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What should come will always come, and there is no way to avoid it. After the mother finished asking, her eyes stared at Wang Youjie.

Bu Li stopped to eat, and also looked at Wang Youjie with wide eyes.

Seeing such a scene, how to answer Wang You, of course, he was already prepared. However, he sold a pass and did not directly answer his family's questions, but only said that he planned to get married and buy a house.

Wang Youjie replied to Buli's mother: "To tell you the truth, I don't have a marriage room for the time being. ”

Mother Buli's expression changed slightly.

Wang Youjie smiled and said, "However, although I haven't bought a house yet, I'm already making plans." My idea is to make a down payment first and pay back the rest slowly. ”

"Oh?" Buli's mother was obviously not very satisfied with Wang Youjie's answer. She said, "Then ---, how you are going to buy this wedding house, how big to buy, what price and what location, have you considered it?"

That's the posture to get to the bottom of it.

Wang Youjie smiled and said, "I have thought about it, but it's ----."

Bu Li was anxious for Wang Youjie on the side, and hurriedly interjected: "Mom---, we meet for the first time today. It doesn't seem appropriate to ask people these questions for the first time, right? ”

"Silly boy." Buli's mother smiled at Wang Youjie and said, "Well, Xiao Wang is sorry." As parents, we always like to ask about the short things in these parents. ”

After a pause, Buli's mother stared at Wang Youjie and asked with a smile, "Xiao Wang, do you know the standards for men to buy houses in Ala Shanghai now?" ”

Wang Youjie thought about it, shook his head deliberately, and said, "Please explain it in detail." ”

"There is an unwritten 'threshold' that the man must have at least two bedrooms and one living room in the city center, and he cannot live with his parents, and the birth certificate must be the man's. ------”

Wang Youjie was silent.

When Bu Li saw the situation, he said on the side: "Mom, this mushroom soup is good and fresh. I'll scoop you a bowl? ”

"Blind date, coming and going is a hard condition, that is, the carp jumps the dragon gate. Actually, our woman's mother is the dragon gate, so you have to jump over me. ”

The mother handed the bowl to Bu Li, but did not stop talking. "I don't mean absolutely," she said, "but it's pretty much no one paying attention to you." Xiao Wang, what should you know? ”

Of course, Wang Youjie not only knows these things that Buli's mother said, but also knows how powerful the mother-in-law of Shanghai is.

With the living environment of Shanghainese people today and the long and terrible memories of the past, even if the most reasonable mother-in-law in China were moved to Shanghai, they would not behave more magnanimously than the mother-in-law in Shanghai.

Some people generalize that the attitude of Shanghai mother-in-law to whether there is housing or not is more harsh than that of mother-in-law anywhere in the country.

Of course, there is no way to verify this, and it may be an unprovable proposition.

However, it is an indisputable fact that in Shanghai, the marriage and love dilemma caused by housing is not likely to be alleviated, at least for the time being, and may even worsen further.

The city with the highest average age of marriage in China is Shanghai, with 31.1 years for men and 28.4 years for women. It cannot be said that there is no "credit" for real estate.

Bu Li's mother continued to stare at Wang Youjie with her eyes while using a small spoon of soup, and said, "But ---, if it's inconvenient for you to say it, forget it." ”

"There's nothing inconvenient to say." Wang Youjie thought about it, so he told Bu Li's mother in detail about his plan to buy a wedding house.

"My idea is that a down payment of two million should be about the same, but it may have to be moved a little bit outside the city centre," he said. There is another way, or buy a smaller house in the city center for a while, and then change to a larger one later. ”

After Wang Youjie finished speaking, Buli's mother put down her rice bowl and did not speak again for a long time. Just staring at a small piece of the table in front of you.

After a long time, Buli's mother said to Wang Youjie: "After getting married, you have to have children, raise children, and children have to study, etc., all of which are places where you spend a lot of money." Xiao Wang, you have borrowed so much, have you ever thought about the weight of the burden? ”

Wang Youjie then gave a general explanation of his current income and repayment plan, including the status of his provident fund.

"That's a lot of burden, huh?"

Buli's mother thought for a while, and then said, "We are all 'people who have come over', and we know that the days after marriage are not the days before and under the moon, but the ordinary life of facing firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea." Only with better economic conditions will life be more comfortable, and there is no need to feel the pressure of being a 'house slave'. ”

Wang Youjie only smiled.

"By the way, what do your parents do, they should be able to help you a little, right?" Going around and around, it was still Mother Brie who was shrewd and returned to what she wanted to know.