Chapter 225: You must not have children yet
Wan Manfen's mother looks like she hates iron but not steel.
"Only got 99 points?"
Lin Haoyu repeated her words.
"Out of 100, is 99 points a lot?"
Lin Haoyu finally couldn't control his emotions and asked.
His words made Wan Manfen and his mother stunned.
Although Wan Manfen's mother didn't know why Lin Haoyu seemed to be a little angry, she still explained seriously.
"You don't know, he shouldn't have lost that point, the neighbor's children all took the test 100, and he only got 99, what a shame ......"
Wan Manfen has been listening to his mother's counts on himself with his head down.
His eyes filled with tears.
Because Lin Haoyu has been on the live broadcast.
So at this moment, netizens in the live broadcast room have seen this scene.
And the number of mothers who have a perfect score for their children seems to remind them of their parents.
"The memories of the dead attack me, and I seem to feel the pressure that my parents used to give me again."
"This kind of number is so familiar, I think of myself when I was a child."
"I can't stand it, why do all parents have to nag so much."
"The key score is 99 points, why is his mother still so unhappy."
And there is still such a group of people in the live broadcast room at the moment, this is a junior high school classroom.
Mr. Li, the head teacher, is a fan of Lin Haoyu, as a fan, he heard in the live broadcast room that Lin Haoyu was going to visit Wanmanfen's mother, so today he specially turned on the live broadcast and watched it with his classmates.
He was also very curious about what Lin Haoyu would say this time, but he felt that this matter should be very educational, so he asked his classmates to watch it together.
Lin Haoyu couldn't bear it anymore, and he asked again.
"Full score Mom, is it really bad to score 99 out of 100? He's already in the top three of his class, why aren't you satisfied? ”
Lin Haoyu's questioning silenced the netizens in the live broadcast room.
Faced with this question, no one can give a standard answer.
Instead, it attracted the memories of some netizens.
"Seeing my mother, I suddenly remembered one thing when I was a child, my grandfather was a calligrapher, so my parents wanted to train me to learn calligraphy, but I was still young at that time, and I was not interested in these things, but under the pressure of my parents, I could only study with my grandfather every day, because of the learning environment, I made rapid progress."
"Later, I represented the school in the provincial calligraphy competition, and successfully won the prize, and I won the third place in the province. At that time, I was so happy, I went to my parents with a certificate, I thought they would praise me, but all I got was a dissatisfied question from my parents, why it was not the first place, and the third place was not shameful enough. ”
"I don't understand, is the third place in the province really bad? And it was my first time participating in the competition, I was already interested in calligraphy, but after this competition, I no longer want to learn calligraphy, no matter how they forced me, they will never understand, how sad I was at that time, I tried my best to learn calligraphy, in the end in exchange for not praise, but dissatisfaction and reprimand, in this case, why should I be learning. ”
Another netizen also remembered his past.
"When I was a child, I didn't study well, I always failed, I was counting down in the class, my parents always beat and scolded me at every turn, and then I suddenly opened my mind and started to study seriously, I remember one time, I took the top 20 in the class, and I made a big improvement all of a sudden, and I was very happy."
"When I went home and told my parents, I thought they would be as happy as me, but when they saw my results, not only did they not praise me, but also said that I was still far worse than others, and any child in the neighborhood was better than me, I was really sad at that time, I worked so hard, why can't I get an affirmation."
"It's just a reflection of who I am."
"Parents all over the world are the same, they will never see your strengths and progress, and they will always only see your shortcomings and shortcomings."
"In the eyes of parents, maybe it will always be other people's children who are better, can't they see the advantages of their own children?"
Netizens in the live broadcast room all sighed.
Teacher Li, the junior high school homeroom teacher who was also in the live broadcast room, blushed at this time.
Aren't these netizens talking about themselves?
She also has a child, because she is a teacher, she will tutor her child to study when she has time, and the child is also very hard-working and has good grades, but she rarely praises her, and always reprimands her involuntarily.
Even once she made a big improvement, from more than 20 in her class to the top 10 at once, although she was very happy.
But he still taught her with a straight face, "It's only tenth, you haven't worked hard enough, hurry up and study." ”
Did you do something wrong?
At this time, the full score mother sighed after listening to Lin Haoyu's words.
"You may not have children yet, you don't know, I'm doing this for his good."
Hearing the words of the full score mother, Mr. Li echoed in his heart.
Yes, the reason why I say her is for her good.
"For his good? That's what I hate the most. ”
Lin Haoyu said unceremoniously to the full score mother.
"As a parent, it's your responsibility to educate your children, but I don't know when it started, and that responsibility has changed."
"You can help him when he makes mistakes, and you can guide him when he is confused, but you don't allow him to make mistakes, and you don't always accuse him of doing wrong."
"It's not about interfering in his life for his good, and let him live his life the way you want."
Lin Haoyu's words made Wanmanfen's mother speechless.
Teacher Li on the other end of the live broadcast room also fell silent.
Did you really do something wrong?
He is a teacher, he thinks it is very good to be a teacher, he belongs to the iron rice bowl, and there are winter and summer vacations, he usually deals with children, and the environment is simple.
As a girl, being a teacher not only has a stable job, but also has a better impression of the profession when looking for a partner.
But her own child does not like to be a teacher, and her dream is to be a dancer.
I don't agree with it, and I always hit her.
"There are a few people who can really become dancers, and there are very few people like that, and it is not easy to find a job after learning dance.
Listen to your mother, it's good to be a teacher, your job will be stable in the future, and it's easy to find a partner, your mother won't hurt you, your mother is all for your good. ”
Every time I finished speaking, I saw my daughter's face disappointed.
Although her daughter didn't say anything, she often secretly went to the dance studio to learn to dance by herself in private.
Thinking of what Lin Haoyu said today, Teacher Li was silent.
Did you really do something wrong?
Am I not doing it for her good?