21.3
After sighing, Wang Youjie shook his head and said, "It's all some sad past, don't say it." ”
"How can you, you just hung up people's appetites, and you want to shut up and stop talking?!" Bu Li stared at Wang Youjie at this time, and was thinking about listening to it with interest, and when he heard Wang Youjie say this, he immediately became a little dissatisfied.
Wang Youjie looked at it left and right, and said with a smile: "Early in the morning, you pointed your finger at me and warned me to be careful about what I said today." ”
"One yard to one yard, not the same good felling?"
The king did not make a sound.
"Tell me about it!" Bu Li walked forward for a while, then stood still, stared into Wang Youjie's eyes and said, "You won't say anything bad because you did something bad or something unsightly, right?" ”
Wang Youjie finally couldn't help it, and said with a smile: "I basically work hard in the unit every day, even if I want to do it, I have to have that free time." ”
"It seems to be -----, I see that Sister Zhou's work is usually very busy." Bu Li also smiled and said, "But you should know, this curiosity of our women, everyone is similar!" ”
"What do I know I should know?" Wang Youjie walked forward, turned his head and said with a smile, "I only know an old saying, called a woman's heart, a needle under the sea." ”
"Isn't it -----," Brie scoffed, "haven't you talked about a girlfriend before?" After working for so many years, the personal economic conditions are not bad, if you tell me that you have never talked about it, who will believe it?! ”
Curiosity killed the cat!
However, Wang Youjie didn't dare to say this sentence in front of Bu Li. Of course he knows about women's gossip psychology, and he has not been in contact with women. But how could she know about her past?
However, Wang Youjie also knows that even if he is his best friend, he must not say everything to a woman, especially some of his own black materials that may leave a bad impression, and he must not say it, at most he can only choose some irrelevant so-called "key points". Maybe one day, maybe some unintentional words will become a stain on yourself forever and a joke in the mouths of others. Let those women spit out from their mouths as a killing weapon from time to time. Not to mention, the neutral relationship between himself and Bu is still in an uncertain state.
Thinking about it this way, Wang Youjie has a judgment, and there is a good chance that Buli's question just now is probably to "slander people", but in fact, it leads him to take the bait.
With a lively mind, Wang Youjie smiled and said, "Lady first." Otherwise, tell us about your experience first. Look at what I can learn from if I go on a blind date in the future? ”
Wang Youjie's real intention was to see what Bu Li said about herself. Although some of the plots are based on her own experience in a hundred battles, and Sister Zhou usually says intentionally or unintentionally, in fact, Bu Li just doesn't say it, and she can guess it. But in this way, Wang Youjie has a standard that he can refer to, knowing what he should say and what he must not say.
Bu Li looked at Wang Youjie, but said very happily: "You are smart, right?" But it doesn't matter if I say it first, facts are facts anyway. ”
Say as you go. So Bu Li briefly told the story of what happened in the blind date process.
Wang Youjie kept his head down and listened, silent.
"Actually, I also know that after the age of thirty, at this age, I shouldn't be too demanding." With a long sigh, Bouli said,
"But sometimes it's really not that you're too demanding, it's that you really can't do it."
The king did not make a sound.
The sun shines directly down from the tall metasequoia, forming pale yellow pillars of light. When it shines on the face, it hurts hard.
Breeze's mood was visibly depressed.
Wang Youjie thought about it and said, leftover men and women are actually very common in big cities like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. In my opinion, the more developed the society is, the more free the society, and the more men and women will be left, which is an inevitable trend.
At this time, Buli's face even began to be a little depressed.
She thought for a while and said: "I admit that I did have too high requirements for men before, and because of my strong character, I have not been married until I am single, and I have my own reasons." ”
Wang Youjie stood on the side of the road and took water from his backpack to drink.
Bree also took out a water bottle to drink. After two or three sips, she continued with the topic just now, and now, although I am the deputy department manager of the unit, I always feel that I have been two centuries old with those young people.
"Well, now my parents are old, and I'm starting to have gray hair. Seeing that the children of my peers around me have already entered primary school, and some have even entered middle school, I really feel uncomfortable. ”
Wang Youjie thought about it and said, it is understandable. If you are financially independent, the economic attributes of marriage are much weaker, and the emotional attributes are more important. If you can't meet the right person, of course, you won't be in a hurry to get married.
"That's what I said. But now, although I still continue to decorate myself with makeup on the surface to make myself younger than my actual age, no matter how I put on makeup, the sense of expectation that belongs to me will always be just a blank of loss! Brey smiled and said,
"Besides. My parents at home, some of my girlfriends and friends, are now very anxious about me, and they all want me to get married quickly, and usually let me change my temperament. ”
Wang Youjie said: "But then again, if boys and girls are over 30 years old and have not yet married, then they are likely to be discussed by the people around them, which may also be influenced by traditional culture." ”
"Actually, I've changed a lot now."
Bu Li thought for a moment and said in a low voice, "But there are some bottom lines that really can't be lost." I feel like if I lose all of this, I'm really not me anymore. ”