Zhao Xiaojing's evaluation of her mother is the above words, but Zhao Wen can understand her mother.

All day long, firewood, rice, oil and salt, laundry and cooking, I feel monotonous and boring when I think about it, and I am very tired.

Except for Sunday after breakfast every day, the children go to work and go to school, and she is left alone in the house to clean up pots and pans.

In addition to the smoke and fire, I have to calculate my life, and I have complaints in my heart, but I can't say it.

And her husband is not at home all the year round, and she is alone at home, is it easy?

So what's going on? I also want to talk more and talk more with the children, and feel the warmth of the family and the happiness of being around the knee with the children.

But she found that since the eldest son married his daughter-in-law, he had less words to her, so he went back to his house and talked to his daughter-in-law when he had nothing to do.

There seemed to be nothing to say to her except for a simple greeting.

The second son used to go to school and study, and now he wants to pursue a career, and it is not a simple matter for a person who takes a doctor as a profession to become a good doctor and relieve the pain of more patients.

The little girl is half a big girl, and she can't hear what he says every day.

So Liu Caijuan unconsciously became a little nagging, she felt that she was speaking reasonably, many of which were life experiences, and hoped that the children could benefit.

But to the ears of children, it is like setting off firecrackers, except for a little annoying, there is no nutrition.

But now as Zhao Wen, who is a traverser, he is beginning to understand the hard work of the old lady.

Although the old lady actually has nothing to do with him, she is the mother of the original owner, but he feels that since he has crossed over, he has replaced the body of the original owner.

In fact, Mom is also her own.

How boring and boring it would be to come to this world and live in such an era, without a mother, without a family, without brothers and sisters?

Only with family can there be the warmth of home, and only by working together can we overcome the difficulties together, so he thinks that the more family members the better.

Anyway, they all live a similar life, one more person, one more pair of chopsticks, one more bowl, grab an extra handful of rice when cooking, add a little more water, and life will continue to be the same.

Besides, one more person means one more plan, and now everything comes according to the plan, and there are people who have a plan in the first place, right?

"Mom, you've worked hard, my little sister is small and ignorant, come, I'll help you."

Zhao Wen pushed open the door and came out, and heard the words of his mother and little sister chatting, so he said something.

While wiping the table, I washed the dishes and chopsticks and put them on the table, and then helped my mother serve food, rice, and soup.

The younger sister Yang Xiaojing stood next to her and looked at the second Zhao Wen like an alien and said, "Second brother, I found that you are like a different person."

You weren't like this before, you were as lazy as me, why are you more diligent now? ”

"I said little sister, I'm going to talk about you, don't think I'm nagging, I used to be ignorant, but now I join the work and only know when I grow up.

It's really not easy for our mother, I don't believe you look at her hands, and then look at her face. ”

Zhao Wen put a bowl of braised pork on the table, smoked the aroma of the meat, and then said to the little sister:

"Our mother is only in her 50s, and at his age, if he dresses better, rests better, and doesn't smoke and roast every day, he is still very young.

It won't be like this at all, so we have to experience my mother's suffering, and help him when we have time, you know? ”

"Wow, second brother, what you said touched me so much, Dad, having a son like you is a blessing for her old man in this life."

Yang Xiaojing suddenly felt that her eyes were a little moist, as if something was pouring out, and when she touched it, she realized that it was tears!

She was really moved, and quickly rolled up her sleeves and joined the industry of serving dishes.

At noon today, Liu Caijuan did make a very hearty meal, with braised pork, tofu and cabbage soup, as well as tomato scrambled eggs, and pickled vegetables.

There are four dishes, two meat and two vegetables, which was unimaginable before.

So when the family sat down to eat, the younger sister Zhao Xiaojing asked: "Mom, you always said that the money was not enough to spend, how did you get it so well today?"

Aren't you afraid you don't have enough money to spend now? ”

"You little girl, what do you know? In the past, your brother had to study, he had no salary, and he never gave me money except for taking money from me.

Now that your brother has turned positive, more than 30 yuan a month, he gave me 32 yuan 5, your father sent back 42 yuan, and your brother gave more than 20 yuan.

With all this money in my hands, the food must not be the same as it used to be, right? ”

Liu Caijuan said happily, thought about it after speaking, and said with a smile: "When you work in the future, give me money every month, and our family's food will be better." ”

"Mom, when my little sister works, he's found a partner, and he's still a fart with you."

Zhao Wu muttered beside him, and only he dared to say this, because he would poke the hornet's nest.

Sure enough, Zhao Xiaojing immediately retorted: "Brother, what are you talking about?" Who says I'm looking for a job when I join the job?

Will I be looking for a partner before I turn 30? ”

"What, girl, don't scare me, thirty. At 30 years old, you're old, what are you looking for? ”

Liu Caijuan's heart was shocked when she heard this, and she quickly pressed her chest and said: "Your brother's words don't count, if you don't take the money back, your mother has no opinion."

The key is to study hard now, work hard in the future, and then find a good partner and start a family, both of which are very important, do you know? ”

"Mom, I know, thank you for supporting me."

After Zhao Xiaojing finished speaking, she cut off from her eldest brother, except for a playful grimace, which made her sister-in-law laugh.

Usually when they talk between mother and daughter or mother and son and brother, Zhang Cuifang rarely interjects, although she has been married for several years, she has not fully integrated herself into the family.

always felt that he was still relatively unfamiliar with this family, and at the same time, he didn't regard Liu Caijuan as his own mother.

Although my mother-in-law is also a mother, she is different from my own mother.

Generally, when two people talk about each other's parents, they will say this, your mother is like this, and your father is like this.

I won't say that our dad is like this, unless in front of the old man.

So from this point, you will find that what you care about most is actually your parents, and as for your daughter-in-law or husband, you must be secondary.

It's human, it's not weird, there's nothing wrong with it.

Now Zhang Cuifang is like this, she doesn't care about the things at home, she helps when she wants to do it, and she doesn't want to leave without doing it.

When the meal is ready, it is eaten, and when it is eaten, it flashes, and everything in the house is neither expressed nor mixed.

It seems to be a long-term guest at home, who only eats every day, and after eating, he goes to work except for sleeping.

Of course, now she is responsible for giving birth to children and spreading branches for the Zhao family, which is a glorious and arduous task.

So at this time, she has fewer words, because pregnant women are prone to mood ups and downs and need more understanding and companionship from their families.

But does she feel that apart from her husband, does her family understand her?

Obviously, even if it is a member of a family, they are together every day.

It is not easy to truly empathize and think about problems from the other side's point of view.