When I got to the city, Sister Zhou called her husband and asked him to go back first, and she and Bu Li, as well as Pi Xiaolu, they would talk to each other, and go back later in the evening.

The trio found a café near Bree's house. This café is where they often meet.

Sit down and order your favorite coffee or drink.

After a while, the topic was all about Wang Youjie.

In fact, what Wang Youjie may not know is that the so-called collective activity of picking oranges today was originally specially prepared for him.

"Buli, I'm helping you wholeheartedly this time, do you know?" Sister Zhou sat opposite Buli and went straight to the point, "As far as I know, this leader of mine is now being urged to marry by his family." ”

"He was also urged to marry? Didn't the information say that he was even smaller than me? "Bu Li, this is the first time I heard Sister Zhou say that Wang Youjie was urged to marry by his family.

She was still a little unconvinced, and said, "Isn't it normal for a man to be unmarried at his age?" ”

Pi Xiaolu added sugar to the cappuccinori, and said with a smile: "Yes, you look around us, the marriage of Shanghai boys is basically after thirty, right?" ”

Sister Zhou smiled with apple juice and said, "In their countryside, Wang Youjie should have a few years old at his age." So what's so strange about him being urged to marry? ”

When it comes to urging marriage, the three of them are silent.

After drinking coffee, Bouli sighed and said, to be honest, I didn't really care about it myself. If there is, there will be, if there is not, there will be none, and this thing cannot be forced. It's just my poor old lady, the blind date corner of People's Square, no matter how windy or rainy it has been in the past four years, it has become a place where you have to check in if you can't move on weekends.

Sister Zhou looked at Bu Li and didn't make a sound.

"At the beginning, I had to talk to my mother, but until now, I haven't said anything."

After pausing for a while, Bu Li fiddled with the spoon in his hand, and continued: "Now I understand, although the blind date is not very acceptable in form, but the kindness of parents to our children is what really touches me, and it is what I am particularly concerned about now." ”

Pi Xiaolu put down the coffee cup and said, "However, if you talk about today's Wang Youjie, Sister Bu, I suggest you don't, and you can't consider him." ”

Bu Li and Sister Zhou all looked at Pi Xiaolu with four eyes.

Pi Xiaolu met their puzzled eyes, thought for a while, and said, "Three o'clock." First, he is a foreigner, or a countryman from another place, and his quality is not good. Second, this person can't speak too much, and he doesn't seem to have any interest, Sister Bu, you are from an art background, and the two of you are very incompatible? ”

Brie lowered her head and looked at the coffee cup in front of her.

"What about one more point?" Sister Zhou asked.

Pi Xiaolu looked at Bu Li and said cautiously: "Finally, with what I know about your mother, even if everyone may agree to this matter, your mother will not agree to it in the end. ”

After Pi Xiaolu finished speaking, the three of them stopped talking for a while.

The atmosphere was cold.

Or Sister Zhou broke the embarrassment and asked Pi Xiaolu: "Have you read the information about Wang Youjie?" ”

Pi Xiaolu nodded and said, "I've seen it roughly, but I've not looked very carefully." You know, I've always been very cautious about local girls marrying outsiders. ”

Sister Zhou took out a few pieces of A4 paper from her bag, on which were Wang Youjie's relevant personal information. Although it's relatively simple, it's relatively comprehensive, and even what blood type is, personal personality analysis, and so on.

"This is a copy of this from a good friend who is looking for a unit to be an HR." Sister Zhou said, "Xiaoxiao, you can take a look at it again, there is even the annual physical examination report organized by the unit." ”

Pi Xiaolu took it and really flipped through it.

"I'm here to say a few words of justice for Wang Youjie. Bouli, okay? Sister Zhou looked at Bu Li.

Bouri raised her head, nodded slowly, and motioned for her to continue.

Sister Zhou thought about it, sorted out her thoughts, and then said, "Let me tell you my own views on the three points that Xiaoxiao said just now." ”

She said, one, it shouldn't be uncommon for Shanghainese to marry outsiders now, right? There are two pairs of our college classmates, and they both talked about it in college, so there is not much to talk about in itself. Crucially, we have to put aside our preconceptions. In fact, there are many excellent boys among the outsiders, so what's wrong with them?

Pi Xiaolu obviously wanted to refute, but was gently pulled by Bu Li, who was sitting next to her.

"Second, you may have misunderstood that IT men have no interest."

Indeed, most people will have the following descriptions for IT men: sullen, calm, calm, not smiling, cold humor, even not good at expression, wooden, serious,----, etc., these adjectives, in fact, I have heard a lot of people talk about them.

Sister Zhou took a sip of juice and deliberately emphasized: "But please believe that the EQ of IT men is actually not low at all, okay!" ”

Bouli slowly stirred the coffee with a spoon.

"I'm in this business myself, so I know them relatively well."

Sister Zhou continued, I think that I can only say that the thinking of IT men may be slightly different from ordinary people. Perhaps in their heads, rationality occupies a large part, everything needs to be thought about, calculated, and, because they are often faced with relatively simple things such as computers and mobile phones, IT men are generally not sociable. For example, it is mainly manifested in their lack of initiative, especially in emotional matters, which are relatively passive. But then again, even if they are passive, they are very selective, like is like, and dislike is dislike.

"Can you give me an example?" Pi Xiaolu interjected.

Sister Zhou smiled and said, for example, when an IT guy likes you, they will generally communicate with you in the way they are most familiar with,----

"In what way?"

"Phones and computers, of course." Sister Zhou said with a smile, because in the way IT men communicate, the communication method of social software is much easier to control than the real face-to-face, and they will chat with you relatively frequently, and the content of the chat is also very vivid and interesting, full of humor, and will bring those colorful emoji pictures, and even make you happy and make you laugh.

She said: "You know, an IT guy generally can't and can't make a girl he likes laugh at in front of him. So, if an IT guy talks to you frequently, it means that he has been captured by you, or at least he has a high opinion of you. Do you know how to cut it? ”

"Really?" Brey asked.

Sister Zhou laughed and said, "I know, for IT men, computers and mobile phones are simple, but we humans ourselves are complicated." ”

By this time, it was already dark outside, and the street lights were gradually turning on.

The three asked for some cake.

"Hey----。" After a long time, Bu Li sighed and said to Sister Zhou, "In terms of his personality, I think he is actually okay." ”

She thought for a while, and then said: "I have been in contact with it three times, and I am relatively familiar with it, so my experience with Xiaolu may be different." Although he speaks a little straightforwardly, he is obviously not bad in his heart, and I can still see this. ”

"That's because you see me, I'm a programmer myself, so it's easier to accept some of his shortcomings, okay?"

Sister Zhou joked and said, "But, who dares to say that they are perfect and have no shortcomings?" ”

Cloth eats the cake and is silent.

Pi Xiaolu said: "Sister Bu, don't be too anxious, think about it, or continue to look at it?" ”

Sister Zhou smiled and said: "On Zhihu, I once saw a sentence, which probably means that it is best to find the right person within ten times on a blind date." Otherwise, the more you get along, the harder it gets, and you don't know how many times you'll end up. ”

The three of them were silent and ate their cakes.

Sister Zhou decided to strike while the iron was hot, and said to Bu Li: "Why don't you two try to date first and go down and have a look?" ”

Bu Li nodded, as if he had made up his mind, and said, "But there are two things, you two have to keep it secret for me." ”

Sister Zhou and Pi Xiaolu looked at Bu Li and asked, "What other concerns do you have?" ”

"First, don't tell my family about it yet. Also, don't tell your family when you two go home. It's just getting started, so don't make it known to everyone. Do you know how to cut it? Brey bowed his head and said.

"Don't worry, we know this in our hearts, okay?"

"The other point is the age gap. I'm nearly four years older than him, and it seems like a hurdle to overcome. And don't talk to him yet. ”

Sister Zhou and Pi Xiaolu nodded in agreement and asked, "You should have his WeChat, right?" ”

Seeing Bu Li nodding, Sister Zhou looked at her watch, stood up and said, "The children at home still have to be taken care of, washed and scrubbed, and they will be sent to kindergarten tomorrow morning, I won't accompany you, I will leave first." ”