Chapter 66: Comfort from a different angle, my cousin feels warm!

in the room.

Ye Bai looked at his cousin's bitter expression, and his heart was not happy.

He knew that in the face of such a realistic employment problem, it would not be useful to say only words of comfort and encouragement.

Moreover, the problem of the severe employment situation is not a problem that can be solved in a few words.

My cousin is a doctoral student, and the theoretical knowledge and principles he should know will not be less than his own.

After thinking about it, he decided to give his cousin a little encouragement from a different angle.

So, he sat down beside Ye Ze, stretched out his hand to wrap his shoulder, and said.

"Ozawa, each of our generations has its own time."

"Life doesn't always go easy, and setbacks and difficulties always seem to come up inadvertently."

"But life still has to go on, and what we can do is to brace ourselves in the face of adversity, try to get rid of those frustrations, develop our resilience, and make ourselves stronger."

"But in the process, you don't have to be a lone brave. Remember, you are not alone, your parents and our friends and relatives will support you. ”

When Ye Ze heard his cousin Ye Bai's words, he was stunned at first, and then felt that a small flame began to burn in his heart.

It's so warm...

When his parents persuaded him before, he would only say something like, "Come on, you're a doctoral student, there's no problem."

Or, if it's hard to find a job, just look for it slowly, don't worry, or something like that.

As everyone knows, these words that seemed to them to be comforting only made him more and more restless.

Because, they are repeatedly reminding themselves that they are a doctoral student, and they are still doctoral students who can't find a job.

But!

Ye Bai is different, in the whole paragraph he just said, there was not a single sentence mentioning doctoral students or telling him not to worry.

"Every generation has its own time," he said. ”

Indeed, this is also his own deep experience.

The fate of the individual is inseparable from the times, and none of us are immune to being swept into this turbulent era.

"Life won't always be easy, all we can do is brace ourselves in the face of adversity and make ourselves stronger," he said. ”

This sentence is more useful than a hundred words that parents comfort themselves.

What warmed him the most was that "you don't need to be a lone brave, remember, you are not fighting alone".

This sentence seemed to calm down the emotions that he had been suffering for a while in an instant, it was so healing!

Really, so healing...

My cousin is a person who can dumb the professor at an expert lecture.

Each of his views is very personal, and the last time it was sharp and to the point.

This time it's warm and healing...

Ye Ze unconsciously reached out to touch the position of his heart, he felt that it was beating fast, and there was a warm sense of happiness.

At this moment, he already felt that he was no longer fighting alone!

Ye Ze's eyes were filled with tears, but he didn't want Ye Bai to see him crying, so he turned around and gave Ye Bai a hug.

While hugging, wipe away the tears.

After letting go of his embrace, he said to Ye Bai: "Brother, thank you for your concern and understanding. ”

"Today's words have finally calmed my anxious mood. Next, I'm going to do what you say to cheer up and make myself stronger. ”

"Don't worry, don't worry about my affairs anymore."

Through Ye Ze's eyes, Ye Bai knew that his cousin had listened to his persuasion.

He nodded with satisfaction and said, "Ozawa, brother respects your wishes and choices, and will also be your most reliable backing and support, come on!." ”

"Well, thank you, brother!"

At this point, Ye Bai finally saw Ye Ze show a sincere smile.

There's an old saying that settles the mood first, then the matter.

Now that Ye Ze's mood has recovered, he can also talk about the next things.

"And what's next for you?" Ye Bai asked.

When Ye Ze heard this, he immediately said his next thoughts.

"That's right, our school also knows that the employment situation is grim now, so we specially invited a well-known professor to come over and give an online lecture to solve problems for us fresh graduates."

"The lecture is tonight, so I thought I'd listen to this professor's lecture before making a decision."

"After all, they are experts who specialize in employment guidance, so I think they should have some unique insights."

Regarding his cousin's thoughts, Ye Bai felt that it was understandable.

When you can't make up your mind, listen to other people's opinions, weigh the pros and cons yourself, and use the best ones.

The time for chatting always goes by quickly.

After a while, the twilight deepened.

Knock knock knock......

Outside the room, there was a knock on the door.

Ye Bai and Ye Ze glanced at each other and opened the door.

Ye Jianzhang stood at the door with a smile and said to the two brothers: "It's dark, the rice is cooked, you all come out to eat." ”

With his words wafted in, the aroma of food.

Ye Ze sniffed, and suddenly felt hungry in his belly.

"Brother, let's eat, I'm so hungry."

After speaking, he took Ye Bai's arm and walked out.

Ye Jianzhang, who was standing on the side, was excited when he heard his son say this.

During this period of time, every time I called my son to eat, the most I heard was that I had no appetite and didn't want to eat.

When did you hear your son cry out that he was hungry?

It's amazing.

It seems that Ye Bai came to persuade him, and it was really more useful than saying a hundred words to himself and his daughter-in-law!

Walking to the dining table, my aunt made a table full of good dishes, and I saw that people's appetites were moving.

"Mom, Dad, brother, hurry up and sit down to eat, this dish will definitely be delicious today."

Ye Ze smiled and welcomed his parents and Ye Bai to their seats, and he also sat down.

The whole process of eating can be described as relaxing and enjoyable.

The uncle and aunt were so happy when they saw their son Ozawa's appetite that they couldn't close their mouths.

They knew that this was because after Ye Bai's persuasion, the burden on their son's heart was lightened, and his mentality changed.

Therefore, he greeted Ye Bai meticulously and kept serving him vegetables.

"Xiaobai, eat vegetables! This is delicious, eat more! ”

The aunt had just finished sandwiching a chopstick dish for Ye Bai, and the uncle relayed a large piece of meat over.

"Come on, come on, eat more! This meat is also good, fat but not greasy, but fragrant. ”

Ye Bai looked at the dishes piled up in the bowl into a small mountain, and showed an expression of crying and laughing.

"Uncle and aunt, you also eat, don't patronize me with food. We're a family, so we don't have to be so polite and I can't eat that much. ”

Seeing his cousin Ye Bai's expression, Ye Ze burst out laughing and teased.

"Haha, brother. You now know how my parents take care of me every day. ”

After the meal, the family sat around the sofa and drank tea.

Ye Ze remembered the lecture and said to Ye Bai: "Brother, the lecture will start in a while." ”

"Can you stay and listen with me and give me some advice?"