054 Equality and respect
Monarch Li Man was very right-minded, and he had given Li Dawei and Wang Xiaojuan vaccinations a long time ago, and said that she would not drink alcohol.
At first, Li Dawei and Wang Xiaojuan disagreed, this is like a scolding, marriage does not do alcohol, and relatives and friends thought that they had quietly sold their daughter.
But Li Manjun's rhetorical question made Wang Xiaojuan rest half of her thoughts.
"What should I do if my family is so small? Not to mention my aunt and uncle, there are five or six tables in my hometown, how can we fit this house? ”
"As for going to my hometown to do it, Mom, you shouldn't want to go back to work tirelessly, let those people eat ready-made, right? They don't necessarily give us a courtesy, and if you're willing to let them eat and drink for free, I'm okay with that. ”
really let Li Manjun say it accurately, the other relatives in his hometown are okay, Li Dalong and Old Man Li have never given Li Dawei a courtesy.
Wang Xiaojuan's dream of marrying her daughter in the scenery was half awake in an instant, and she went to her hometown, but the scenery was not up, and it was difficult to get a house just out of the pavilion.
Thinking of the human debt of finding someone to help with the kitchen, they live in the town for a long time, they don't have much contact with their hometown, they usually have to go to work, and they can't go back to the countryside to help others, why should people help you?
Li Dawei was still a little hesitant, "What about going to the hotel?" ”
He saw that his colleague's son and daughter were invited to get married in the hotel, so he just paid for it, and the rest of the hotels did it for you, saving trouble.
Li Manjun asked sharply: "Don't you want to buy welfare housing?" Do we have so much money? ”
Li Dawei usually gives out a lot of gifts, he calculated, if there is a gift money, the hotel money can be offset.
If you don't, you'll really have no gift money.
After being entangled for a long time, until today, when Granny Qiao asked, Li Dawei was still very moved.
In the end, Li Manjun made a decision, "Then make three tables, one table for friends and colleagues of my parents, one table for relatives from my hometown, and one table for my uncle and aunt." ”
Li Dawei thought about it, didn't say anything, just acquiesced.
It's not good to do nothing, it's not good to do too big, and it's just right now.
"Is there anything else?" Granny Qiao asked.
Just talking about the woman's family, Li Dawei asked Zhao Yong what he thought.
Zhao Yong drank water as if he was drunk, looked at Li Manjun stupidly and said, "I listen to Manjun's arrangement, and she will do whatever she says." ”
"Okay, I'll tell you what I think." Li Manjun cleared his throat and said:
"No bride price or dowry, I have only one request, men and women respect each other equally, and share family responsibilities and household chores."
Granny Qiao glanced at Zhao Yong, you kid picked up a big bargain and met a woman who didn't want anything.
Zhao Yong smiled, he really took advantage of it and was able to marry a good woman like Li Manjun.
However, Li Manjun's requirements are not as easy as Granny Qiao thought, he understands what Li Manjun means, what she wants is not the kind of marriage state that everyone thinks, what she wants is respect, fairness, freedom, and independence.
Zhao Yong stood up, took the water cup and drank it in one gulp, and made a promise in front of Li Dawei and Wang Xiaojuan:
"Uncle and aunt, I will treat Manjun well in the future, she can do whatever she wants, I will never interfere, and maintain basic respect for her, you can rest assured!"
Li Dawei and Wang Xiaojuan stood up and gave him a toast in return, they were very relieved of him.
But for his daughter, it's not very reassuring.
Sure enough, in the next second, Li Manjun asked Zhao Yong sharply: "If I don't agree to have a child, can you respect it?" ”
Zhao Yong was obviously stunned for a moment, and Qiao's mother-in-law's face changed instantly, and Wang Xiaojuan shouted urgently: "Li Manjun, what nonsense are you talking about!" ”
"Joke, joke, Aunt Xiao Yongqiao, don't take it to heart." Li Dawei explained embarrassedly.
Li Lijun and Li Jianjun secretly gave the eldest sister a thumbs up, this is a real warrior.
It's just that what everyone didn't expect was that Zhao Yong, who was stunned, thought for a moment and said, "Then wait for you to be born when you agree to be born." ”
Wang Xiaojuan and Li Dawei raised their hands to wipe the sweat on their foreheads, and breathed a sigh of relief.
Li Manjun did not continue to ask more extreme topics, such as not giving birth in a lifetime, Zhao Yong is now satisfied.
This is the respect she wants, Zhao Yong is willing to give her this respect, and she has to give him some sweetness.
At the end of the meal, the two young people went out for a walk alone, and when they walked to the river, Li Manjun looked up and said to Zhao Yong:
"I like kids."
The surprise on Zhao Yong's face was almost uncontrollable, and he hurriedly grabbed her shoulder and asked, "Then you just said that you don't want to?" ”
"Did I say I don't want to?" Li Manjun smiled playfully, "I just want to think about what I think, not being forced to think about it." ”
Zhao Yong was stunned by her words, and asked urgently: "Then do you want to or don't want to?" ”
Li Manjun took away the big hand on his shoulder, turned around and walked forward happily, looking back at him and smiling, "Look at your performance in the future~"
Zhao Yong stopped in place and thought for two seconds, laughed, caught up with her in two big steps, looked left and right, there was no one around, grabbed Li Manjun's thin waist, lifted her up and pasted her heavily on the red mouth.
Li Manjun screamed in surprise, and then his head was full of black lines, and he punched Zhao Yong's hard chest, and she was wearing lipstick!
But Zhao Yong didn't notice it, he just thought that Li Manjun was shy and embarrassed to beat him, and it didn't hurt, he felt that it was more like flirting.
With a red lip print on his mouth, he asked Li Manjun diligently: "Good tomorrow, Children's Day, let's go to the Civil Affairs Bureau, right?" ”
Li Manjun thought about whether to tell him about the fading of the lipstick, and beckoned with a wicked smile, the man really took the bait, lowered his head in anticipation, and approached, Li Manjun stepped on his foot and kissed him on the face, leaving a red lip print.
Zhao Yong's deep black eyes instantly lit up with a raging fire, he couldn't stand her taking the initiative at all, but as long as she took the initiative, he wanted to eat her whole.
It's just that before he could act, Li Manjun had already run far away, grabbed a handful of blue wildflowers on the bank of the river, and waved him back.
On Children's Day, Li Manjun felt that it was not bad and agreed.
It's just that in this way, she can't pick up garbage with Sister Liu Yan, and when Zhao Yong and Granny Qiao leave in the afternoon, she has to go to the two to talk.
It is very likely that in the future, she will transfer the work in this heather town to Liu Yan's sisters and brothers.
After marrying Zhao Yong, she only occasionally went back to Shi Nan Town to live, and if she still wanted to get a share, even if Liu Yan's sister and brother didn't say anything now, there would be a gap between the two sides in the future.
Therefore, it is better to divide the accounts now, if Liu Yan's sisters and brothers still want to do business in Heather Town, she will leave it to them.
If neither of them did it, she wanted to hand it over to Hao Jian.
She also doesn't want the share of the town middle school, as long as Hao Jian goes to the countryside, help her inquire about old things, and she can give him dividends.
Those old things are really valuable, and now everyone doesn't have any sense of antiques.
But if in a few years, communication is fast and information is developed, there will be no chance for her to pick up cheap.
Therefore, we have to take advantage of the lag in news in recent years to collect more old items.