21.5

Wang Youjie looked at Bu Li and just wanted to open his mouth. But after thinking about it, I felt that it was not appropriate, so I stopped at the right time.

Bu Li saw that the king was restrained and stopped, smiled, and said, "If you have something to say, say it." Secretly, it can't be that you want to say something nasty again, right? ”

"Can you really ask?" Wang Youjie asked with a smile.

"If you want to ask, what is so much nonsense?" Briesson loosened his strap and said, "I've been beaten out all these years, what haven't I heard?" What else I can't hear?! ”

Wang Youjie bowed his head.

Smiling, he said, "I just want to ask, how old are you now?" What exactly are you in your thirties? ”

Bu Li was visibly stunned. Wang Youjie, he didn't even know how big he was? But then I thought about it, I and Sister Zhou had repeatedly said that we couldn't reveal our age to Wang Youjie.

So she was relieved all at once. With a seemingly casual smile, Bu Li said, "I really can't answer your question." ”

Wang Youjie looked at Bu Li, smiled, and remained silent.

"A woman's age is like your man's salary, it's not easy to ask casually, you should know this, right?" Brie then said something more.

Wang Youjie only walked forward. No sound.

"The current society is still a patriarchal society. Maybe we women don't care about age, but you men care very much. Breeze sighed and said,

"In the past, when I was in college, the flower of our department is still the same as me, I haven't married in my thirties, and the quality of the blind date is the same as mine. You must know that when she was young, her suitors were very good. ”

Wang Youjie stood still, looked at Bu Li, and asked, "There is another thing I don't quite understand, but if you want to say it, you can say it, and it doesn't matter if you don't want to say it." ”

"What's the matter?" Brey asked curiously.

Wang Youjie thought for a while and said, "With your own conditions, why are you single until now, I don't think it should be right no matter how you look at it?" ”

Bu Li was silent for a long time, and only walked slowly and silently.

Further on is the forest grass skiing field. There are quite a few tourists inside.

Grass skiing, commonly known as "flying on grass", is a great alternative to skiing in the snow-free season and in the tropics. Chongming Dongping Forest Park Grass Skiing Field is the only standard grass skiing field in Shanghai, covering an area of more than 10,000 square meters with a height difference of 10 meters. On holidays, it has become a new world of tourism, leisure and sports that tourists love.

The two of them found a place to sit down under the big tree next to the playground in the morning and rested for a while.

Bu Li thought for a moment and said, what you just asked me about, there is actually nothing bad to say. The reason is actually very simple, because my family has a strict and traditional family education. So throughout the school period, including later going to college, my parents were very tight, and early love or something was resolutely strangled in the cradle. So whether you believe it or not, until I graduated from college, I didn't fall in love seriously.

"But then again, I myself feel that it is really not suitable for a relationship during my studies, and the boys in school are too young and not very mature." Bouli continued,

"After graduating, I worked at my current school for a while, and then I went abroad for two years. Maybe because of the art school, there are very few single men of school age around. In this way, it has been unconsciously dragged on until now. In the past few years, my parents have finally started to get anxious and started to look for a blind date for me everywhere, and even became a frequent visitor to the blind date corner in People's Park. ”

The king drank water on a festival basis.

Bu Li smiled and said, at home, my father's personality belongs to the more boring kind, working as an accountant in the subway company, and he is basically silent. Although I was able to meet a lot of boys, my father took a free and open attitude towards my marriage and didn't care much about me, so the responsibility of arranging a blind date fell to my mother.

Wang Youjie accosted and said: "In terms of children's blind dates, it seems that mothers are more anxious than fathers. It's the same at home. ”

"Hey, I just didn't expect it, I looked for it, and I have been left alone until now."

Bu Li sighed again and said, "It's a real disadvantage to be old now, and no one around me has introduced anyone from the same class to me in the past few years." ”

The king did not make a sound.

"To be honest, from my experience, men of the same age with similar conditions have looked down on us, and they basically like girls in their twenties. Either they are looking for a divorce, but many of the divorced people are with children. I must be unwilling in my heart, who wants to be a stepmother to someone else without having children?! Bouli's voice grew smaller, and he continued,

"It's just that if you look down the road to young men, it's even harder to find. Even if they do, it is estimated that their parents will find it difficult to agree. So at my current age, it's really too difficult for me. ”

Wang Youjie interjected: "I really haven't been in love in the middle?" ”

"What do you think?"

Bu Li looked at Wang Youjie for a long time, and then he smiled and said, "But for various reasons, in fact, I still passed by so many excellent boys in the middle." When I came to my senses and wanted to go back and find someone, all the boys were already married and had children. ”

"Are you still looking for a good man?" Wang Youjie was silent for a long time, and then plucked up the courage to ask.

At first, Buli was silent.

On the grass skiing field, there is a little girl who may not have fully adapted, and when she was halfway down, she fell off the skateboard and landed on her buttocks, but she was still "slippery" and slid down by inertia.

"Many older women can't think about it all the time, and they don't want to find someone whose income is not as good as their own, so the older they get, the more desperate they become. In the past, I was in the same mentality as them, and I was bent on finding my own male version, but now I have already thought about it. ”

Wang Youjie said "oh" and looked at Bu Li.

"I think that once a woman gets married, she puts her family first, and her career is definitely not as strong as before. And men's careers are longer than women's, and maybe the peak of their careers will be after me in the future, so we can't just look at the current situation, but also take a long-term view. ”

Wang Youjie stared at Bu Li with his eyes and did not move.

"I review now, no one used to guide marriage and love, and I made a mistake, so that I missed the best mate selection period. Fortunately, although I am old, my career and family background are not bad, and I still have a certain choice in marriage and love. ”

Brey smiled and said, "However, if I have a daughter in the future, I must let her choose a good boy when she is twenty-five or sixteen years old." We must not keep putting it off so much that we miss the best age for marriage......"