Her mother's questioning caught Brey off guard.

I was shocked, and I sank again! Buli involuntarily covered his heart with his hand, as if blood was rushing into his heart, his blood pressure rising, and then his brain.

Where? Mother asked herself so simply and straightforwardly, did Xiao Lu's mother and the old lady hint at it, or even talk about something specifically?!

Or, is it still something that ---, Lao Niang has seen from herself for a while?!

But if my wife already knew about the matter between herself and Wang Youjie, according to the character of my mother, I am afraid that if she couldn't wait for her to go home at night, she would have exploded on the phone on the spot.

What to do?

Perhaps---, there is another possibility, that is, Mom asked herself like this today, maybe it was just a bluff?!

In the midst of the lightning, Bu Li's mind turned a thousand times, and his right hand, which was stretching out to pick up vegetables, couldn't help but stiffen.

But it was just a moment, and she quickly made up her mind: if she comes, she will be safe, and she will not change in response to all changes, anyway, if she doesn't admit it, what can the old lady do with herself? !

Thinking about it like this, my heart suddenly relaxed a little, and my mind cleared up a lot.

Smoothly sandwiched a piece of sweet and sour short ribs, put it in his mouth and chewed it, Bu Li exclaimed: "Mom, the small chops you made tonight are the most delicious." ”

The mother was still staring at Bu Li, motionless: "Don't interrupt, what did I ask you?" ”

Bu Li looked up at her mother, smiled, and asked knowingly, "Mom, what did you ask me just now?" ”

"I'm asking if you're dating boys from other places, and you're going to be honest with me, you know?"

"Oh---," Bu Li lowered his head to eat the food, and the braised small chops he was holding almost fell on the table, but his mouth said repeatedly, "Then ---, no, I don't have it." ”

The mother stared at Buli and continued to ask, "No?" So what are you panicking about? ”

"No? I just slipped my hands, and I didn't fit in with the topic you asked. At this time, Bu Li really reacted: it seems that the mother did not know, at least for now, and found any clues about herself and Wang Youjie. This also deepened her own judgment just now, and her mother was just using the topic to play, thinking that she would come here to fish in troubled waters.

Ginger is still old and spicy in the end. I almost fell for this method!!

However, Bu Li thought in his heart, but in this way, the matter between himself and Wang Youjie is that he wants to continue to develop, and it seems that he can only figure it out slowly.

Mother picked up her rice bowl and continued to eat.

"You must remember it well, I will tell you again: outsiders, no matter how rich outsiders, our family will not consider it, do you know how to fight?" The mother said again in an accentuated tone while picking up vegetables.

The cloth did not make a sound, and only lowered his head to eat with vegetables.

After a while, the mother said, "Do you know why our family is reluctant to find a son-in-law from other places? ”

Bu Li smiled and said, "Didn't my grandmother teach me since I was a child, and I wanted to be a man from other places?" ”

"Marriage is not simply about falling in love, love alone cannot build a happy marriage, it is much more complicated than we think."

The mother thought for a moment and then said, "You must know that marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families. Therefore, there are so many troubles in long-distance unions, and love may not be visible, and more problems will be exposed after marriage. ”

"Oh, Mom, here you go again?"

"You didn't listen to it well, so we had to talk to you more?" The mother said, "As long as you are a parent, you will interfere with the important affairs of your children's life." In fact, it's not just that we don't like to marry our daughters to outsiders, in fact, I'm afraid that most parents in Shanghai don't want their daughters to marry far away. ”

Bully bowed his head and continued to eat.

"A lot of people say that the Alaa Shanghai locals are too realistic. This statement itself is actually true. Do you think, in Shanghai, a city with high prices, high housing prices, and fierce competition, people can't do it if they don't become realistic?! ”

Although it is said that a man and a woman finally come together by feelings, in today's society, the material foundation is indispensable. It is very difficult for ordinary outsiders to struggle in Shanghai, and it is even more difficult to settle down on their own. It can be said that those outsiders who do not pass marriage and only rely on their own economic ability to successfully establish themselves in Shanghai should be an example.

"In addition, there are big differences in regional culture, living habits, eating habits, and language habits between our Shanghai people and people from other places, and it is easy to cause conflicts between each other, and conflicts are definitely indispensable when living together."

Buli was silent.

The mother said bitterly and continued, there will inevitably be bumps and bumps in the life of husband and wife. If we have different habits, different diets, and different languages, it is easier to reach a consensus on some trivial things, and even small things turn into big things, and nothing quarrels into big things, so that the consequences can be imagined. Moreover, many times both parties may not be at fault, but they are just unhappy. ”

These words, in fact, my parents usually don't talk to Bu Li less. If it was usual, it would have passed. It's just that now that I have a ghost in my heart, after listening to my mother's nagging a lot, Bu Li suddenly became a little irritable.

Brie pouted and couldn't help but interject: "I told you before that I would find you a foreign son-in-law abroad, but I don't seem to have seen you and your father have such fierce opposition?" ”

"Don't think that the West is very open, don't young people in the West need to ask their parents for advice when they get married?" Mother put down her rice bowl and said,

"In the past, the girl in Ala Shanghai would rather marry a foreigner than a foreigner, because foreigners were generally rich in the past. But that's not the case now, you know? The simplest example is that transnational marriages need to overcome several, if not tens, times more difficult than ordinary marriages. ”

"Now outsiders are not as poor as before, there are a lot of rich people, okay?" Butty said again.

"Even if a son-in-law from other places is on the rich list, in the eyes of our Shanghai locals, it is difficult to take off the labels of 'hillbilly, poor and sour, Zhongshan wolf, shit luck'---, and so on."

The mother accentuated her tone a little and said, "No matter what you can say, your father and I still insist on choosing a son-in-law in Shanghai, but the premise is that we must have a house, a car and an economic foundation." ”

Bu Li let out a long laugh of "--- sneer".

"The older generation may have a partial view of outsiders, but we as parents definitely don't want our daughters to suffer."

My mother thought about it and said, "Education" that has been imperceptibly around us since we were young is that unless the other party's conditions are particularly good, a man in Shanghai marrying a foreign daughter-in-law is a man who has no ability, and a woman in Shanghai who is looking for a foreign man is not a flower. It's really hard to think about----