Feng Yasong also realized that his mind wandered too obviously, so he didn't have a hard mouth.

She stared at the screen, restarting the challenge, and tactfully tentatively: "I was wondering, we just decided that we lived together on the first day of our relationship, wouldn't it be good?" ”

"I saw a lot of people on the Internet saying that couples living together can easily lead to breakups, because the gap between ideals and reality is too big."

Before the voice fell, the TV screen once again popped up with the image of the failed challenge.

And this time, it was Chong Jingchen's careless operation error, which caused the character he manipulated to die on the spot.

He put down the gamepad and turned his head to look at her with a serious face: "For example?" ”

Feng Yasong also put down the game controller and said with a humble face: "For example...... Every time I went on a date with you before we lived together, I would dress up brightly, but if I stayed together 24 hours a day, I couldn't be so particular all the time, and soon you will find that I don't wash my face at home every day, and I don't mop the floor, except for eating, it's ......."

Before she could say the word 'sleep', she heard a man's chuckle in her ears.

Chong Jingchen's tone didn't mention how confused he was: "Glossy? If I'm not mistaken, you didn't brush your teeth or wash your face not long ago, and smashed the door with a chicken nest head in disheveled clothes. ”

"I've seen your casual appearance in private a long time ago, and I accept it all, why do you think there is a big gap between ideals and reality?"

Feng Yasong: "......"

Obviously, his tone and demeanor were normal, but for some reason, she inexplicably heard the mockery from his words!

She was choked for a while before she smiled awkwardly and said, "Although but. What I just said is only the most basic problems that will be encountered in the process of cohabitation, and if you go deeper, there will be a series of problems that are easy to cause contradictions, such as two people's aesthetic inconsistency, inconsistent living habits, and different ways of dealing with problems. ”

"When we weren't living together, we could put a lot of personal problems into private and solve them on our own terms. When dating, you just need to focus on how to make the dating experience better for both parties, and don't have to be distracted by thinking about what you don't have. ”

"But after living together, we are tired of being together 24 hours a day, everything we do must consider each other's feelings, and we can't just care about ourselves, but the habits we have developed cannot be changed overnight, so we will still inadvertently expose our shortcomings and lower our impression in each other's hearts."

"Once or twice, we may be able to tolerate each other's misbehavior with the blessing of the novelty of the early stage of the relationship."

"When the novelty wears off, we may not be able to unconditionally tolerate each other's shortcomings, and the contradictions will erupt, and we will easily wear out our feelings in quarrels again and again, and finally hate each other, and go to the bad ending that we don't want to see, what do you think?"

Although these words sounded harsh and cruel, Chong Jingchen had to admit that she was right.

"These are really some of the questions that we're going to face next." He looked at Feng Yasong with burning eyes, and said in a gentle tone: "But if we don't live together, don't these problems exist?" ”

Feng Yasong was stunned by his rhetorical question, and before he could think about it, the other party had already given the answer: "No, these questions still exist, but they will break out later, maybe when we travel together and live in a hotel together, or maybe we think that the other party is very suitable for us in all aspects, and we have a yearning for the future life after entering the marriage." ”

"Since we have to face these problems sooner or later, why can't we take the initiative to face it and solve it from the beginning, but keep avoiding it and procrastinating all the time, and let it erupt when both parties have spent a lot of energy and time on this relationship, and only one step is left to achieve positive results?"

Feng Yasong was stunned by his rhetorical question, and said in his heart that I just wanted to find a random reason to let you go home willingly......

How could he think that he thought about every question he casually asked her, so seriously?

While secretly laughing at himself for being self-defeating, Feng Yasong felt extremely relieved about his subconscious performance.

Because this just proves that he takes this relationship very seriously.

Driven by a sense of guilt, Feng Yasong straightened his attitude and couldn't help but ask him: "Then according to your opinion, what can we do to solve this problem and avoid a bad ending?" ”

Chong Jingchen's crow-like eyelashes drooped low, and he muttered for a long time before he raised his eyes to look at her and said, "I think the most important thing to maintain an intimate relationship is to communicate more. ”

"You don't have to hide your shortcomings in front of me, you don't have to deliberately greet you, you just need to keep you in the most relaxed and comfortable state, and at the same time you have to be honest with me, what you like, what you want, what you hate, what my behavior makes you feel uncomfortable, you have to be brave to say it, and then I can adjust my behavior according to your heart."

"Otherwise, if I don't know what I want for you, and I do something bad with good intentions, and you don't know that I have good intentions, misunderstandings will arise because of this."

Speaking of this, Chong Jingchen bent his eyes and said to her with a solemn face: "From the moment I decided to be with you, I extremely hoped that we could have a good ending. ”

"So even if the world is unpredictable, I'm willing to do my best for it. I hope you can cooperate with me, point out my mistakes in time, and urge me to correct them, instead of holding it in my heart all the time and secretly deducting points from me, and when I find out the abnormality, all efforts will be useless. May I? ”

His dark and shining eyes shone brighter than the stars in the night sky, and his pleading tone was so gentle that his heart was soft into sweet marshmallows.

Where would he be willing to refuse his offer for the good of both of them?

She nodded without hesitation and said, "Of course!" ”

"But I can't be the only one who is comfortable and relaxed in front of you and honest with you. You also have to be your most authentic self in front of me, and be honest with me about what you like and what you hate. If there is something that upsets you, you must bring it up in time and let me correct it. It's not about blindly wronging yourself in order to please me. ”

"Because love is mutual, tolerance and understanding should also be mutual, I don't want to ride on your neck and live quietly alone, I want both of us to live with each other easily and happily, okay?"

(End of chapter)