The eighth condition: After marriage, the woman's parents will travel once a year. Provinces other than Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai travel abroad once every two years. Look at the scenery outside, let them live happily in their old age, and also, you must give them two old people a fitness card, so that they can prolong their lives.

Condition 9: The children they give birth to after marriage must be taken care of by a nanny. The woman's parents are not responsible for taking care of the children, nor can they let the man's parents take care of them. When a child grows up, he must receive the best education and go to an aristocratic school. Children can't be allowed to live the life of ordinary people, so that children can be successful.

Condition 10: The New Year's holiday must be spent at the woman's house, or the first to visit them, no exception. Because there are no children to come during the holidays, it looks lonely and has no face.

To be honest, Wang Youjie is really not very clear about the truth of this set of standards, and he has no way to verify it.

But after reading this online article, Wang Youjie sighed for a long time, and finally couldn't help but gasp.

Wang Youjie pushed this article to Bu Li.

Seeing that Bu Li didn't reply, after thinking about it, he pushed this article to his old classmate's WeChat group again.

After a while, the group of classmates immediately exploded, and there was a lot of discussion, and it was very lively.

Some people say: Some of the standards of Shanghai mothers-in-law for sons-in-law may be unique in the country.

- For example?

"For example, the mother-in-law in Shanghai will ask the man to do the housework after the two children get married. The bottom line is also to ask young couples to do it together, and it is not enough for the woman to do it alone! ”

- Also, I just checked the information and said that the average age of marriage in Shanghai is the highest in the country, 31.1 years old for men and 28.4 years old for women.

There are also people who say that they used to see a post on the forum about a Shanghai mother asking for conditions for her future son-in-law, and put forward a request beyond the understanding of ordinary people, which feels very strong and thundering.

- Hurry up. Immediately someone was urging from below.

"It is said that at a blind date conference, the woman's mother, the Shanghai aunt, proposed not to have a house or a car, but to require the man to have more than 3 years of experience in financial investment, and the annualized rate of financial portfolio is 10%, and transaction records and performance certificates are preferred.

As soon as this remark came out, it immediately attracted passers-by to watch and question. The family who intends to ask for a daughter-in-law said that her son's monthly salary is tens of thousands, but the Shanghai aunt said a meaningful sentence unhurriedly: "Your son can only decide the lower limit when he goes to work, and he can only determine the upper limit if he knows how to manage money."

In response to the conditions set by this parent, some feel incomprehensible, some feel that the conditions are not high, and some feel that they are very high. ”

I don't know what you guys think? How to understand?

The group was silent for a long time.

Later, the squad leader said first, obviously, I think there is a high probability that I will not choose such a young man. No car, no house and no deposit, which means that he is at the bottom, still running for life, and worrying about next month's rent? Where did you get your investment experience? Not to mention being familiar with the operation mechanism of wealth management products, or even an annualized rate of more than 10%? Ordinary people say it can be done?!

——,Yes. To give an inappropriate example, it is like saying to a student, I don't have a requirement for your overall Chinese score, but I ask you to score at least 55 points (out of 60) in your essay. What would you say?

How much do you have to read a general essay with a score of 55 or more? With such a reading amount and accumulation, can the total Chinese score be bad? Do people who like to read so much get bad grades?

"It seems that this aunt seems to be well aware of this truth, so she made this request."

- This is nothing, there is a news that has recently swiped my circle of friends, and it is also about Shanghai's mother-in-law recruiting sons-in-law.

"Stick it up and take a look?"

- A friend of mine in the Magic City. The problem she encountered when she was going to have a wedding banquet on the weekend was that her mother agreed to the wedding, but firmly refused to allow them to get a marriage license. I couldn't understand it, the fact that the husband and wife had done it, why were they entangled on a piece of paper? A friend told me that because her family is quite wealthy, she is an only child, and once she gets the certificate and becomes a de jure husband and wife, she has to count him in the division and inheritance of property. I was stunned when I heard it, it seems that the reputation of the Shanghai mother-in-law outside is really not false.

Someone immediately commented: In order to ensure her daughter's material life in the future, is the Shanghai mother-in-law really so wonderful?

- Or is this kind of behavior just an isolated case, and negative labels such as snobbery and shrewdness can't be put on their heads?

"However, the rule of marriage is merit-based admission. Love and bread, in the case of choosing one or the other, people will not hesitate to choose the latter. Therefore, it is not human snobbery, but precisely this choice is in line with the social survival attribute of human beings. ”

- "Yes, man must find a survival for himself and his descendants. So at this point, whether it is a mother-in-law in Shanghai or a mother-in-law in other places, they will find a good husband for their daughter with a guaranteed life. ”

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On the other hand, after a long time, Bu Li also came back with a smiling face, and two simple words: hehe.

"It's a hard life." Wang Youjie immediately replied to the past three words.

Bu Li sent several smiling expressions, and then followed by a deliberately enlarged text: How many of these conditions can you do now?