As we all know, I encountered tremendous resistance when writing this book, and after only a dozen chapters were written, two full chapters were banned.

This is certainly unsustainable, and the reason why I wrote this book is that it is too shocking to pass the editorial review, so I have to settle for the next best thing and make it into a story.

To this day, it doesn't seem to be much necessary for the story to continue to be written, because once a chapter is sealed, the story loses its continuity, and the reader doesn't know what I'm trying to express.

Therefore, after careful consideration, I decided to go directly to the strategy, highlight the key points, and explain what I thought, understood, and the experience and lessons accumulated over the years in the most accurate words.

If you're interested in my crazy roll-up plan, then wait and see.

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In life, in just a few decades, do we want to struggle, do we want to roll?

In my opinion, of course, people have to struggle for survival and roll up.

Because this is the instinct inherited from our ancestors who live by hunting and survived through countless hardships and dangers.

Without rolling, human civilization would not be able to continue, and there would be no human group in the world.

It's just that you have to choose the right direction for this matter.

There is naturally a huge gap in genes, you let a secondary school student, go to the Qingbei to graduate from the high IQ genius, even if you have some advantages in physical fitness, but in today's civilized and legal society, physical fitness alone is obviously not enough, and the outcome is obvious.

So there is the outer volume plan.

As for the direction, it's a pity that you have only read the South Vietnam chapter, and the more important Western chapter, and the East Asian chapter, which I haven't written yet, and I don't plan to tell stories about these two directions in the future.

But you don't have to be too disappointed, because what is not written in the story, I will narrate it in the way of a strategy, the so-called different paths to the same end, although the story is gone, the things to express are still the same.

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Which brothers is the South Vietnam chapter for? What is the significance?

Here, allow me to throw out another shocking point.

In the whole of Southeast Asia, and indeed of all the non-developed countries in the world, South Vietnam is the only existence worthy of our attention, and there is no one, almost the only option.

Draw the key points, there is no one.

Whether it is Cathay or Malaya, India with a population explosion or barren and backward Africa, the gap between them and South Vietnam is as far away as the distance between Mars and the earth.

Of course, this is not my personal flattery, and I admit that there are hundreds of millions of outstanding human beings and countless opportunities for personal development on the vast planet.

It's just that according to the point I put forward before, struggle, search, and volume, we all need to choose the right direction, and make rational choices as much as possible in accordance with the principle of giving the least and gaining the most.

And once the direction is wrong, it is often half the effort, and the harder you work, the farther away from the goal.

Take Laos, which is currently very popular, as an example, is this country good?

Of course it's good, it's very good.

I have personally seen countless compatriots who are rarely talked about in China, hugging young and beautiful girls in Laos, like winners in life.

But you know what.

In Laos, teenage girls usually have several, or even dozens, men at the same time, and they are not only accustomed to this, but even feel extremely proud.

I can responsibly guarantee that except for the Miao people in Laos, any boy who finds a girlfriend in Laos will be green into a large grassland above his head.

This point is completely the same as Laos and Cathay Pacific, their culture has been so casual and dissolute from ancient times to the present.

Assuming you have the mentality of having fun in time, I would not hesitate to recommend Laos, Cathay Pacific, the Philippines and so on, which are indeed more open and tolerant regions.

But the outer roll plan is different.

Because my original intention in writing this is to survive, to recommend a path for countless compatriots who can't find an exit to settle down on the earth, and to spend a short life as comfortably as possible.

To understand why I only recommend South Vietnam, you must first understand what culture and heritage are.

For example, if you find a girlfriend at Cathay or the Philippines, more than 90% of the time, you will quickly get bored with her life situation.

Because in the culture of these regions, there is no point in enduring hardships and standing hard work, and the goal of life is to have fun in time.

They would drink and dance until the wee hours of the morning every night, every day, month after year, until they were too old to walk, and they would listen to exciting music and drink cold beer, shaking their already dry bodies.

I have been in Southeast Asia for so long, and it is rare to see a compatriot who has embraced such an attitude towards life, and they may feel fresh and curious at first.

But after a long time, most of the compatriots will feel tired, even like the contempt and anger of hatred.

To tell a historical joke, in the 19th century, the French occupied a vast area including South Vietnam, Laos, and Angkor.

But soon, the laziness of the Laotian people made the French, who are known for their laziness, feel unbearable, so they brought a large number of South Vietnamese people into Laos.

This shows how big the cultural gap is even in Southeast Asia.

In addition to these reasons, the comprehensive cost of society is also an issue that must be considered.

Or take Southeast Asia as an example, Angkor, which borders Laos, the local people are generally hardworking and kind, coupled with the popularization of Chinese education, a large number of Chinese control the financial and economic lifeline, is a very suitable area for compatriots to survive.

However, it is a pity that due to Angkor's laissez-faire management style, the worst and most murderous people in the country settled in Angkor and engaged in illegal activities that did all kinds of evil.

Nowadays, the living environment of beautiful Angkor has been extremely harsh, and even the safety of ordinary people's lives cannot be guaranteed.

What's even more infuriating is that when you look back, those vicious people all have the same passports as us, killing people and setting fires, and nine times out of ten people around you who speak the same language did it.

As the so-called gentleman does not stand under the dangerous wall, places like Angkor and Burma, I would never dare to recommend it to you, not to mention the outer volume, and even the best travel should not go.

Another reason that led South Vietnam to stand out from the crowd was God.

After all, we are a generation that grew up with an atheistic education, and it is often difficult to understand the love of God in other regions, and they give everything they have to God, and everything they receive is called God's generous gift.

For example, if you are in South Asia and kindly give a few dozen rupees to a beggar on the side of the road, what would the bizet think?

Thank you for your kindness?

Of course not.

They will only thank God for arranging your almsgiving, and your kindness is only the result of God's blessing on all beings, and it is God's favor after they pray like God.

So no matter how much you give, it's hard to get the gratitude of the locals, who will only think that you are a tool of the gods, or that you are stupid.

In this way, it is more tragic, except for the more enlightened upper classes in South Asia, the poorer they are, the more ignorant and unreasonable.

In my years of experience in South Asia, I had to avoid the local low-class, even the middle-class, as much as possible, and make friends with the well-educated high-caste class in order to stay out of the embarrassing situation of being played like a monkey.

One more thing to say here is that even in the top echelons of South Asia who have studied in England, there is still no shortage of rhetoric, talking about train running psychosis, and dealing with South Asians is the last thing I want to do on earth, not one of them.

So let's see, although the world is big, the opportunity cost is unequal.

In the kingdom of God, in a chaotic country, and in an open-minded country, it often takes dozens of times the effort to get the desired result, which is obviously not the optimal direction to solve the problem.

Again, in addition to the West and East Asia, I only recommend South Vietnam.

Because the power of God is almost completely absent in this land, because the people of South Vietnam are almost as industrious and hard-working as we are, emphasizing the education of their children.

Not one of them.

Thirdly, in addition to South Vietnam, what other directions are worth trying?

First of all, South Vietnam is a more suitable choice for those compatriots who need to settle in the country.

When you go to South Vietnam, you are lucky enough to meet a girl you like, bring her home, live a stable life, go back to visit relatives occasionally, and even work in South Vietnam if you have the opportunity, which is a good result.

After all, South Vietnam is close to home, the transportation is convenient, and it is not so far away to go home to take care of your parents, and the culture can also be naturally integrated.

But for some other ruthless people, they are willing to bear the loneliness of leaving their homeland and go to a broader world to work hard.

In this case, the whole world is your choice.

Even in the barren Afica, as far away as Latin America, there are staggering examples of Chinese success everywhere, and even in villages in the distant Amazon jungle, there are small supermarkets opened by Chinese.

So for a ruthless person, the world is as big as the heart, and there is no need for a recommendation from me, an amateur traveler.

I'm just repeating one point here, life is too short, and there is no point in desperately rolling on a road with no end in sight.

The problem now is that the mate selection mechanism of young people in China is developing in an increasingly pathological direction, and usually a boy with a moderate and stable income in China and ranking in the ordinary class should be easily exposed to high-quality people of the opposite sex.

But this is not the case, short videos and other massive fragmented information, while broadening the horizons of many girls, also make them fall into a kind of conjecture, feeling that they are a scarce resource in society and deserve a higher premium.

However, the total amount of social value is limited, and there is no reason why everyone can allocate more resources, and if someone eats a few more bites, more people are destined to carry the weight for her, and they cannot get a fair allocation of resources.

In this case, going out is the wisest choice.

Even if it is Laos, which I have repeatedly said is a green prairie, are there any high-quality resources there?

Of course there are, and there are a lot of them.

It's just that in the process of obtaining resources, Laos need more patience and discernment than Vietnam.

But assuming you can overcome these obstacles, finding a really good girlfriend is actually a breeze.

The real problem is that friends who can read this article are probably not comfortable with the opposite-sex relationships around them in life, and those who are smooth in life do not need to go to the outer volume to match the resources that match them.

You think it's useless for you to be a talent, but you have to think that you are a talent.

The reason is as simple as that, it is an indisputable fact that boys with average scores in China will immediately show a huge advantage once they are rolled.

It is also true that boys who can't do it well in China will become hot once they roll out.

I don't think there's anything wrong with reasoning based on facts, and it's even more okay to find a better life and a better half, after all, it's human nature.

So I would like to say a word to my friends who have read this article carefully, give up their illusions early and get ready to fight.

As an ordinary person, life in China is already very difficult, so why bother to burden yourself with more hardships in order to reproduce.

If you have a stable income and social status in the country, but you don't have a suitable love partner, you will go to South Vietnam, or other places you think are suitable, go to the outer roll, and roll the local boys to death.

If you can let go of everything you have now, accept being uprooted from your homeland, and have a good ability to learn, you can go to the West and East Asia.

It is also an ordinary and ordinary job, at least the developed countries can reflect the value of their labor in terms of rest and wages, and it is difficult to become a master, but as an ordinary member of society, there is nothing wrong with it.

My hometown is in Weihaiwei, the Jiaodong area, which is famous for breaking into the eastern part of the country, and many school-age young people in my hometown will take advantage of their strength to go to East Asia Neon or Goryeo to work for a few years, and even some of them stay there forever.

When I returned home, I asked them, "How is East Asia?"

They all feel that East Asia is not as good as their homeland.

I asked again, since it is not as good as your hometown, why do you not hesitate to spend tens of thousands, or even hundreds of thousands, of intermediary fees to work there?

The villagers couldn't answer, and finally they were in a hurry, so they had to say that if it wasn't for the sake of making more money, who would want to run to that unfamiliar country.

You see, that's the result.

The process is important, but more important is the result, no matter what the cause, my hometown people have indeed embodied the value of their labor in the wave after wave of going to sea, brought back real money, built a house in their hometown, married a daughter-in-law, and lived a richer life than the general public.

This is the meaning and result of the outer volume.

Not to mention those compatriots who are more daring and wilder-hearted, stay outside for a lifetime, ask them if they are good, they will say no, ask them if they will come back, they will not come back, they will not come back.

Observing a person is not only to see what he says, but also how he does it.

Lying flat is certainly a passive resistance, but is there an alternative to lying flat?

I think there are.

According to the thinking of science students, they encounter problems and solve them.

The problem is that you can't find a quality girlfriend, so go to a place where you can find a quality girlfriend.

Language and cultural habits are obstacles, but they are not a reason to stop.

I don't think going to those strange places is more terrible than dying in my hometown.

I don't think language is a barrier, no matter how difficult the language is, can it be more difficult than the college entrance examination?

Fourth, where are the obstacles to the outward rolling, and are there any shortcuts?

Let's start by saying that there are no shortcuts.

Of course there is.

I have repeatedly pushed South Vietnam because the difficulty coefficient of South Vietnam is relatively low, and the degree of acceptance is relatively high, unlike most countries in the world, in addition to language barriers, it takes a lot of time to adapt to life and culture.

As for the girl being beautiful, in good shape, etc., it seems less important in front of culture.

Let's talk about obstacles.

The biggest obstacle is not language, nor climate, culture, but time.

Assuming that there is not enough time and blindly using a utilitarian mentality, it is of little significance to go to any country or region.

Because those who can read this article are afraid that there are some obstacles in their usual social interactions with the opposite sex, otherwise there is no need for external involvement.

Once you enter an unfamiliar country or cultural circle, social barriers do not disappear, but are magnified.

Therefore, it takes time to make up for the shortcomings in this area, slowly adapt and become familiar with the people around you, and establish your own social circle, so as to find the results you want.

Quickly build a social circle, nothing more than acquaintance leadership and language school two programs.

I highly recommend the language school here, to give yourself some time to recharge, learn English, and meet the students in the class who are also learning English, how pleasant it is.

After leaving school, I realized the preciousness of classmate friendship, and that innocent smile is probably difficult to encounter in the future work and life, after all, once there are interests intertwined between anyone, it is difficult to maintain a simple relationship.

And how important English is, I believe everyone who has ever looked at the world will understand that words and grammar are the threads that connect with the whole world, and the ladder to improve their horizons.

Even if you don't get what you want in the end, a period of learning experience in a foreign country will benefit you a lot in your future life.

I'm not much of a social expert, a good communicator.

On the contrary, I am an introverted and sensitive autistic person, dozens of years old, still don't know how to build intimate relationships with others, and my biggest hobby is thinking alone and reading my favorite novels and movies.

But I know that what is lost can never be recovered, it is important, and it can be even more important later.

Whether introverted or sensitive, I am willing to work hard in the direction that I think is right, and if I am not capable enough, I will avoid the environment of excessive involution, so that I can live a little more freely and easily.

It just so happened that I was a fiction writer who didn't do my job, so I recorded my immature thoughts and understandings in words.

If you read what I wrote and think it helps you.

Then I'm happy.

If you think I'm naïve and extreme.

There is no problem either, everyone has the right to express their thoughts, without violating the law, I would say, naturally.

As for morality, please forgive me for not having a very high moral standard, and I hate to use morality as a standard to kidnap ordinary people.

is not a saint, nor does he have a family and country on his shoulders, what do you want to do with such a high moral standard.

What's more, since ancient times, there have been fewer guys who are full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, and have a belly full of male thieves and prostitutes?

Judging from my experience as a human being, those guys who are full of morality are precisely the ones we should be wary of.

People are real, they have needs, they have seven emotions and six desires, and they want to eat and sleep.

No matter how good a person is, as long as he can't help me solve the problem for a day, I will always look at him with suspicion, not worshipping or belittling, and watching things develop.

Well, that's all there is to it.

Believe what I want to say, it is clear to the reader who can see it here.

If you still don't know what to do, I recommend a good thing to everyone.

Internet.

There is nothing in the information society that you want to know but can't understand, unless you are not interested.

If you are willing to take the time to understand the world around you every day, I believe that it will not be long before me, a second-and-a-half traveler and ninth-rate author, will be left far behind.

The only question is whether people are willing to step out of their comfort zone and accept the unknown and challenges.