Chapter 283 There are many rights and wrongs in front of the widow's door
When Si Weimin heard his wife's complaints, he also blamed himself a little, and comforted: "I have wronged you during this time, I will ask them about their work tomorrow, see what they think, what grievances do you have to tell me, don't throw face at them, Xiaohui is more sensitive, she will think that you don't like her, and I only have four relatives in my family, sister-in-law, two nephews and a niece, Caizhen, I hope you can understand me." ”
This set of soft words is used well, Yuan Caizhen, who originally felt that she was very aggrieved, felt that she was not tolerant enough and didn't understand her husband anymore.
She feels sorry for her husband and has no relatives, and she is afraid that her husband will be estranged from her because of her niece's affairs, her husband and niece will live here for a period of time at most, and they will not live for a year and a half, so it is really not worth it to be separated from her husband for this matter.
"I'm not disgusted with them, I just think they should find a job to support themselves, it's better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish, forget it, since you have a plan in your heart, then you look at it and do it, don't worry, I won't give them a face."
"Thank you for understanding me." Si Weimin hugged his wife.
Yuan Caizhen felt a little more comfortable, and said curiously: "Xiaohui has also lived here for so long, why haven't I seen Tong Yao and Si Chen ask about them?" ”
Compared with Si Xiaohui, Yuan Caizhen likes Tong Yao and Si Chen more, she has been in contact with Tong Yao a few times, and thinks that Tong Yao has a good character, plus both families live in the same community, she wants to have a good relationship with Tong Yao.
Alas!
It's a pity that Tong Yao and Si Chen don't want to deal with them at all, thinking that they are still blaming their husbands in their hearts.
"They probably don't want to see me." Si Weimin took a deep breath and said softly: "Back then, I didn't take care of them, I didn't fulfill my obligation to be an uncle, and I abandoned their orphans and widows for so many years, but now that their conditions are good, I want to recognize my relatives, and it is understandable that they blame me." ”
Yuan Caizhen always felt that Si Weimin's words sounded weird, "Why did you say this, as if you were a negative man, and it was your wife and daughter who were left at home?" ”
The Si brothers and sisters blamed their husbands for not coming home for so many years, although Yuan Caizhen had some understanding, but also felt that her husband also had something unspeakable, after all, when her husband first came to Kyoto, life was also very difficult, if she didn't marry her without the help of her family, maybe they would all starve to death.
Besides, the husband is just the uncle of the Si family's brothers and sisters, not the father, and it is his duty to be willing to take care of them, and it is his duty not to be willing to help.
Everyone had a hard time before, who can help anyone?
"Don't talk nonsense." Si Weimin's face sank slightly, and he said sternly: "It's not easy for my sister-in-law to take care of the child alone, as the saying goes, there are many rights and wrongs in front of the widow's door, if this is heard, what will others think?" ”
"......" Yuan Caizhen also knew that she had said the wrong thing, but she felt that Si Weimin's reaction was a little big, "I just said it casually, and I don't mean anything else, your sister-in-law should be ten years older than you, right?" As the saying goes, the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, what can I say nonsense. ”
Hearing the words of the eldest sister-in-law, Si Weimin frowned, and immediately changed the topic: "It's not early, hurry up and go to sleep!" I have to send my children to school tomorrow morning. ”
Yuan Caizhen just lay down, thought of something, and said strangely: "By the way, when I was packing up my things yesterday, I saw Xiaohui's marriage certificate, and the date they received the certificate seems to be the day they came to Kyoto, why do I think it's a little strange?" Shouldn't you register before getting married? ”
Si Weimin said disapprerovingly: "What's strange about this, the countryside is all registered after getting married, and some marriages have not been registered for several years." ”
Hearing this, Yuan Caizhen didn't think much about it, "After the child goes to school tomorrow, I want to talk to Tong Yao." "Since Tong Yao can give Si Xiaohui the address, he must not be so resistant to them.
"Whatever you want, go to sleep!"
Si Weimin obviously didn't want to say more, and slept on the bed with his back to Yuan Caizhen.
The next day, Si Xiaohui and his family, as usual, slept until Yuan Caizhen cooked breakfast before getting up, and when the two finished washing, Yuan Caizhen sent the children to school.
Seizing the opportunity to be alone with Uncle Xiao, Si Xiaohui didn't regard himself as an outsider at all, and complained when he opened his mouth, "Uncle, my aunt is too much, let us eat the rest of her every day, and give us a face, she only cooks your son's eggs, and doesn't cook me and Song Yu, how good it would be if you didn't come out in the village at the beginning, our countrymen are enthusiastic, so we don't look down on people like Kyoto people." ”
Si Xiaohui didn't feel that he was under the fence at all, and he didn't feel that he was wrong to get up late, but felt that it was very wrong for Yuan Caizhen not to wait for him to eat.
Who doesn't wait for everyone to eat at home?
Yuan Caizhen obviously looked down on her.
Si Weimin only thought she was playing childish, and chuckled: "You want to eat boiled eggs, right?" Tomorrow I'll ask your little aunt to cook a few more. ”
"Uncle, I know that you love me the most." Si Xiaohui saw Si Weimin facing him, and his heart instantly felt a lot more comfortable, so he picked up the bun and ate it.
Song Yu's eyes swept back and forth on Si Xiaohui and Si Weimin, his heart was full of doubts, after this time of getting along, he found that Si Weimin loved Xiaohui very much, and he was very indulgent to her, and his tolerance for her was not like an uncle to his niece at all.
But the two of them are indeed uncles and nephews, he doesn't understand the reason, but he doesn't dig deeper, the uncle is good to Xiao Hui, now there is food, shelter and serving, and he doesn't want to leave the same life as the emperor.
Seeing that Si Xiaohui was in a good mood, Si Weimin took the opportunity to mention the matter of work, "Xiaohui, Song Yu, you have also been in Kyoto for a while, have you ever thought about what work you will do in the future?" ”
Since he arrived at Uncle's place, he has settled down on food and housing, and Song Yu has put aside the matter of finding a job, and now Si Weimin suddenly asked, Song Yu felt empty, and he didn't know how to answer, for a while, he smiled and said: "Uncle, I listen to Xiaohui about work." ”
He felt that his answer was perfect.
Let Xiaohui be the master, Uncle shouldn't have an opinion, right?
Si Weimin frowned, he tolerated Si Xiaohui because the two were related by blood, and letting Song Yu live in was all for Xiaohui's sake.
In the past half a month, although he has not had much contact with Song Yu, he is not too satisfied with this niece and son-in-law, and always feels that Song Yu has no opinions and is a little idle.
I've been living here for more than half a month, Xiaohui is not in a hurry to find a job, Song Yu is not in a hurry, I don't feel conscious at all, how can a big man support his family if he can't endure hardship?
"Uncle, we want to open a store, but we don't have any money in hand now, can you lend us a few thousand yuan?" Living here for half a month, Si Xiaohui also knows a little about Si Weimin's situation, the uncle does business, although it is not big, but there is no shortage of small money.
It's okay to lend them a few thousand dollars to do business, right?
It's not that they won't pay it back.
Hearing this, Si Weimin did not refuse, but asked, "What kind of store to open?" ”
(End of chapter)