Chapter 400: Parents' Reflections!
Even Sun Fengyang, the parent who scolded his child's grades just now, realized his extremism for the first time.
As a child of a single-parent family, Sun Ming did not receive much love.
In order to provide a good living environment for his children, Sun Fengyang quit his job and chose to go to the sea to do business.
For more than ten years, he has devoted himself to business.
The money is indeed not less, and the house and car are all bought, but the care for his son is not as good as day by day.
It can be said that Sun Ming was brought up by his grandmother and grandfather since childhood.
Due to the lack of time to accompany the child, Sun Fengyang could only compensate Sun Ming materially.
Therefore, as long as those digital electronic products are new, Sun Ming can get everything he wants as soon as possible. Z.br>
The direct consequence of this is that my son is addicted to games and cannot extricate himself, and his academic performance is getting worse and worse every time!
It wasn't until Sun Ming's high school entrance examination score almost missed the high school admission line that Sun Fengyang realized the seriousness of the matter.
He begged his grandfather to sue his grandmother for all kinds of money and all kinds of trust, and finally sent Sun Ming to the elite middle school.
But I never expected that Sun Ming's performance when he came here was still the tail of the crane, and there was no upward trend.
Since he was in high school, he has been in the bottom three of these exams.
In the previous two parent-teacher conferences, Sun Fengyang directly sent his assistant to open it because of business problems, so he didn't know that elite middle schools had such a tradition.
But it wasn't until today that he played on his own that he knew how shameful it was for the parents who took the penultimate exam!
I think he, Sun Fengyang, is also a figure with a head and a face outside, if those partners know, they can't mock him like a dog behind his back?
As soon as he thought of this possibility, he couldn't wait to rush out and beat Sun Ming.
In his opinion, who is his family working hard for? Isn't it for the sake of my own only seedling?
He created such a good material environment for Sun Ming, but his son didn't appreciate it, he couldn't understand his hardships at all, but he was addicted to games and didn't study hard, which was a big rebellion!
Since he can give Sun Ming generous material conditions, he can take it back, and if he wants him to be obedient, he can just confiscate the electronic devices he likes.
But he never thought about what Sun Ming really wanted!
He took it upon himself to put a scumbag like his son in this elite place, which may have had the opposite effect.
Anyone who sees this insurmountable gap will have the idea of retreating.
Even he, an adult man, secretly said terrible when he saw this kind of involuted learning atmosphere, not to mention the bear child who was spoiled by his grandparents?
And Sun Fengyang knew in his heart that Sun Minghao did not inherit it, but his high self-esteem inherited eighty or ninety percent.
His behavior of scolding his son in front of everyone just now must have left a shadow in his heart.
At this age, when a child wants to save face, he didn't expect that the person who hurt him the most was his father.
At this moment, even if Sun Fengyang is optimistic about the admission rate of elite middle schools, he doesn't quite agree with the teaching methods of their schools.
On the field, there are many, many reflective parents like Sun Fengyang.
Li Meifang, a woman who was crying about family pressure with her child in her arms, was also stunned at this time, and she didn't even notice the whispered crying of the child in her arms for the first time.
Like the parents of thousands of families, she has the expectation of "hoping that her son will become a dragon and her daughter will become a phoenix".
Especially when your own family is in a tight situation, you will have less love for your children.
Take their family as an example, there are three children in the family, but only one of them goes out to work to support this big family, so every time she hopes that Chen Yan will grow up soon, grow up sooner, and help share the pressure on the family as soon as possible.
She knew that Chen Yan was a good boy.
I also understand that people from families like them have the only hope of being admitted to a good university, so they are interested in studying
She has never worried about Chen Yan in this matter.
I thought that Chen Yan's admission to an elite middle school was a good thing.
In such a school with a high admission rate, their children will definitely be able to glorify their ancestors and become the first college student in the village to be admitted to the school.
Unexpectedly, here, Chen Yan's academic performance plummeted.
used to be the first in the age, but after coming here, she slowly degenerated into the bottom of the class.
At that moment, she didn't understand, and all her hopes were pressed on this eldest daughter.
A family like theirs can't afford to provide for another college student.
Others can put their eggs in different baskets, but they only have the hope of this one egg.
So when she came on stage at that time, she was excited and devastated, she didn't understand how a child with such a good academic performance could become unenterprising after coming here.
Li Meifang never even thought that her daughter Chen Yan could get such a bad result as the penultimate in the exam!
But the words of the young man on the stage just now made her completely figure it out.
She knows what kind of person her child is, and Chen Yan will never be the kind of child who does not want to make progress.
Because she clearly knows what her family is carrying and what she is facing.
Sixteen or seventeen years old is the age of flowers, but Chen Yan has become precocious and melancholy because of the burden of the family.
She is sorry for this eldest daughter, not to mention not creating a good living environment for her, she actually transferred the burden on her own body to her daughter, which is her incompetence as a mother.
The daughter was burdened with the pressure of the whole family, and carried the hope of the whole family for many more days and nights, but she only saw her one mistake.
This is not fair to Chen Yan at all.
Thinking of this, Li Meifang gently grabbed Chen Yan's hand, looked at Chen Yan apologetically, and whispered her breast name.
"Yangyang, it's my mother's mistake, my mother is sorry for you."
"Don't be so stressed in the future, Mom believes that you will do your best!"
"As long as you do your best, the life of the family is still supported by me and your father, we all believe in you!"
Chen Yan, who had just experienced being questioned in public, was still in a state of mood at this time.
I heard Lin Haoyu's inspiring words again, and for the first time reflected on the significance of my achievements to myself.
As soon as she heard her mother's confession, Chen Yan's nasal cavity suddenly overflowed with sourness.
She grabbed her mother's slightly rough hand, turned her head to look deeply into the other party's eyes, and shouted with a crying voice: "Mom~"
Seeing this, Li Meifang tightened the hands of the two sides, and echoed: "Hey~ Mom is here, Mom will never put so much pressure on you in the future."
Offstage, a warm scene like this is being staged repeatedly.
Parents who have always judged their children's excellence by their grades have made a deep reflection for the first time.
Seeing this, Lin Haoyu gently hooked the corners of his mouth......