Or Bu Li opened the silence first and asked Wang Youjie softly: "At this time, do you feel better?" ”

Wang Youjie was still holding Bu Li's hand tightly and did not let go.

He looked down at Buli and smiled, and said, "It should have fully recovered." Now I feel like I'm full of energy. ”

Buty pursed his lips and said, "Governor! Although the work is important, but the body is even more important, so it is not so simple that you don't know the truth? ”

Wang Youjie only smiled.

When the two of them approached the Waibaidu Bridge, there happened to be an empty bench. Bu Li's small hand was strong, and the other hand motioned to Wang Youjie: "After walking for so long, let's go and sit for a while, shall we?" ”

This is where the Suzhou Creek meets the Huangpu River. The Suzhou Creek meanders from west to east, crossing the Waibaidu Bridge, then flowing through the sluices and finally into the Huangpu River.

Suzhou Creek, named "Suzhou", is actually in Shanghai.

The Suzhou Creek, which has flowed for 5,000 years, gave birth to almost half of ancient Shanghai. Since then, she has spent another 100 years "building" the initial framework of a modern cosmopolitan city. It can be said that Suzhou Creek is not only a beautiful scenery in Shanghai, but also a documentary that records the history and culture of Shanghai.

From here, you can see the bizarre Bund source and Lujiazui high-rise buildings in the night, and see the prosperity of the two rivers and four banks.

Wang Youjie was still holding Bu Li's little hand tightly and placing it on his knees.

I sat quietly for a while. Wang Youjie smiled and asked Bu Li: "You and Sister Zhou, what did you want to ask me tonight?" Can you tell us about it? ”

"Until now, I feel that those problems are actually not real problems. To tell the truth, if you want to know a person and recognize a person, where is it so easy to say it clearly in just three words? ”

Brie smiled and said, "So much so that I was still thinking just now, is it really necessary to know so many things that are actually so clear?" ”

Wang Youjie stared at Bu Li with two eyes.

"Sometimes I feel that when you really figure everything out, you may have to hesitate in your heart." Bu Li met Wang Youjie's eyes and said slowly,

"Just like I do with you, I don't really have any other thoughts right now, and I don't want to try to find out anything about you. Actually, to understand so much, so clearly what to do? It's about the same, and it's perfectly fine if you feel it. ”

Seeing Bu Li say this, Wang Youjie was silent, but added a little more strength to his hand.

"I just want to ask you one question, which is -----。" Bree lowered his head and thought for a moment, and said, "I'll tell you first, no matter what it is, we should be able to talk and discuss, right?" ”

'There was nothing wrong with that. Say whatever you want, just say it. Wang Youjie smiled and said.

Bu Li thought about it again and again, and then finally spoke: "I just want to know, what do you think of the older unmarried young women in society?" ”

Wang Youjie felt very strange: after thinking about it, how could Bu Li ask such a question? And looking at Bu Li's expression, she must be very serious.

"Older unmarried men and women, this is a social phenomenon, I think it's normal. Otherwise, there would not be a place like the Blind Date Corner in People's Park. In fact, now it is not only the blind date corner of the People's Park, but also there are many marriage and love institutions in the society, so it is not surprising to say that older unmarried young women. ”

After thinking about it, Wang Youjie continued, you know, I have been to the blind date corner, so many parents of older young people gathered in the People's Park, to be honest, just like the patients who go to the hospital to see a doctor, the scene always gives me a feeling of a concentration camp for older marriage and love problems.

Bu Li stared at Wang Youjie silently.

Wang Youjie smiled a little embarrassedly, and then said: "Actually, we really don't have to make too much fuss, 'Diamond King Lao Wu', even in our country in the fifties and sixties of the last century, is it good?" ”

"Is that so?" Brey asked.

Wang Youjie thought for a while and said: "This is actually the epitome of the collective anxiety of the whole society. ”

"For blind dates, whether it is children or parents, the first consideration is only the matching degree of hardware conditions. The pace of modern society has accelerated, young people have seen more of the world, and the age of marriage has generally been delayed. ”

Wang Youjie smiled and continued, "You see that the post-90s generation is not in a hurry to get married. Because the environment in which they grew up, the material conditions, etc., are relatively good, and there is no pressure to survive, so their concept of marriage is different from that of our generation, and they will conform to their inner choices more than force themselves. ”

Bu Li smiled and said, "But women like us are really prone to showing anxious attitudes. ”

It is not necessary that you will not be able to find a suitable other half if you marry late. People will be affected by the social environment, just like living in a mirror, and adjust their behavior all the time through the comments and opinions of others. Older young women may feel pressured by others complaining about their lifestyle for various reasons.

In fact, the birth of this anxious social mentality is not unusual, it is simple, because our society is now in a period of transition. In fact, it is also normal to have a Dink family and be single abroad.

Wang Youjie thought for a while, and then said: "Modern society is a pluralistic society, people's definition of happiness is even more diverse, a new way of life, I think as long as it does not harm the society, we should still tolerate and respect." ”

For a long time, the two of them were silent.

After a while, Bu Li stared at Wang Youjie again and said, "An older young woman like us who has returned from the sea is indeed quite difficult to match in the eyes of ordinary people. My feeling is that those unmarried men in the mainstream of society basically want to find someone younger than themselves. What do ----, you think? ”

This is a difficult question to complete, or easy to grasp, but it is a tricky and great test for Wang Youjie.

After thinking for a long time, Wang Youjie spoke: "I think that being old is actually an advantage and a disadvantage, and my mind is too heavy." Once people are too heavy, they will look at their feelings more lightly, and they will always want to achieve their goals directly. ”

He said that many people in society now have the mentality of blind dates, men like to make quick decisions, they are very impatient, and they hope to be able to talk about love immediately. Girls are just the opposite, they like to take it step by step, and because there are more men and fewer women now, they have higher requirements and abilities for men.

Buli was silent.

Wang Youjie continued, and most girls are eager to find better men, with the mentality of preferring lack to abundance, and they are even more unwilling to lower their requirements. However, after all, there are more ordinary people in this society, how can there be so many high-quality men in their eyes, so it is inevitable that they will be left. As a result, there are more and more men and women left in today's society.

Bouli nodded his head in agreement.

She said: "I remember telling you when I was in Chongming that I met all kinds of men on a blind date. ”

"The reason why you meet some people on a blind date that you can't accept and understand is because after all, everyone's living environment is different. Of course, you can't expect others to be what you want them to be. Wang Youjie smiled and said.

"It's actually funny to think about. Now the quality of blind date people is indeed uneven, you never know what the other party is thinking, maybe just started talking to you very happily, but the psychology still doesn't know how to think of you. ”

However, man is an animal with feelings, and when emotions rise to a certain height, they will overtake primitive desires.

Therefore, if the restrictions on blind dates are removed, it is difficult to talk about free love. Boys may be attracted to the inside of girls and fall in love with each other. ”

Wang Youjie stared at Bu Li again and said slowly, so the older young women will actually be favored by those who are destined. Personally, I think that love and marriage, in addition to the rational match, actually has a large part of the emotional factors in it.

Brey bowed his head.

After a long time, Bu Li asked Wang Youjie again: "Do you know what kind of nickname a section of the Bund embankment here used to have?" ”

Wang Youjie turned to look at Bu Li and shook his head.

"In the 80s and 90s, the Huangpu River from here to the Xinkai River was just a section of less than 2,000 meters of empty box-like flood control wall stretching out to the Pujiang River."

Bu Li smiled shyly and said: "However, this section of the flood control wall is not very long, and it has already become quite famous in Ala Shanghai when we are very young, and the young people at that time called it the 'Lover's Wall'. ”

"Lover's Wall?" Wang Youjie looked around and said with a smile, "Where is the wall, it seems that I haven't seen it all along?" ”

The cloth is silent.

Wang Youjie thought about it, and quietly took out his mobile phone from his trouser pocket with his left hand, ready to check the information.

"Oops, I'm dying. Aren't you going back to Baidu in the future? Bu Li pulled out his hand, first knocked on Wang Youjie's chest, and then hugged Wang Youjie with both hands!!