Chapter 1462: But I'm Really Incompetent
"I am Fang Ying's mother-in-law, Xiao Dudu's grandmother, taking care of Fang Ying's confinement and taking care of Xiao Dudu is a matter of course, and it is also my responsibility."
Hearing Jiang Li say this, Jiang Boya looked angry: "Deserved? As an elder, it is right for you, a mother-in-law, to take care of your daughters-in-law and grandchildren, but this does not mean that they are your responsibility, and it does not mean that they should be taken care of by you.
What's more, you are not in good health, we can obviously solve things with money, where do you need to do it yourself? Or do you only have love for your children and grandchildren, but you forget your filial piety to me, your grandfather, and your parents? ”
Hearing this, Jiang Li was stunned.
Jiang Boya accentuated his tone: "Li Li, if something happens to you, it will be unfilial piety to us as elders, and you don't want us white-haired people to send black-haired people, you can give me a little more leisurely in the future, I really can't help but take my body seriously."
Besides, when the children are older, whether they are married or married to a daughter-in-law, as adults, they know how to take care of themselves, and they know what their responsibilities and obligations are, and you don't have to think about them in everything. “
"Daddy, look at what you're saying,"
Jiang Li came back to her senses, she was a little helpless: "Parents worry about their children are the same, just like you are worried about my health, for many years, you have told me to go to the hospital for a check-up on schedule, and care about me and care about me, and I just stand in your perspective and give a little care to my children!"
What's more, my daughter-in-law is not a special case, I am her mother-in-law who takes care of her a little during the confinement, which is really nothing. “
"I didn't say I wouldn't let you take care of it, I mean you have to take care of your body."
Jiang Boya sighed lightly: "What do you say we are making money for?" Isn't it just to let the family have a good life, live a relaxed and happy life every day, since Zan has money, and there is a service organization like the confinement center, we spend some money to invite a few more people to help at home, isn't it good? ”
"I have a confinement sister-in-law and a child-rearing sister-in-law." Without waiting for Jiang Boya to speak, Jiang Li said again: "Every day, I just wash a few diapers for Xiao Dudu, and I don't do any heavy work. ”
Xiao Dudu uses diapers at night, only uses diapers during the day, and takes care of the little guy and daughter-in-law Fang Ying, she really doesn't feel tired.
Looking at Jiang Li steadily, Jiang Boya was silent for a while, and then said, "...... Okay, you have a point, I can't talk about you. ”
"Daddy! Don't be angry, I know you care about me, this illness is just an accident, as for my immunity has decreased, it may be related to the lack of exercise I do every day, and after I am discharged from the hospital, I promise to make myself diligent, insist on running every day, and raise my body well! ”
The ward was very quiet, Luo Yanqing and the others were standing aside as a background board, and seeing Jiang Li smiling flatteringly at Jiang Boya, his heart was quite complicated.
They naturally also knew that Jiang Boya said those words out of concern and distress for Jiang Li, which was true, but it made them feel deeply ashamed!
At about nine o'clock in the evening, only Jiang Li and Luo Yanqing were left in the ward.
"Xiao Li, I'm sorry!"
Luo Yanqing's chin was smooth, it was obvious that he had some stubble hanging after taking a bath, at this moment, he was refreshing and holding Jiang Li on the hospital bed, and whispered: "Don't take too much responsibility for yourself, Dad is right, Luo Mingrui and they are all older, they can take care of themselves, and they also know what their responsibilities are, you don't need to think about them like before, you should let go, and let them hold up a piece of the sky by themselves." ”
"Oh."
Jiang Li responded, and then asked, "Then what are you sorry for me?" ”
"I put the responsibility and burden on your shoulders, if I wasn't so busy at work, if I could be at home all the time, you wouldn't have to worry too much, and you wouldn't be tired."
Luo Yanqing's mood was a little low, of course, this depression came from his distress for Jiang Li, feeling that he was not a competent husband and father, so that the burden of the family and the responsibility for his children were all pressed on Jiang Li's weak shoulders.
Blame and chagrin engulfed his heart, and he tightened his arms and said "I'm sorry" again!
"You...... How can I say hello to you, this man? ”
Jiang Li pinched the man's handsome face: "After so many years of marriage, every time I have something to do, you will say sorry to me, Mr. Luo, haven't you always treated me as an outsider?" ”
"Absolutely not."
Luo Yanqing replied quickly.
"Really? If not, why are you telling me sorry? ”
Jiang Li snorted and said, "We are husband and wife, you are busy with work and have no intention of taking care of your family, I am your wife, shouldn't you worry about it more?" Besides, the nature of your work is there, and I don't have to mess with you to express how wronged I am. ”
"But I'm really incompetent."
Luo Yanqing said: "From the moment you and I got married, you were destined to have a hard time, and this is what I attached to you." ”
"Wrong. Let's not talk about whether it is hard to marry you, but I just chose to be with you willingly and self-inflicted, so I also ask Mr. Luo not to take responsibility for himself. ”
After a pause, Jiang Li continued: "In addition, don't take what Mr. Jiang said to me today, he just feels sorry for me as a father, but I really don't think how hard it is to take care of my daughter-in-law's confinement, besides, there is a confinement sister-in-law and a child-rearing sister-in-law as the main force, and sister-in-law Xu is here, think about it yourself, how hard can I go?" ”
"I feel sorry for you too."
Luo Yanqing's voice was a little muffled: "It's hard enough for you to take care of Luo Mingrui and them when they grow up, is it possible that your children should also take care of them all the time?" ”
"Do you think it's possible?"
Jiang Li asked with a smile.
Luo Yanqing: "When Luo Mingrui's daughter-in-law flew abroad, you can't help them take care of the children?" ”
“…… Do you remember how they grew up? If you don't remember, think about how the bean bag grew to where it is today. ”
To tell the truth, the children in the family, raised by Jiang Li in the real sense, are undoubtedly Mingrui, Minghan, and Mingwei, and the three dumplings, as well as Xiaodoubao, are all brought by specialized parenting teachers.
Taking a step back, from Mingrui to Xiao Mingxiu, the seven children in the family are quite sensible, even if Minghan and Mingchen were naughty when they were children, they didn't match the bear children.
Another smart head, he has never let Jiang Li worry about his studies.
Of course, in life, Jiang Li also didn't work hard.
Because after Ming Rui was eight years old, he learned to do laundry and cook in a short period of time, and he had the ability to live independently.
It can be said that the seven brothers and sisters are all good in the hall and in the kitchen, and they are not the kind of high-scoring and imbeciles.
"I am Fang Ying's mother-in-law, Xiao Dudu's grandmother, taking care of Fang Ying's confinement and taking care of Xiao Dudu is a matter of course, and it is also my responsibility."
Hearing Jiang Li say this, Jiang Boya looked angry: "Deserved? As an elder, it is right for you, a mother-in-law, to take care of your daughters-in-law and grandchildren, but this does not mean that they are your responsibility, and it does not mean that they should be taken care of by you.
What's more, you are not in good health, we can obviously solve things with money, where do you need to do it yourself? Or do you only have love for your children and grandchildren, but you forget your filial piety to me, your grandfather, and your parents? ”
Hearing this, Jiang Li was stunned.
Jiang Boya accentuated his tone: "Li Li, if something happens to you, it will be unfilial piety to us as elders, and you don't want us white-haired people to send black-haired people, you can give me a little more leisurely in the future, I really can't help but take my body seriously."
Besides, when the children are older, whether they are married or married to a daughter-in-law, as adults, they know how to take care of themselves, and they know what their responsibilities and obligations are, and you don't have to think about them in everything. “
"Daddy, look at what you're saying,"
Jiang Li came back to her senses, she was a little helpless: "Parents worry about their children are the same, just like you are worried about my health, for many years, you have told me to go to the hospital for a check-up on schedule, and care about me and care about me, and I just stand in your perspective and give a little care to my children!"
What's more, my daughter-in-law is not a special case, I am her mother-in-law who takes care of her a little during the confinement, which is really nothing. “
"I didn't say I wouldn't let you take care of it, I mean you have to take care of your body."
Jiang Boya sighed lightly: "What do you say we are making money for?" Isn't it just to let the family have a good life, live a relaxed and happy life every day, since Zan has money, and there is a service organization like the confinement center, we spend some money to invite a few more people to help at home, isn't it good? ”
"I have a confinement sister-in-law and a child-rearing sister-in-law." Without waiting for Jiang Boya to speak, Jiang Li said again: "Every day, I just wash a few diapers for Xiao Dudu, and I don't do any heavy work. ”
Xiao Dudu uses diapers at night, only uses diapers during the day, and takes care of the little guy and daughter-in-law Fang Ying, she really doesn't feel tired.
Looking at Jiang Li steadily, Jiang Boya was silent for a while, and then said, "...... Okay, you have a point, I can't talk about you. ”
"Daddy! Don't be angry, I know you care about me, this illness is just an accident, as for my immunity has decreased, it may be related to the lack of exercise I do every day, and after I am discharged from the hospital, I promise to make myself diligent, insist on running every day, and raise my body well! ”
The ward was very quiet, Luo Yanqing and the others were standing aside as a background board, and seeing Jiang Li smiling flatteringly at Jiang Boya, his heart was quite complicated.
They naturally also knew that Jiang Boya said those words out of concern and distress for Jiang Li, which was true, but it made them feel deeply ashamed!
At about nine o'clock in the evening, only Jiang Li and Luo Yanqing were left in the ward.
"Xiao Li, I'm sorry!"
Luo Yanqing's chin was smooth, it was obvious that he had some stubble hanging after taking a bath, at this moment, he was refreshing and holding Jiang Li on the hospital bed, and whispered: "Don't take too much responsibility for yourself, Dad is right, Luo Mingrui and they are all older, they can take care of themselves, and they also know what their responsibilities are, you don't need to think about them like before, you should let go, and let them hold up a piece of the sky by themselves." ”
"Oh."
Jiang Li responded, and then asked, "Then what are you sorry for me?" ”
"I put the responsibility and burden on your shoulders, if I wasn't so busy at work, if I could be at home all the time, you wouldn't have to worry too much, and you wouldn't be tired."
Luo Yanqing's mood was a little low, of course, this depression came from his distress for Jiang Li, feeling that he was not a competent husband and father, so that the burden of the family and the responsibility for his children were all pressed on Jiang Li's weak shoulders.
Blame and chagrin engulfed his heart, and he tightened his arms and said "I'm sorry" again!
"You...... How can I say hello to you, this man? ”
Jiang Li pinched the man's handsome face: "After so many years of marriage, every time I have something to do, you will say sorry to me, Mr. Luo, haven't you always treated me as an outsider?" ”
"Absolutely not."
Luo Yanqing replied quickly.
"Really? If not, why are you telling me sorry? ”
Jiang Li snorted and said, "We are husband and wife, you are busy with work and have no intention of taking care of your family, I am your wife, shouldn't you worry about it more?" Besides, the nature of your work is there, and I don't have to mess with you to express how wronged I am. ”
"But I'm really incompetent."
Luo Yanqing said: "From the moment you and I got married, you were destined to have a hard time, and this is what I attached to you." ”
"Wrong. Let's not talk about whether it is hard to marry you, but I just chose to be with you willingly and self-inflicted, so I also ask Mr. Luo not to take responsibility for himself. ”
After a pause, Jiang Li continued: "In addition, don't take what Mr. Jiang said to me today, he just feels sorry for me as a father, but I really don't think how hard it is to take care of my daughter-in-law's confinement, besides, there is a confinement sister-in-law and a child-rearing sister-in-law as the main force, and sister-in-law Xu is here, think about it yourself, how hard can I go?" ”
"I feel sorry for you too."
Luo Yanqing's voice was a little muffled: "It's hard enough for you to take care of Luo Mingrui and them when they grow up, is it possible that your children should also take care of them all the time?" ”
"Do you think it's possible?"
Jiang Li asked with a smile.
Luo Yanqing: "When Luo Mingrui's daughter-in-law flew abroad, you can't help them take care of the children?" ”
“…… Do you remember how they grew up? If you don't remember, think about how the bean bag grew to where it is today. ”
To tell the truth, the children in the family, raised by Jiang Li in the real sense, are undoubtedly Mingrui, Minghan, and Mingwei, and the three dumplings, as well as Xiaodoubao, are all brought by specialized parenting teachers.
Taking a step back, from Mingrui to Xiao Mingxiu, the seven children in the family are quite sensible, even if Minghan and Mingchen were naughty when they were children, they didn't match the bear children.
Another smart head, he has never let Jiang Li worry about his studies.
Of course, in life, Jiang Li also didn't work hard.
Because after Ming Rui was eight years old, he learned to do laundry and cook in a short period of time, and he had the ability to live independently.
It can be said that the seven brothers and sisters are all good in the hall and in the kitchen, and they are not the kind of high-scoring and imbeciles.
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