1466 How Can I Believe This?
After a short silence, Jiang Li accentuated: "I also have a daughter myself, have you seen that I am patriarchal and ignore my daughter?" Or do you think your mother is patriarchal and dislikes you as a girl? ”
Lin Ran's cheeks were hot, and his head drooped lower and lower.
"Your mother loves you very much, and I love my daughter very much, from your family to our family, there is no patriarchal thinking, why don't you treat your daughter? And you have quarreled with Minghan at every turn because of your two children in the past two years, do you think Minghan is at fault? I can understand how many shortcomings you have as a first-time parent, but I am very disappointed that you prefer sons over daughters and the change in your attitude towards Kangkang after having your own children! ”
Jiang Li looked at Lin Ran steadily: "I know my own child, I know very well that he will not have nothing to do, quarrel with his wife, so to speak, my children are not unreasonable, they know that husband and wife should be tolerant, to understand and trust each other, and to be tolerant when they should be tolerant, because before they got married, I warned them one by one, I just hope that they can live a happy life and avoid discord in their married life because of a little thing, so as to consume the feelings of husband and wife."
But because of some of your own thoughts, you sprinkled your anger on Minghan again and again, I knew that I could endure it once or twice, or even three or four times, but I endured it many times, as a mother, can I not feel sorry for my son?
But no matter how distressed I am, have I ever accused you of anything? I pretended to be deaf and dumb, and to this day, if I hadn't heard Kiki's cry, I wouldn't have come to your courtyard and said what I just said to you.
However, the original intention of saying those words is to wake you up and prevent you from continuing to make mistakes, it would be best if you could listen to them, on the contrary, you can consider whether your marriage with Minghan is still necessary! ”
Lin Ran's face turned pale in an instant, she really angered her mother-in-law this time, otherwise, her mother-in-law would not want her to divorce Luo Minghan, thinking of this, Lin Ran's eyes turned red, and then tears rained down, she said: "Mom, I was wrong!" I have memorized everything you said, from now on...... From now on, I won't quarrel with Minghan again, especially when I lose my temper in front of my two children. ”
However, Jiang Li did not respond when he heard this.
Seeing this, Lin Ran couldn't help but be sad and said: "Mom, I will love Kang Kang as my own child, and I will love Qiqi well!" ”
"How can I believe that?"
Jiang Li raised his eyebrows slightly, and his voice was cold.
Obviously, she was skeptical of Lin Ran's assurance.
“……”
looked at Ming Han with tearful eyes, but Lin Ran found that Ming Han didn't seem to notice it at all, and didn't look at her at all, for a while, her heartstrings were tense, and she had to make a ruinous decision, only to hear her say: "Mom, if I can't make changes, continue to quarrel with Ming Han over the children's affairs, and ignore the two children, as long as you are known, I will take the initiative to leave this home and go through divorce procedures with Ming Han!" ”
When these words came out, Lin Ran's biggest feeling was that his heart was like a knife, and he was so painful that he couldn't breathe.
"Okay, this is what you said, I hope you will do what you say, otherwise, once you make a fuss in front of Minghan about the children, and you can't fulfill your responsibilities as mothers to the two children, I will personally watch you leave this home, and by the way, go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to watch Minghan end the marriage relationship with you!"
Speaking of this, Jiang Li shifted his gaze to Ming Han: "Blind tolerance is not really good for a person, you have to remember that everything must have a degree, if it exceeds this degree, there will be unpredictable consequences." ”
Standing up, Jiang Li's expression was solemn, she quietly looked at Ming Han and Lin Ran, these two stood up together when Jiang Li got up.
"Ten years of repairing in the same boat, a hundred years of repairing and sleeping together, you can become husband and wife, which means that there is fate between you, but the relationship between husband and wife needs to be managed carefully, otherwise, even if this fate is deep, it will one day be exhausted, and at that time, everything will be fine if you don't regret it, after all, although the broken mirror can be reunited, but it has cracks in the end."
Jiang Li said earnestly, and when she saw Minghan and Lin Ran bowing their heads together, she left a sentence: "You all think about it!" As the sound fell, she walked away.
The footsteps in the courtyard gradually disappeared, Lin Ran choked up, and apologized to Minghan: "I'm sorry! ”
"No, I'm also at fault, if I had cared more about you, we wouldn't have quarreled so often." Although he said so, Minghan felt a little depressed in his heart, that is, he didn't think that he didn't care enough about Lin Ran's wife, in fact, it was indeed Minghan who was thinking like this at the moment.
Let's put it this way, whether at home or outside, Minghan has always taken Lin Ran to heart, even if there are two children between the husband and wife, how to treat Lin Ran, Minghan still treats her, but not because of the addition of two children, as Lin Ran thinks about herself, she ignores her, and spends all her energy on the child.
However, Lin Ran got into the tip of the horns, and occasionally she called Ming Han, and Ming Han was telling a story to the two children, and the response she gave was slower, so Lin Ran mistakenly thought that she was ignoring her.
Or Minghan washed the clothes of their family of four at home on the weekend, but Lin Ran wanted to go shopping, Minghan responded that he would wait until he finished washing his clothes, Lin Ran thought that this was Minghan's impatience and shirk.
In short, Lin Ran drilled the tip of the bull's horns and used her thoughts to judge Minghan's words and deeds, feeling that she was neglected, and felt that it was Kang Kang and Qiqi who snatched Minghan's attention, causing Minghan to alienate and treat her coldly day by day.
At this moment, it doesn't matter what Ming Han thinks, he only knows that his daughter-in-law needs to be coaxed, and for the sake of family harmony, for the two children to be cared for by their mothers, he has to coax Lin Ran well.
Based on this, taking half of the fault on himself, Minghan doesn't think it's a big deal.
"No...... It's not like that, you're not wrong, it's because I think too much, and I forget my responsibilities as a mother, so I often quarrel with you because of my children, to put it bluntly, it's just that I'm just pretentious to have a good life! ”
Listening to Lin Ran's words, Ming Han stretched out his arms to hug the other party: "Okay, let it pass, let's live a good life from now on and raise the two children well." ”
Lin Ran said a soft "um" in a nasal voice.
The couple reconciled, and the atmosphere between the family of four gradually became warm and harmonious as time passed.
After a short silence, Jiang Li accentuated: "I also have a daughter myself, have you seen that I am patriarchal and ignore my daughter?" Or do you think your mother is patriarchal and dislikes you as a girl? ”
Lin Ran's cheeks were hot, and his head drooped lower and lower.
"Your mother loves you very much, and I love my daughter very much, from your family to our family, there is no patriarchal thinking, why don't you treat your daughter? And you have quarreled with Minghan at every turn because of your two children in the past two years, do you think Minghan is at fault? I can understand how many shortcomings you have as a first-time parent, but I am very disappointed that you prefer sons over daughters and the change in your attitude towards Kangkang after having your own children! ”
Jiang Li looked at Lin Ran steadily: "I know my own child, I know very well that he will not have nothing to do, quarrel with his wife, so to speak, my children are not unreasonable, they know that husband and wife should be tolerant, to understand and trust each other, and to be tolerant when they should be tolerant, because before they got married, I warned them one by one, I just hope that they can live a happy life and avoid discord in their married life because of a little thing, so as to consume the feelings of husband and wife."
But because of some of your own thoughts, you sprinkled your anger on Minghan again and again, I knew that I could endure it once or twice, or even three or four times, but I endured it many times, as a mother, can I not feel sorry for my son?
But no matter how distressed I am, have I ever accused you of anything? I pretended to be deaf and dumb, and to this day, if I hadn't heard Kiki's cry, I wouldn't have come to your courtyard and said what I just said to you.
However, the original intention of saying those words is to wake you up and prevent you from continuing to make mistakes, it would be best if you could listen to them, on the contrary, you can consider whether your marriage with Minghan is still necessary! ”
Lin Ran's face turned pale in an instant, she really angered her mother-in-law this time, otherwise, her mother-in-law would not want her to divorce Luo Minghan, thinking of this, Lin Ran's eyes turned red, and then tears rained down, she said: "Mom, I was wrong!" I have memorized everything you said, from now on...... From now on, I won't quarrel with Minghan again, especially when I lose my temper in front of my two children. ”
However, Jiang Li did not respond when he heard this.
Seeing this, Lin Ran couldn't help but be sad and said: "Mom, I will love Kang Kang as my own child, and I will love Qiqi well!" ”
"How can I believe that?"
Jiang Li raised his eyebrows slightly, and his voice was cold.
Obviously, she was skeptical of Lin Ran's assurance.
“……”
looked at Ming Han with tearful eyes, but Lin Ran found that Ming Han didn't seem to notice it at all, and didn't look at her at all, for a while, her heartstrings were tense, and she had to make a ruinous decision, only to hear her say: "Mom, if I can't make changes, continue to quarrel with Ming Han over the children's affairs, and ignore the two children, as long as you are known, I will take the initiative to leave this home and go through divorce procedures with Ming Han!" ”
When these words came out, Lin Ran's biggest feeling was that his heart was like a knife, and he was so painful that he couldn't breathe.
"Okay, this is what you said, I hope you will do what you say, otherwise, once you make a fuss in front of Minghan about the children, and you can't fulfill your responsibilities as mothers to the two children, I will personally watch you leave this home, and by the way, go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to watch Minghan end the marriage relationship with you!"
Speaking of this, Jiang Li shifted his gaze to Ming Han: "Blind tolerance is not really good for a person, you have to remember that everything must have a degree, if it exceeds this degree, there will be unpredictable consequences." ”
Standing up, Jiang Li's expression was solemn, she quietly looked at Ming Han and Lin Ran, these two stood up together when Jiang Li got up.
"Ten years of repairing in the same boat, a hundred years of repairing and sleeping together, you can become husband and wife, which means that there is fate between you, but the relationship between husband and wife needs to be managed carefully, otherwise, even if this fate is deep, it will one day be exhausted, and at that time, everything will be fine if you don't regret it, after all, although the broken mirror can be reunited, but it has cracks in the end."
Jiang Li said earnestly, and when she saw Minghan and Lin Ran bowing their heads together, she left a sentence: "You all think about it!" As the sound fell, she walked away.
The footsteps in the courtyard gradually disappeared, Lin Ran choked up, and apologized to Minghan: "I'm sorry! ”
"No, I'm also at fault, if I had cared more about you, we wouldn't have quarreled so often." Although he said so, Minghan felt a little depressed in his heart, that is, he didn't think that he didn't care enough about Lin Ran's wife, in fact, it was indeed Minghan who was thinking like this at the moment.
Let's put it this way, whether at home or outside, Minghan has always taken Lin Ran to heart, even if there are two children between the husband and wife, how to treat Lin Ran, Minghan still treats her, but not because of the addition of two children, as Lin Ran thinks about herself, she ignores her, and spends all her energy on the child.
However, Lin Ran got into the tip of the horns, and occasionally she called Ming Han, and Ming Han was telling a story to the two children, and the response she gave was slower, so Lin Ran mistakenly thought that she was ignoring her.
Or Minghan washed the clothes of their family of four at home on the weekend, but Lin Ran wanted to go shopping, Minghan responded that he would wait until he finished washing his clothes, Lin Ran thought that this was Minghan's impatience and shirk.
In short, Lin Ran drilled the tip of the bull's horns and used her thoughts to judge Minghan's words and deeds, feeling that she was neglected, and felt that it was Kang Kang and Qiqi who snatched Minghan's attention, causing Minghan to alienate and treat her coldly day by day.
At this moment, it doesn't matter what Ming Han thinks, he only knows that his daughter-in-law needs to be coaxed, and for the sake of family harmony, for the two children to be cared for by their mothers, he has to coax Lin Ran well.
Based on this, taking half of the fault on himself, Minghan doesn't think it's a big deal.
"No...... It's not like that, you're not wrong, it's because I think too much, and I forget my responsibilities as a mother, so I often quarrel with you because of my children, to put it bluntly, it's just that I'm just pretentious to have a good life! ”
Listening to Lin Ran's words, Ming Han stretched out his arms to hug the other party: "Okay, let it pass, let's live a good life from now on and raise the two children well." ”
Lin Ran said a soft "um" in a nasal voice.
The couple reconciled, and the atmosphere between the family of four gradually became warm and harmonious as time passed.
After a short silence, Jiang Li accentuated: "I also have a daughter myself, have you seen that I am patriarchal and ignore my daughter?" Or do you think your mother is patriarchal and dislikes you as a girl? ”
Lin Ran's cheeks were hot, and his head drooped lower and lower.
"Your mother loves you very much, and I love my daughter very much, from your family to our family, there is no patriarchal thinking, why don't you treat your daughter? And you have quarreled with Minghan at every turn because of your two children in the past two years, do you think Minghan is at fault? I can understand how many shortcomings you have as a first-time parent, but I am very disappointed that you prefer sons over daughters and the change in your attitude towards Kangkang after having your own children! ”
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