368 Separation anxiety
"Jianing's mother!"
A cry of surprise came from behind him, and Li Manjun and his wife looked back at it, it was Luo Fang and Luo Bin, who sent their son Luo Tiancheng to kindergarten.
"You're here, my daughter just went in, and we'll be watching outside the door for a while." Li Manjun smiled and waved at them, explaining why he was still standing here.
Other people's families are babies who don't let their parents go, but their family is good, and they forget their parents directly, but she and Zhao Yong are not at ease, standing at the door and watching.
However, this result is also the cause planted by her and Zhao Yong themselves.
They have always told their daughter that going to kindergarten is a place that only good children can go to, and it is a reward, so they are looking forward to going to kindergarten every year.
Because for children, going to kindergarten can prove that they are the best children, but there is a sense of accomplishment.
Luo Tiancheng called his uncle and aunt in a small voice, looking terrified, his eyes glanced at the children standing at the door of the kindergarten crying from time to time, and the fear and apprehension in his eyes were about to overflow.
Li Manjun and Zhao Yong took two steps back in an interesting way, signaling them to send the child in first and then chat.
"Mom~" Luo Tiancheng grabbed his mother's hand and didn't want to go in.
The teacher and the principal greeted him warmly and invited him to enter the kindergarten, "New students in the nursery class, the teacher is here."
Luo Bin pushed his son forward and encouraged, "Go in with the teacher, your parents will come to pick you up after school in the afternoon, you have to listen to the teacher, you know?"
Unexpectedly, when he pushed, Luo Tiancheng, who was already insecure, changed his expression in an instant, looking like he wanted to cry and was aggrieved, and he was reluctant to look at his mother, seeking a sense of security.
Luo Fang glanced at her husband with disgust, what are you doing in such a hurry, the child is even more scared.
Luo Bin shook his head helplessly, and muttered in a low voice, "Who didn't come here like this when we were young, we walked a few kilometers of mountain roads to school by ourselves at that time......
As soon as he saw that his son was timid and squeamish, he wanted to pull out his "glorious deeds" when he was a child, Luo Fang was already calloused, too lazy to pay attention to him, patiently told his son, don't be afraid, raise your hand to call the teacher if you want to go to the toilet, ask the teacher if you don't understand, and live in harmony with your classmates.
Under his mother's comfort and advice, Luo Tiancheng slowly adapted, and finally took the initiative to let go of his mother's hand and followed the teacher into the campus.
As soon as Luo Tiancheng entered, Li Manjun and Zhao Yong heard their daughter shouting in surprise: "Luo Tiancheng!"
"It's okay now, the two of them have company." Zhao Yong said with a smile to Luo Bin.
He could see that although Luo Bin played the role of a strict father, he was no less worried about his son than Luo Fang, and he had been secretly paying attention to it.
Luo Bin smiled at Zhao Yong, took out a cigarette and wanted to give it to him, "Get one?" Anyway, I'm going to be watching here, chatting and smoking.
Luo Fang and Li Manjun had already chatted with other parents of the small class, and when they saw Li Manjun's family happily entering the campus every year, they all asked her how she was educated.
"My child was so excited when she went out, her father and I thought that we would be able to enter the kindergarten smoothly today, but I didn't expect that as soon as the teacher came, she saw that my father and I were leaving, and immediately howled."
"My dad and I couldn't do anything, we coaxed him for a long time to no avail, and finally the teacher brought a small toy over to trick him in."
In such a comparison, Luo Fang felt that his son's performance was okay.
Pointing to Li Manjun and said, "Her daughter is very cooperative, and she went in happily, oh, it's the girl who cut her hair short over there, my son stuck to her side, holding the hand of the little girl tightly, and when she saw Jianing, she wasn't afraid."
[The app that has been running stably for many years is comparable to the old version of the book-chasing artifact, which is used by old bookworms.]
That's a good idea!"
Li Manjun smiled, but he was actually a little apprehensive in his heart.
Leaving the familiar people and environment for the first time every year, and having to spend a whole day in this unfamiliar environment, is a big test for her.
When all the children entered the kindergarten, the principal and teachers signaled to the parents to reassure them and locked the school gate.
"Let's go, let's go back to work." Zhao Yong pinned the cigarette that had been pinched on his fingertips for a long time to his ears, and called Li Manjun, who was chatting well.
Luo Bin also shouted that Luo Fang was gone, and the mothers separated.
Zhao Yong looked at the mothers with a business card in their hands, and looked at Li Manjun with a smile, "Mr. Li has sent business cards to people again?"
He saw a few mothers pouting and quietly throwing their business cards into the trash, probably seeing the word waste recycling, looking down on it.
If it weren't for the large number of people, and they were all parents of his daughter's classmates, he really wanted to go directly to the parents who threw the business cards and see their embarrassed faces.
Li Manjun doesn't care, he was thrown his business card not once or twice, and he was able to do it without any fluctuation in his heart a long time ago.
Anyway, cast a wide net, what if there is a harvest?
"Mother Tiancheng, then let's go first." Li Manjun said to Luo Fang, Luo Fang nodded, took a look at the school square where there was no one anymore, and left not very relieved.
On the way home, Li Manjun said to Zhao Yong: "I always feel like I have an empty piece in my heart, as if I have grown up every year, and we are no longer needed."
Zhao Yong didn't feel good in his heart, and patted his wife's shoulder, "It's just a little bigger, how can you not need us, haven't you always felt that you can get out of school every year, and now we should be happy."
"Yes!" Li Manjun tried to squeeze out a smile, "I want to be happy and celebrate freedom!"
Zhao Yong was amused by her actions, and the melancholy in his heart was also washed away.
The husband and wife returned to the parking lot and drove to the company.
just said that he didn't want his daughter, but his brain was uncontrollable.
When Li Manjun was working, he always looked at the phone, expecting the kindergarten to call, but also worried that the kindergarten would really call.
After a day of suffering, there was no phone call, indicating that I adapted well in kindergarten every year.
This should have been a happy thing, but as a mother, Li Manjun felt even more uncomfortable.
Steve knocked on the door, walked in, saw Li Manjun looking uncertain, and asked tentatively:
"Mr. Li, did you send your child to kindergarten today?"
Li Manjun nodded, wanting to learn from him, and asked curiously, "How did you feel when you sent your child to kindergarten? Do you feel uncomfortable?"
Steve put the material down, sat down in the guest seat opposite her, recalled how he felt back then, and sighed:
"It's really happy and sad, especially later when we find that our children are less dependent on us and more and more independent."