone else's house for a banquet, I will look at this etiquette and return the favor.

Of course, it is also necessary to take into account the problem of rising prices, and then adjust accordingly.

This was in 2008, when the neighbors went to the banquet, it was usually 50 yuan, and the relationship was 100 yuan.

If it is a relative who is close in blood, it will cost 200 yuan or more, and there are several thousand.

The Yan family has a good relationship with Yan Xin and Feng Chen, Bai Xiaoling works on Feng Xi's side, and the family is not short of money, so the old couple's initial plan was to go for two hundred yuan, which shows that the relationship with other people's families is different.

But now, it suddenly came out that Yan Xin and Feng Xi were engaged in a match, and that was the relationship between the prospective in-laws.

These 200 yuan are really unreachable.

But how much to give, they couldn't make up their minds, so they could only ask Yan Xin.

Yan Xin had already made preparations, took out a stack of banknotes from his pocket, and said to his father, "Write five thousand." ”

"Five thousand?"

The old couple was shocked.

- Is it necessary to have so many?

"Well, it's just five thousand," Yan Xin said, "It's not necessary to write too much, five thousand is almost enough, just get by on face." ”

He counted fifty hundred-hundred-dollar bills and gave them to his father: "This is the book of rites." ”

counted ten more to his father, and counted ten to Wu Xiuhong:

"This is the money for tea, our relationship with his family is different now, it doesn't look good on the face if it is missing, a thousand yuan should be about the same, it will not be less than those relatives in their family, then it's fine."

It is still the custom here, when the main banquet is opened, the bride will serve tea one by one, and the guests have to put money into the cup after drinking the tea, which is called tea money.

It's casual to give more or less, one or two pieces is fine, ten or eight pieces is fine, and it is not for nothing to give thousands and hundreds.

In the market here, if you are a neighbor, you will generally give five yuan, and those with a better relationship will give ten yuan and twenty.

Relatives will give more.

One gives a thousand, which is an absolute generosity, which is usually given by the man's parents.

- Father-in-law and mother-in-law are the first to drink tea, and they generally give the most.

The tea money belongs to the daughter-in-law's private money.

At this time, Bai Xiaoling also got dressed and went downstairs, and Yan Xin also counted ten for her.

Bai Xiaoling was stunned for a moment, surprised and delighted: "What are you doing with so much money?" ”

"If you drink the tea, wait for the bride to serve the tea, and put all the money into the teacup after you finish drinking." Yan Xin said.

Only then did Bai Xiaoling understand that it was not for her, but just for her.

Some feel sorry for the money: "What do you do with so much?" A hundred dollars is enough. ”

Yan Xin said: "It's not a matter of money, it's our family's attitude, do we respect Feng Xi enough." So, it's okay to give a little more. ”

"Okay, it's your money anyway." Bai Xiaoling said depressedly.

You're all set, lock the door and go.

This time it wasn't on foot, it was in the van.

It was Yan Xin who was driving.

At this time, Yan Xin was a little depressed, and felt that he should drive his Mercedes-Benz over to make it more face-saving.

He didn't fight for that face himself, he just drove a Mercedes-Benz over, which could make his parents more face, and he could also make the Feng family have more face.

——The future son-in-law drives a luxury car, which is also a long-faced thing for Feng Xi's parents.

The van is not faceless, but it is not that big.

Driving the van over, although the road is a bit detoured, but it is a little faster than walking.

After opening the cave, within a few minutes, I arrived at Feng's house.

However, he did not stop at the door of Feng's house, but drove directly to the river embankment and parked there.

At this time, Feng Chen's convoy had not yet come, and when the time came, the door of the house had to be full.

Before a few people walked to the door of Feng's house, Feng Xi had already greeted him with a smile, first greeting the two elders, and then greeting Bai Xiaoling, with a very enthusiastic attitude.

After saying hello, he took Yan Xin's hand.

This is a showdown in front of Yan's father, don't pretend, I'm your future daughter-in-law, you can do it.

Dad Yan was very happy when he saw such a picture.

Now that Feng Xi is in his heart, she is the future daughter-in-law, and the feeling of seeing her has become different.

It's just that he is clumsy in words, and he doesn't know how to express it, only that he is happy.

(End of chapter)