Chapter 416: The Filial Piety of the Three Little Ones
"Yes, however, they have other skills, both of them are quite proficient in medical skills, and both of them are a little unconventional in their beliefs, believing that qualitative self is more important than cramming."
"Cramming?" Mrs. Xu didn't understand.
Ding Xue flashed a moment of annoyance.
These are modern words that no one understands at all.
"It's education that doesn't care. What can a scholar learn if he doesn't even understand the basics? For example, the common people, the people don't know how to farm, how can they plant the fields well? Weavers don't know how to weave, and how to weave fabrics? To learn a line, you must understand a line. Looking forward to the carving, she must understand the posture of the carved things in nature, to learn the embroidery, she must understand the importance of color, and Anping, blindly copying others to get the most but progress, learning to develop oneself is transcendence. ”
What the older generation left behind is of course important, but on the road of learning, it is the most foolish to copy other people's thoughts and behaviors step by step.
Open your horizons, learn from the ideas of the pioneers, learn the knowledge of the ancestors and combine it with self-discovery, and it is not only the ancestors who are detached, but also yourself.
Ding Xuewei has already broken the truth and said it, and Mrs. Xu just wants to say that she can't do it if she doesn't make sense.
Suddenly, she thought of everything her eldest granddaughter had done and every word she had said.
If she hadn't developed herself extremely, how could she have the courage to borrow tens of thousands of taels of silver from others!
"You mean, let Jiang Er find a teacher who is willing to take him around to study?"
"If there is such a thing, of course it is good." Ding Xuewei didn't think that a master like Jin Lao and them was easy to meet: "No, it doesn't matter, my fifth uncle is preparing to go out." ”
"This... Won't it be too much trouble for your fifth uncle? "Mrs. Xu is a little unsure.
Ding Xuewei is understanding Ding Lao Wu, and she can't make decisions for others: "Go back and ask, if it doesn't work, I'll let people take Xiao Jiang." ”
In Mrs. Xu's mind, Ding Lao Wu can be described as the best teacher, and with him, he can rest assured.
The relationship between the two families is not bad, but they can't be embarrassed.
It's too early to say anything at this point.
"As I said before, their letter is coming soon."
When Ding Xuewei read the letter to Xu Jiang, Mrs. Xu hadn't woken up yet, so she asked this question, but she remembered that Ding Xuewei had mentioned that she sent a letter home every three months.
"It's been delivered." Ding Xuewei stood up and took the letter and silver ticket placed on the chair next to her.
After reading and explaining to Mrs. Xu one by one, they each took out a tenth.
"These two thousand taels were sent by Senior Brother Pandi, and I don't know what he thinks, I will ask people to buy land for him when I go back, these grandmothers will take care of them, and the three little ones are not around, what do you always want to eat, what do you want to wear, and watch some things yourself."
Mrs. Xu never thought that she would give herself money, and the amount was as high as 1,450 taels!
With so much money, the Xu family has never seen it when they are good!
"I eat well, dress well, where I need it." She did not hesitate to refuse.
Ding Xue smiled slightly: "I am by your side, I am naturally responsible for your food and clothing, the three little ones are not there, and they also have the ability to be filial to you, so they naturally have to be filial." ”
“··· Too much. Xu Pozi knew that she couldn't refuse, so she chose the smallest denomination of fifty taels.
Ding Xue pressed her hand slightly and stuffed a stack of silver tickets in her hand.
"Grandma's three children are very sensible, and this money will be sent back every three months, and you don't say that you will take it every time, at least once a year. Otherwise, let the three children know, I'm afraid you have to be careful if your grandmother doesn't like them! ”
If it weren't for Mrs. Xu being a worthy person, Ding Xuewei would not have said such good things, and it would be impossible for her to give away the money that the three little ones had worked hard to earn.
"Grandma, Anping hasn't seen you yet!"
Sure enough, when she said this, Mrs. Xu hesitated.
The eldest grandson is so enthusiastic, how can a few small ones go anywhere.
If they refuse this time, they will definitely make the three children feel that they don't like them!
In a daze, Mrs. Xu took the silver ticket.
"Not for example, with so much money, even a new dress a year is enough for me to wear until I die!"
"What did Grandma say?" Ding Xue frowned slightly, but she didn't say anything about how filial she would be in the future.
With Xu Jiang, the man of the Xu family, Mrs. Xu's good life should not be borne by her.
At least you can't lose the face of the children of the Xu family!
"Grandma is tired these days, so it's better to rest early after eating porridge." Glancing at Xu Jiang, she looked helpless: "Let him sleep will not be able to do anything!" ”
Mrs. Xu is tired, but she can sleep for half a day, and it is not early to determine that it is not early, but it is not easy to fall asleep when she lies down.
"You go and rest, grandma and your cousin will talk about it for a while."
Xu Jiang's baby hasn't rested well these days, and the psychological pressure of Mrs. Xu fainting before is great, if it weren't for the little maid's sincere heart, he wouldn't be distracted to learn backgammon with him.
"Good night grandma." He slid off the chair, turned his heel and whispered to Ding Xue: "Good night, cousin." ”
The ancients did not have the habit of bathing every day, the weather was hot, and it was very comfortable to wash with cold water placed in the room early, so Ding Xuewei didn't care about him anymore, and looked at Mrs. Xu when he entered the room.
"Before, I went to the Zhang family brothers and sisters and explained the situation in detail, and they agreed without hesitation. Turn around, decide to go, and you have someone to inform them. They can't leave this side, and it's up to them to decide what they're going to do after that. ”
I had only planned to delay it for two or three days.
Naturally, the time of Mrs. Xu's notice was relatively close, but fortunately they were delaying rather than setting off suddenly.
No, when the time came, no one was informed, so I found the door.
"In the past few days, they have been very tired, and they have taken people back and forth to go around the city again and again!"
"Did they help find me?" She really didn't know that.
Fang Heng is also an outsider, how did he know that the team looking for her was led by Xu Pozi's acquaintance!
"I have to thank them for coming back."
"They are all gracious and understanding, and they know that it was your idea for me to go to them, and this help is an opportunity for them to repay you." Mrs. Xu explained: "You have a big hand, don't scare people." ”
Ding Xue was speechless for a moment.
She just wanted to invite someone to dinner, and she didn't plan to do anything!
"There will be opportunities in the future, don't be deliberate, they, they haven't seen it, and they will be worried about a little gift! Do you remember when I gave them snacks? ”
In Ding Xuewei's opinion, cheap dim sum is sky-high and delicious for the low-level people living in slums, and it feels sinful to eat two bites.
Although she said that it was a thank you gift for taking care of Mrs. Xu's children and grandchildren, the reason why several families would take care of Mrs. Xu's children and grandchildren was not because they thought about what they could get one day, but because they were sincere.
To put it bluntly, the reason why they are so active these days is that they really care about her as a person, and second, they want to reciprocate.
With such a roar, begging for votes and collections·····
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