"Oh, it's going to scare people to death when you're startled, it's good!" Bu Li patted his chest, took a long breath, looked at Pi Xiaolu and said, "Sit down and talk, sit down first." ”

Sister Zhou also motioned for Pi Xiaolu to sit down first before talking.

Pi Xiaolu didn't give up, and then asked, "Sister Bu, tell me, is that so?" ”

By this time, Bouli had calmed down. He smiled at her and didn't speak.

"Is my suspicion true?" Pi Xiaolu opened his mouth wide, his face incredulous, "Oh, my god!"

"It's very important to make a first impression of the object, okay?" Sister Zhou accosted and played a round, "So trust your instincts." If you feel something is wrong at the beginning, it will often turn out later that it is difficult to overcome. That's what we always say, stay true to your heart. ”

"Sneer-----" Pi Xiaolu obviously disagreed with Sister Zhou's statement. The two began to argue again.

"The so-called feelings between men and women are actually not less mysterious. have boiled up to the blind date, both sides actually have certain specific requirements, okay? Pi Xiaolu thought for a moment, and then said:

"At least, it won't be that kind of emotional supremacy, I'm not wrong about that, right?"

Sister Zhou was silent.

Pi Xiaolu smiled, and then looked at Bu Li: "Sister Bu, you won't be the so-called chance encounters in movies and TV series, and the so-called love at first sight, because you have watched too much, you are now in a new society, and you still believe this?" ”

Bree looked at Pi Xiaolu.

"Actually, if you think about it carefully, even in those film and television dramas, if you want to fall in love at first sight, you actually have to look at each other's hardware. Good felling? Pi Xiaolu smiled and said,

"It's just that it may not be as comprehensive and detailed as when you go on a blind date. For example, physiognomy is also hardware. Even if it's a chance encounter, do you think you can fall in love with an ugly monster at first sight?! ”

Sister Zhou interjected and said, Xiaolu, what you said is not very reliable. First of all, it should be common sense that normal people will never look for someone who makes them feel awkward.

Pi Xiaolu sat down, but did not eat again.

She smiled and said, "That's right." So those are not love at first sight at all, in fact, it is just the final overall feeling formed by the piling up of various hardware. As for not valuing hardware, it's all fake, at most it can only be said that some hardware is far from the other party's requirements. ”

Sister Zhou retorted: "Xiaolu, don't take the man's hardware conditions as a necessary condition for falling in love or even getting married." You know, after all, everyone and the situation she encounters are different. ”

"Sister Zhou, you might as well let it go, don't you just want to talk about me?" Pi Xiaolu didn't care and said,

"Is there anything wrong with a woman's first consideration of a man's hardware? You have to know that often on the basis of hardware, women may slowly appreciate each other's so-called software. And I also think that even those so-called software, such as temper, hobbies, talking or something, should also look at the hardware foundation first, otherwise who wants to waste unnecessary tuba youth and time?! ”

Bu Li and Sister Zhou were silent, bowing their heads and eating vegetables.

"There are some things that you may not like to hear, but I still have to say them."

Pi Xiaolu took a sip of rice wine and said, "Remember. When a woman says that she should have a sense of dependence and security, she actually means that she hopes that the man will have a high status and more wealth, but it is not so straightforward. If the man still thinks he is something else, it is too uninteresting. ”

She said that if you have a high social status, then no matter how unique your personality is, as long as it does not change, it is often an advantage in the eyes of women, and the more you look at it, the more pleasing it is. Otherwise, your various personalities will be magnified to find out all kinds of things that are not suitable, and finally say that your personality is not suitable.

Sister Zhou raised her head, looked at Pi Xiaolu with complicated eyes and continued to speak.

"So, in the final analysis, it really depends on how well the man mixes. If you mess around, then everything is suitable and precious. Women are not interested in cumbersome grievances and grievances, they just want the result, the kind of feeling that can make them glamorous and happy or even boast to the outside world, to put it bluntly, people are compared to people, that is the biggest and most important feeling. ”

Pi Xiaolu thought about it for a while, and said, many times, in fact, the so-called progress in the eyes of the woman does not mean that it depends on your subjective efforts, not on the intermediate results you have had, but on the results that are finally implemented in status and wealth.

Sister Zhou couldn't help but say: "Pi Xiaolu, these are just your own words, at most they can only represent you and your thoughts, and they can't represent all of us women, do you know how to fight?" ”

"Then Sister ----, Bu, what hardware do you like about him?" Pi Xiaolu turned to ask Buli.

Bu Li stopped his chopsticks and looked at Pi Xiaolu.

Pi Xiaolu went one step further and said, "Didn't Sister Zhou say it very bluntly at the beginning? There are no three most critical things, Sister Bu, tell me, how can that person have any reliable hardware? ”

Bu Li thought for a while and said, to be honest, if it weren't for the fact that I went to Chongming with him to participate in hiking activities this time, starting from the subway station, and finally coming back in the group leader's car together, spending a whole day together, and getting in close contact again, I would definitely not have such a deep understanding of him as I do now,----。

Sister Zhou interrupted her and said with a smile: "So, Bu Li, what do you mean----? ”

Bu Li smiled and said with emotion: "Sister Zhou, what you said at the beginning was right, you must give it a try, if you don't try, how will you know if it is suitable or not?!" ”

"I see, I see." Sister Zhou said with a smile, "The next work is still arranged by me." ”

Pi Xiaolu looked at the situation in front of him, where would he not know what Bu Li was thinking at this time?

smiled, and she also said, "Congratulations, Sister Bu!" ”

All three stood up and smiled and touched a large glass of rice wine.

The joyful atmosphere in the private room suddenly became enthusiastic.

After a while, Sister Zhou smiled and asked, "How to arrange it next, do you have any ideas for yourself?" ”

Pi Xiaolu also looked at Buli.

Bu Li smiled and said, "That's right, isn't the summer vacation coming to an end now, next week our school will hold a theatrical performance with one of my solo programs in the middle." I wanted to take advantage of this opportunity and ask him to come and have a look. Do you think it's okay for me to pay attention? ”

"Why not, it's just great." Sister Zhou laughed and said, "-----, besides, that person once asked me what kind of musical instrument you learned?" This time, I just let him see it. ”

Bouli smiled and said, "He also asked me about it." ”

"Then you have to seize the opportunity to fully display your childlike skills, and shock him well." Sister Zhou suggested with a smile.

All three laughed.

Another glass of rice wine went down, but Pi Xiaolu said: "Then, I really want to talk to that outsider, Sister Bu, how do you explain to your wife and your family next, have you thought about it?" ”

Buli shook his head, and his face suddenly seemed a little helpless.

"Of course, it's a step-by-step look, right?" Sister Zhou thought for a while and said, "I think that although it is difficult to have a showdown with the family, we still have plenty of time to do these things." So it's better to do the things in front of you first, and then go down step by step. ”