【Chapter 181】I will wait for you, always will
【Chapter 181】I will wait for you, it will always be a pity that Wen Wen Song's wishful thinking did not come to fruition, and the assistant hesitated, but still closed himself just now
"Knock open" the door walked up to Wen Wen Song and said, "Dean, I have received a strange email in my hand, the content of which is。。。。。。。。。。。。 It's for you, and as far as I know, many people in the hospital have also received the same information, and there is no way to block the news in this regard, so I can only activate the signal isolation system as soon as possible to prevent some people from spreading it to the outside world. Then, the assistant handed the mobile phone to Wen Wen Song, who was angry and round-eyed, and after Wen Wen Song sat down and looked at it a few times, he pressed the mobile phone on the table, feeling a little excited
"Rebuttal": "This is a naked frame-up, a frame-up!" How could these things have been done by me, how could they be。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 In fact, at this time, Wen Song's heart was full of incomprehension and panic that these evidence were in the hands of others: "I have already dealt with these things personally, and the relevant people have also given gag orders, how did the person who sent the message get it, damn it!" Someone must have betrayed me. The assistant on the side looked at Wen Song's mobile phone that was slapped the table, and was speechless and distressed in his heart: "My mobile phone! Not long ago, I just changed the latest model, you are angry, what is wrong with my phone, I have to take it back quickly to see if it has not broken anything, today luck is really back! But seeing Wen Wen Song's scrutinizing eyes looking at him, the assistant didn't have any thoughts about the mobile phone, and quickly explained to himself: "Courtyard。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 Dean, you know me! I have been by your side for the past few years, and although I have used your power to win some small favors for myself, it is absolutely impossible to sell any of your information! What's more, the content in this email is unheard of by me, how can it be 。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 Expressing his basic meaning, and thinking of the gentle eulogies in the email to persecute others and put them in prison, the assistant didn't even have the courage to say more, but just stood a little trembling, afraid that he would be taken seriously
"Scapegoat" abandonment, in this detail, it can be seen that Du Jin's psychological attack methods have begun to work, trust, which should be the most basic and core element in team building, has often become the most extravagant idea, and has also become the root cause of many problems.
If as a leader, but not the trust of the team members, then no matter how good the leader's thinking, how rich and brilliant the experience is, the team members will not accept it from the heart, let alone have the will to fight with it, they will show a passive state in the work, criticism and praise will not have much impact, after all, everyone is afraid that they will become the next implicated object, do not consider how to get out as soon as possible is considered conscientious, How could he be willing to put his heart and soul into the heart of his boss who betrayed his precedent?
Generally speaking, at the beginning, the strength of subordinates' trust in superiors is often higher than the strength of superiors' trust in subordinates, which has a relationship between position and power, and subordinates will subconsciously have a certain trust in their superiors' practices.
But it is precisely because of this that many leaders take trust for granted, and believe that their trust in their subordinates should be something that their subordinates strive for
"Benefits" or
"scarce goods", so through a variety of "Test" to let team members compete for their trust, but as everyone knows, subordinates' trust in superiors can change quickly, and if you don't realize that this trust is weakened or even disappears, it is tantamount to destruction for team building, not to mention a shared vision and strategic goals.
To build a high-performance team, the most important thing for leaders is trust from beginning to end, and only trust can produce understanding, understanding of people, understanding of goals, understanding of problems...... Without understanding, team members are just individuals, and there is no connection between them, and the resulting connections are rigid, flowing, and impossible to generate
The "chemical effect" affects the trust of superiors, not because of how angry they have become, but because in some daily behaviors, they gradually disappoint their subordinates, and even if they work together, their hearts are getting farther and farther away.
Not to mention that Gentle Song has done more than just find
According to the information in the report letter, many of Wen Wensong's scientific research achievements were stolen, and some of the stolen people were even framed as sinners, and they could only watch Wen Wen Song become famous by his life's work, and he could only be ruined or even saddled with trumped-up charges.
In fact, even if the evidence of Wen Song's crimes is focused on his ascension, since he reached the position of dean, except for some power and property transactions, he has not touched on the previous things, if it weren't for the fact that the interests behind Du Jin and Si Qing's research paper are too great, so Wen Wen Song has to be tempted, he will not intercept Si Qing's paper approval and engage in reverse research and development by himself.
But no matter what, now he has to pay the price for the crimes he committed after all, in fact, Du Jin was not carried away by hatred, he did not choose to send these evidences to the media and ordinary people in the society, after all, Wen Song is the president of the research institute in his position, and he has a certain reputation in the scientific research community of Xia Kingdom and even the world's scientific research community, if this kind of thing is fully exposed by the public, and even by the overseas media, it will not only be a matter of Wen Song's fame and fortune, It will deal a huge blow to the international image of Xia Kingdom.
Especially now many Xia students who go abroad for further study, it is because they are afraid that the domestic environment and salary will not be able to meet their own development and living needs, so they will stay abroad either actively or passively, if this kind of scandal occurs in this case, the consequences of the impact will definitely be unfavorable to Xia Guo, considering these factors, Du Jin is still sensible to send to a specific group of people, in order to ensure that the influence and intervention of the gentle song can be at the same time, but also to reduce the impact as much as possible.
。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 Wen Song came to the trembling assistant, and couldn't help but stroke his forehead, he also knew that now was not the time for the Empress Qiu to be held accountable, and after a little thought, he instructed the assistant: "You did a good job in the news blockade, now you only need to worry about the reverse research, I will let others do the rest, remember, as long as you are firmly on my side, I can consider putting your name on that paper." ”
"Yes, yes, yes! I'm going to do my best. After answering excitedly, the assistant pushed open the door and left, leaving Wen Wen Song alone in the office, and after a moment of silence, he did not sit still, but picked up the office phone on the desk and began
"Dispatch troops", it is obvious, and then Du Jin wants to completely bring down Wen Song by reporting, which is still a bit far-fetched.
Fortunately, Du Jin did not relax here。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
Uh, well, at this time, Du Jin couldn't bear to wake up Si Qing who was asleep on his shoulder, looking at his girlfriend's beautiful sleeping face and relaxed expression, Du Jin didn't care about the slight numbness on his shoulder, and he didn't risk waking Si Qing up to let her lie flat on the sofa, just kept her original posture, just quietly waiting for Si Qing's rest to end, Du Jin's good figure also came in handy at this time, and after waiting for more than an hour, he didn't have any obvious sense of sleepiness.
But at this time, Si Qing's expression suddenly changed drastically, as if he had dreamed of something bad, or dreamed of something he didn't want to recall, Du Jin didn't wake her up immediately, but held Si Qing's hand hard, and the next second he held it, Si Qing unconsciously murmured: "No!" I don't want it, don't 。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 Listening to Si Qing's fragile and helpless tone, Du Jin immediately poured her into his arms, wanting to bring her some sense of security as much as possible, he didn't try to use the ability of the black blood mark to tentatively explore what Si Qing dreamed of, Du Jin can't Si Qing have the slightest relationship with the blood mark, let alone enter Si Qing's consciousness through the blood mark, after all, dreams are the deep manifestations of the subconscious.
Together, the conscious, subconscious, and subconscious make up the spiritual realm of human beings. Consciousness is the mental activity that manifests itself in the outside, the preconscious is the mental activity that enters the consciousness, and the subconscious mind is the mental activity that is suppressed and cannot enter the consciousness, because it has been consciously suppressed by people who are bound by the thoughts of all aspects of the society and family.
Du Jin's chest did have a great effect, he could feel Si Qing's emotions slowly calm down, after all, the action of taking her into his arms was a bit big, and after a while, Si Qing opened his eyes a little foggy, and as soon as she opened her eyes, she felt that she was wrapped in a kind of warmth, although it was not very soft, but it brought her a sense of security much greater than the shrunken self-defense pistol she carried, and Si Qing also knew that this was Du Jin's embrace, in addition to a moment of panic and shyness in her heart, it was more of a kind of stability, So she continued to pretend that she hadn't woken up, wanting to hide in Du Jin's arms for a while.
And Du Jin naturally noticed Si Qing's awakening, but seeing that she didn't react, he didn't push Si Qing away like straight male cancer, warm jade in his arms, this kind of experience Du Jin couldn't bear to give up like this, just like that, the two hugged each other quietly, enjoying this time with shyness, peace and tranquility, after about ten minutes, Si Qing's phone rang, breaking this quiet atmosphere, at this time Si Qing could only leave from Du Jin's arms with some embarrassment, got up and picked up the very retro button mobile phone on the desk, she didn't avoid Du Jin, but walked directly to him to connect, and after connecting the phone, a somewhat serious voice came out of it: "Captain Si, hello!" From the report I got here, Captain Si, you took the data card an hour and a half ago, according to the normal process, I will find out your progress Captain Si. "Looking at the small phone screen, I made a note
The name of "Major Zhao", Du Jin probably guessed that this should be a person at the level of Si Qing's boss, and then Si Qing turned his head to look at Du Jin, his head tilted a little and blinked, wanting to confirm Du Jin's progress, Du Jin immediately made one
The gesture of "oK" indicated that he had completed the adaptation and correction of the program, Si Qing immediately smiled and counted his thumbs to Du Jin, and then replied to Major Zhao on the other end of the phone: "Major, I have entrusted a trustworthy and entrusted professional to complete the adaptation and correction of the program, and now I only need to test the completion of the comprehensive architecture system." ”
"Professionals? Is it approved and permitted? Si Qing pursed her lips, as if she was dissatisfied with Du Jin, but she did not bring her emotions to her tone, but replied in a calm tone: "This professional's name is Du Jin, his ability and background have been recognized by Elder Ji and the Great Elder, although he has not been approved and approved by the Ministry of Scientific Research, there is no risk and hidden danger of leakage. The person on the other end of the phone was silent for a moment, and then said in a helpless tone: "Captain Si, it seems that you still don't follow the rules as always, if there is a leak or other risks, are you willing to bear joint and several liability?" ”
"I am willing to take all the risks in the process of Mr. Du Jin's participation." Si Qing responded without any hesitation, the other party seemed to be surprised by Si Qing's promise so quickly, after all, with his understanding, Si Qing usually does not support someone so firmly, so he also had a little guess about Du Jin's identity, and the phone immediately appeared with a rustling sound of writing, and after waiting for a while, Major Zhao said in a formulaic tone: "Okay, Captain Si, this Comrade Du Jin you mentioned, I will start to investigate, since Captain Si you are willing to take risks for it, Then please accompany Comrade Du Jin to the R&D base for program proofreading, and I will arrange the corresponding personnel to pick you up. ”
"Okay!" Si Qing hung up the phone very simply, and then Du Jincai on the side shook his head, and said to Si Qing a little helplessly: "Xiaoqing, didn't you say that this procedure should be handed over in your name?" ”
"Nope! Xiaojin, I don't want to risk disappointing your expectations to fight for belonging. After saying that, Si Qing stretched out his finger and lightly touched his forehead, and then said in a confident tone: "Moreover, although I can't compare to Xiaoqing's network processing ability, I'm not a useless vase!" With my intelligence, I don't need Xiaojin to blindly stick to me with your own things. Du Jin also responded jokingly on this topic: "That's not good, after all, I have to come up with a bride price worthy of my Xiaoqing, otherwise how can I get the approval of Xiaoqing's family?" Hearing this, Si Qing's expression froze, she lowered her head slightly and whispered to herself: "Do you get the approval of my parents。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 Xiaojin, I'm afraid it's so difficult. This emotion quickly disappeared on Si Qing's face, she immediately raised her head and bloomed with a bright smile, and said in a slightly cheerful voice: "Well, it's true, that's right, okay, then let's prepare the relevant information or something, although that Major Zhao is a little more serious, but he is really more efficient, the people he sent should be here soon, let's hurry up and prepare!" ”
"Hmm。。。。。。。。。。。。。 Good. Du Jin naturally noticed Si Qing's emotional changes just now, this does not need the help of black blood marks, it can be detected just by Du Jin's strengthened senses, not to mention that sign language and lip language are one of the standing skills in the military academy, Du Jin naturally has also put a lot of effort into these two aspects, although Si Qing lowered his head and brought some trouble to Du Jin's identification, but he can still distinguish something
The word "parents" is reminiscent of what Si Qing whispered in his sleep just now: "No! I don't want it, don't 。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 Through these, Du Jin naturally noticed the increasingly tense relationship between Si Qing and her family, before Du Jin learned about the tense relationship between her and her parents through some of Si Qing's usual words, and then later, Du Jin and Si Qing also became friends, and learned about the forced marriage phenomenon of Si Qing's father through heart-to-heart talks, and he was very stubborn about the direction of Si Qing's military career, insisting that Si Qing could only work as a civilian in logistics, and then find a good candidate to marry him, and he didn't even need to talk about love. Then husband and child.
To be honest, if Du Jin hadn't cared about the fact that he was Si Qing's biological father, hearing this traditional, paranoid, and selfish tradition, he would just want to punch that man
"Painfully change the past", the families of both sides in the old Xia Kingdom paid attention to
"The right family", the children's marriage is fully handed over to the parents, regardless of the feelings of the parties, so that in many times, daughters have become a tool for the powerful to cling to each other, and the marriage between nobles and nobles is often unobtainable.
From the actual situation, the parents' matchmaking has played an important role in the development of marriage in ancient China, but because it is very coercive, it has led to the separation of many people who truly love each other, and it is undeniable that they have worn out individual wishes and created many love tragedies, not to mention that in modern society, the world has already undergone earth-shaking changes, and the ideology has also ushered in great changes
"Buying and selling marriages" to enslave one's own children. Of course, Du Jin is also a person who is a child, he knows that as a parent, he naturally does not want his child to have an unsatisfactory marriage in the future, as a person who has rich life experience, he has experienced and seen much more than young children, and there is some truth in looking at people's old ways, so it is difficult for parents to completely withdraw from their children's love, and they can't help but itch for it
On the premise that the parties pay attention to the use of marital autonomy, listen to the friendly suggestions of relatives and friends, and do not classify all opinions from them
"Interference" is right。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。 Especially now that Du Jin and Si Qing have established a relationship, although there is no substance
"Established", but the hearts of the two have been tightly linked together, at this time, thinking of Si Qing's father's confusing operation, Du Jin felt a burst of anger, although he did not know the specific position of Si Qing's father, but it was definitely not low, otherwise there are many second generations of officers in the military academy, and few of them dare to take the lead when they see Si Qing, of course, this is related to Si Qing's own excellence and prestige in the school, but what cannot be avoided is that Si Qing's parents are definitely not ordinary people.
And Du Jin didn't believe that since he had established a relationship with Si Qing, her father would not know about it, so Du Jin only thought of one possibility, that is, Si Qing's parents, no, Si Qing didn't have too many complaints about her mother, but the relationship was bland, that is to say, her father didn't look down on Du Jin at all, and after learning that his daughter was in free love in school, he began to use various ways to force his daughter to give in and accept his position and marriage arrangement.
"Don't look down on me, I understand this, after all, letting Si Qing follow an ordinary person for the rest of her life is indeed bitter for her, but I want to start quickly through various ways now, on the one hand, it is to deal with the possibility of a blood-seal invasion and accelerate the scientific and technological strength of the Xia Kingdom in the present world as soon as possible, after all, some technologies can only be taken out as long as they reach a certain position, if I come up with a technology like controlled nuclear fusion now, even if I am not sliced, I will definitely be robbed of the fruit by others, Wen Song that old thief is the best example But on the other hand, I just want to be worthy of the identity and family of the boss, so I want to climb to a higher position, you don't want to see me or think that I have no potential, but don't talk to me about anything, just unilaterally put all the pressure on Siqing, let her satisfy your desire for control, and even some transactions, this kind of father is really speechless! Thinking of this, Du Jin looked at Si Qing who was putting away the computer in front of him, and the increase in his heart was not any resentment and complaint against her father, but about his own present
"Incompetence" and
"Low" anger and helplessness, looking at Si Qing's moving side face, the peace of mind and warmth that Si Qing brought to him in his arms just now, Du Jin instinctively said to Si Qing: "Xiaoqing, I'。。。。。。。。。。。。 You believe me, I won't let you bear all the pressure alone, I will definitely try my best to be worthy of Xiaoqing and you, and block the hearts of others. Si Qing was stunned, as if she was a little surprised that Du Jin was aware of the reality of her situation, but this time she didn't persuade Du Jin anything, just nodded firmly at Du Jin with an incomparably bright and trusting smile: "Xiaojin, don't worry!" I'll wait for you, all the time! ”。
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