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It was Pi Xiaolu that Tingting walked in.
Pi Xiaolu completely disagreed with Sister Zhou's suggestion: "Sister Bu, if you are going to get married with that king or something, then I suggest that you end it as soon as possible and only be friends, so as not to have another heartbreak when you get it." ”
Sister Zhou drank watermelon juice by herself.
"Is your brain broken? What kind of outsiders are you going to find? ”
Pi Xiaolu drank coffee and emphasized again, "End it as soon as possible, your old lady will never agree to find a son-in-law from other places." ”
Bree didn't speak.
Sister Zhou couldn't stand it and said, "Wait a minute, there are also many little girls in Shanghai who marry outsiders, okay?" ”
Pi Xiaolu put down the coffee cup and smiled, "I know." But you have to know that unless the family conditions are very bad, there is basically no house in Shanghai, and the annual salary of the son-in-law in other places can be hundreds of thousands, or the little girl's own conditions are really not very good, such as appearance, academic qualifications, students from three schools, ,---etc., then the family may still agree. ”
Sister Zhou said softly: "I remember Xiaolu, you seem to be also a student of the third school, right?" ”
"That's right. But I'm pretty, do you have an opinion? Regarding Sister Zhou's questioning, Pi Xiaolu didn't care.
Sister Zhou was speechless.
"Many of my classmates are indeed married to many 985, 211 and even returnees from other places." Pi Xiaolu added, "But even then, it's clear that her daughter is not worthy of those out-of-town phoenix men, but the little girl's parents are still pre-existing and will mumble, but it's a pity that she is a foreigner." These are the personal experiences of my classmates. ”
Sister Zhou accosted: "Then why can't ---, Buli marry a foreigner?" ”
Pi Xiaolu smiled and said, "But, Sister Bu, your conditions are here, shouldn't you find a better one?" Besides, I've been waiting for so long, and it's better to find someone with good conditions?! ”
For a moment, the three of them were speechless.
After a while, Sister Zhou said: "What you said about Xiaolu may be just a special situation, but I think it mainly depends on the --- people."
Pi Xiaolu interrupted Sister Zhou's words, cleared her throat, and said with a smile: It is said that Shanghainese are the most snobbish and realistic people in China, what do you two say? ”
Bree looked at Pi Xiaolu.
Pi Xiaolu said, "My experience, in fact, Shanghainese people are the same as people all over the country, they look at money and face, and Shanghainese people hate being taken advantage of the most." When it comes to the economy, you can't avoid the house. Then let's analyze the house first. ”
Generally speaking, many parents in Shanghai have two apartments, one for their children to live in, or let them buy a house when they get married, and then slowly pay off the mortgage, etc.
The reason why most local parents have unexpectedly sons-in-law is not just for property? You're more than half successful if you have a house. Whose money is not hard to come by, you come to Shanghai with nothing, as soon as you get married, you will prostitute a house for nothing? Or even two or three suites? There are no doors. Not everyone can accept targeted poverty alleviation, is it good?
She said that from another point of view, if both are Shanghainese, at least they each have a suite, and together they are two suites. If you have three suites each, you will have six suites after marriage. This kind of strong alliance is the most reliable guarantee for marriage!
Bully bowed his head and kept silent.
Sister Zhou didn't quite agree with Pi Xiaolu's point of view.
She thought for a while and said, "Generally speaking, outsiders who can come to Shanghai to work generally have a skill, otherwise, it is impossible to work in Shanghai for a long time." With some help and support from their hometown, it is entirely possible to buy a house with a mortgage in Shanghai. ”
Pi Xiaolu smiled at the corner of his mouth and said sneeringly, "As for outsiders who change their fate through study, obtain first-class qualifications, find high-paying jobs, and vigorously produce miracles, they are really rare, and I don't think it's realistic." Most outsiders are probably just looking for a stable job to make ends meet. Besides, a foreigner who can be called a phoenix man must have a good income and a high degree of education, so the threshold for such a foreigner is fine. ”
Sister Zhou asked with a smile: "According to what you said, outsiders earn millions of dollars a year, have a high education, and have a good family background, but you don't marry, but you have to marry a local rolling dragon and a third-school student??? ”
"You're right. Shanghai girls will see people marry. ”
Pi Xiaolu glanced at Bu Li, and then said, If the conditions in other places are okay, very rich, and very capable, naturally there is no need to say that we Shanghai girls will still consider it. But if the conditions of outsiders are not good, if they have no money and no strength,---- how can they marry?! You will be the one who will suffer in the future.
Bu Li kept silent, just watching Sister Zhou and Pi Xiaolu arguing with each other.
Sister Zhou thought for a while and said: "If you marry someone from other places, you may not necessarily have a cup, and if you marry a local person, you may not necessarily be happy." It still depends on the actual situation, right? ”
"Wrong! If you marry in Shanghai, you will have at least 2 houses after marriage, one for you and one for the man, so you don't have to think about how to help your children save money to buy a house in the future. ”
Pi Xiaolu paused for a while, and then said: "And there will be no seven aunts and eight aunts who come to travel and live in your house from time to time------, do you know?" I have a classmate who married a Jiangxi person, and now his home is the Jiangxi Guild Hall, which is equivalent to marrying a family, and he will be annoyed to death. And the people there have no rules, and they are very unhygienic. ”
Bu Li couldn't help it, and said, "What you said is a little absolute and emotional. ”
Pi Xiaolu said with a smile, knowing himself and his opponent, winning all battles. You need to understand the current situation in the marriage market before you can prepare, right? There is a gap between reality and imagination.
"Every day at 6:30 p.m. on Oriental TV, "Uncle New Bride" program, Sister Bu, go and watch more when you are fine! Just look at the daily "Uncle New Bride", that show is reality! It's realistic! ”
Bu Li and Sister Zhou both shook their heads, saying that they had not watched this show.
Pi Xiaolu smiled and said, many of the programs in it are basically like this, the conditions of the hometown of the man from other places are not good, and the health of the parents is not good, all the women in Shanghai eat and live in the man's house-----, and they all eat up and lose.
Sister Zhou thought for a while and said, "But looking around, it is better to marry a lot of people from other places than to marry a local." It's really hard to marry a local-----"
"A considerable part of the locals are indeed similar to the outsiders?!" Pi Xiaolu smiled and said, the family that rented a house upstairs in my parents' house before, then the 310 daughter-in-law found a man from Qingdao, and her mother-in-law and father-in-law came to Shanghai to live temporarily, and they all seemed to be literate people, but this daughter-in-law quarreled with her mother-in-law for some reason, and the sound came to the whole building.
Both Bu Li and Sister Zhou expressed disbelief.
"Believe it or not, I'm just saying that the facts -----, good?" Pi Xiaolu smiled and said, "But if a Shanghai girl with a good family background still has to find outsiders, it is her own stupid white sweetness, and she really can't complain about others." ”