Chapter 541: The Need for Communication

In this way, Du Jin changed the topic a little bluntly, and Zheng Feng didn't say anything more, after all, this itself involved his own blood feud, since his "employer", that is, Du Jin, did not refuse anything, why did he say anything more when he was eager to avenge his family? But in Zheng Feng's heart, Du Jin is no longer purely using him, you must know that care is reflected in the details, this is because the details can reflect a person's care and thoughtfulness, so that the person being cared for feels warm and valued, although this kind of words really sound a bit "cliché", but for a frustrated person, it is particularly "fatal".

Greetings and care are the most common ways to show concern. For example, say hello to the other party, ask them about their current situation, pay attention to their feelings and needs, but the actual effect that this kind of investment can achieve is not high, many so-called "spare tires" are because they spontaneously think that this kind of care can move the other party, and fall deeper and deeper until they lose their judgment, so it is very important to pay attention to the details: pay attention to the details of the other party, such as the things they like, habits, hobbies, etc., and express them at the right time.

Since you want to express, then you must listen: listen to the other party's thoughts and feelings, give them enough attention and respect, at this time, you can focus on the other party's physical health according to the information harvested before, such as reminding them to pay attention to diet, exercise, etc., if you find that the other party needs help during this period, then you can help: when the other party needs help, take the initiative to provide support and help, reduce their burden as much as possible, and see the truth in adversity. This is no joke, and nothing is more moving than reaching out a hand and holding the other person in a moment of despair.

If you can do the above points, as long as you don't die twice, then the relationship between the two will inevitably reach the point of friendship or above, and then you can give affirmation and support: when the other party achieves achievements or encounters difficulties, give them affirmation and support, enhance their self-confidence, and pay attention to emotions: pay attention to the other party's emotional changes, give comfort and support, let them feel understood and cared for, and then you can create a comfortable environment for this: create a comfortable environment for the other party, such as adjusting the temperature of the room, Comfortable seating, etc. are provided.

Of course, in the process of getting along, we should also remember the important days in each other's hearts: remember each other's important days, such as birthdays, anniversaries, etc., and give appropriate blessings and gifts, if we can experience together: experience some meaningful things with each other, such as traveling, watching movies, etc., to increase the emotional connection between each other, then even if the other party is a piece of wood, you can also become a confidant or friend.

This kind of communicative wisdom applies to men and women, in Zheng Feng's view, Du Jin's behavior and behavior more or less correspond to the above several ways of communication, if it is only one or two of them, then Zheng Feng, who has been in society for a long time, will naturally distinguish it, but everything Du Jin said and did is extremely natural, especially his own suggestion just now, after Du Jin refused without thinking about it, Zheng Feng's heart to Du Jin's future use of himself to do a trace of resistance has also disappeared, in recent years, he has not had any contact with those friends before, After all, for a walking corpse, coupled with the extremely dangerous tasks faced, and dangerous missions that are likely to never return, there is naturally no need to communicate.