9 Senior Brother Liu Wangzu (2)
On this day, Liu Chengtian went to court.
Liu Wangzu studied the war book and strategy at home alone. The case studied is Sun Bin and Pang Juan. Don't study this matter, you are all admiring Sun Bin's forbearance and humiliation, and also admiring his proficiency in the art of war. But in Liu Wangzu's view, Sun Bin made at least three mistakes. This is a homework question left by Zhang Guolao for him.
When studying together, Sun Bin should have understood Pang Juan's arrogance and narrow-mindedness. Now that you have an understanding of this person, after coming out of Guiguzi, why is this Pang Juan the first to defect? Didn't he think that Pang Juan, a narrow-minded person, would create obstacles for him and even put him to death? Therefore, no matter how wise and decisive he was, he could not become the greatest military strategist. This was the first fatal mistake he made.
It was because of this fatal mistake that he almost took his own life. and turned him from a sturdy man into a crippled man. This is a crucial mistake caused by a lack of understanding of human nature. This is a mistake that a strategist should never make. To do a good job in strategy, it is necessary to pay attention to tactics, and the person who executes the tactical strategy is especially important. As the saying goes, it is up to people to make things happen, and it is up to heaven to make things happen. In fact, there is also a saying that the success or failure of a person who seeks work depends mainly on how he chooses. A person who executes his own strategy. That is, to look at the right person and use the right person. This is the premise of all strategies. Because the human factor is the most difficult factor to determine. By the way, the gist was not appreciated at this point. That's why a fatal mistake was made.
The second mistake is that from the perspective of military science, when Sun Bin debuted, Pang Jun was already a famous military strategist. He was reused by the king and became a general and mastered a country's army. Strategically, of course, he must be a far-sighted military strategist. He must also be a military wizard who is flexible in terms of tactics.
Sun Bin should know all this. So for a person with all kinds of strategies, he is still so naΓ―ve, putting himself between the applause of others, not to say that he is throwing himself into the net, at least he is not aware of the world. People who don't have the basic defense of people get such a tragedy, which is the inevitable result. It's a matter of course for people to play with applause.
The heart of harming others is indispensable, and the heart of guarding against others is indispensable, which is the most basic truth of being a human being. He didn't even know. After suffering a big loss, you can be called a strategist. Such a person is lacking in the basic principles of being a human being. No matter how great a person is, there is a process of growth, eating a trench and growing wisdom. It is also conceivable that after suffering such a big loss, he will eventually become a strategist. However, it cannot be forgiven.
If something happens, you won't grow, and you won't become a strategist. From this aspect, all people should learn a lesson and stop easily putting themselves into situations where they don't understand things and people, especially when they don't understand interpersonal relationships. It's easy to trust others. This can lead to extreme results.
This means that Sun Bin is a student of Guiguzi, and he is a top student. is not qualified. Not only does he lack a normal line of interpersonal communication defense, but he is also defenseless against his cronies and those he is familiar with, and finally puts himself in a dangerous situation. He almost lost his life. Fortunately, God still has a concern for him.
Be defensive in your interactions with each other. This is another lesson that Liu Wangzu learned from the struggle between Sun Bin and Pang Juan. It is also one of his negative arguments for Sun Bin. To deny Sun Bin is not to affirm Pang Juan. Because if you deny a gentleman, you can't become a villain.
Sun Bin's third mistake is the so-called forbearance and humiliation. was persecuted by Pang Juan, and he couldn't wake up. also blindly believes in others and trusts others, this is Sun Bin. The fatal mistake of all. I almost lost my life, and I haven't woken up yet. It's not so much that this is a person who is gullible about other people, but that there is a bit of a problem with IQ. In the end, I woke up when I was reminded by others.
To endure humiliation is to take revenge. But to endure humiliation is that you get humiliated first. The premise of getting humiliated is that you don't deserve to be humiliated. As a shrewd Sun Bin and strategist, Sun Bin being humiliated is inexcusable in itself. To endure humiliation and bear the burden, you can only retreat to the next best.
Bearing the burden of humiliation is authoritative, not strategic. If you do the strategic things in place, you will not be burdened with the burden of power and humiliation. This is the third conclusion that Liu Wangzu has reached. If you want to do things more beautifully, you must be strategically in place so that you don't bear the burden of humiliation. I don't know how to use power. In order to be strategic, a little bit of power can be used. But it is not possible to compensate for strategy with petty power. That's putting the cart before the horse.
Liu Wangzu is still confident in his thinking. I am thinking repeatedly, learning lessons, and improving my strategic thinking. In particular, the understanding of human nature, the understanding of the relationship between strategy and power. Let him be sublimated again.
Just as he was deep in thought, an auspicious cloud floated from the sky.
Zhang Guolao unknowingly came to Liu Wangzu's study. Looking at Liu Wangzu's thoughts, Zhang Guo smiled evilly. Then use your index finger to touch the brush on the table and fill the inkstone with ink. With another move of his finger, the brush magically landed on Liu Wangzu's face. A big question mark was drawn.
Liu Wangzu came to his senses all of a sudden.
Liu Wangzu immediately lifted his clothes, knelt down, and said loudly, "The apprentice greets the master." Greet the late, go to the master Haihan. β
Zhang Guolao appeared at this time, shook the sleeves of his robe with a smile, and then pulled Liu Wangzu up from the ground. Naughty said, "You apprentice, it's really boring." I'm going to play a joke on you, old man. But there you are kowtowing and prostrating. It's so embarrassing for the old man! β
Liu Wangzu said respectfully, "Don't dare." β
Zhang Guolao was still mischievous and said, "I'm very bored in Heaven alone, and I wanted to open my heart to you." I didn't expect you to be so decent. Can't you just play with me for a while, and then we can discuss the rules and regulations? β
Liu Wangzu continued, "How dare an apprentice be disrespectful to his teacher? β
Zhang Guolao had no choice but to behave. "My good apprentice, I ask you, when I leave, let you think about Sun Bin and Pang Juan. So did Sun Bin make any fatal mistakes? β
Liu Wangzu replied, "He had three fatal mistakes. β
Zhang Guolao, "First? β
Liu Wangzu, "Knowing people is not sparse." β
Zhang Guolao, "Second? β
Liu Wangzu, "Don't be stunned by the world." β
Zhang Guolao, "Third? β
Liu Wangzu, "Put the cart before the horse." β
Zhang Guolao, "The son can be taught." β
Liu Wangzu, "Master, can you explain it in detail?" β
Zhang Guolao, "The first point is the most critical. You can't even see a person clearly, what strategy are you talking about? Not to mention what kind of strategic military strategist. If you want to be a strategist and military strategist, you must first understand human nature. You need to have a deep understanding of the people you use. Only when we make good use of it accurately can we achieve our strategic goals and achieve our military goals. This is the premise of everything. β
Liu Wangzu, "The disciple thinks the same way. Mr. Jin's guidance made it clearer. β
Zhang Guolao, "The second point is his Achilles' heel. Being too kind makes people weak. If you don't defend against anyone, then you yourself will suffer. If you have the heart to guard against others, you may be victimized. If you don't defend yourself, you're bound to suffer. So understand human nature. In order to achieve the goal, sometimes people go beyond the bottom line. It will be unscrupulous. Therefore, we must be defensive in our dealings with others. We can't let it go unchecked, we have to take precautions. Always invincible. β
Liu Wangzu, "The apprentice has been taught." β
Zhang Guolao, "Putting the cart before the horse has caused a critical failure. When you are a human being, you cannot be a righteous person. When you do things, you can't do everything well. When you go to war, you can be wiped out because of small things. We need to solve strategic problems first. Then take tactical measures. In this way, we can achieve the goal of winning. β
Liu Wangzu, "The teacher is really a person who wakes up from his dreams with a word." β
Zhang Guolao, "It looks like you've thought this through." β
Liu Wangzu, "Isn't it all because of the teacher's on-demand during this period of time?" β