Lin Xiaoyue walked out of the inn with Jade Barnacles and Chongming, and asked Qin Chufeng to think about it alone.

Although Qin Dazai is a person who dances power, the right and wrong on the table cannot be handled unfairly, and the rewards and punishments must be clear in order to serve the public. Moreover, Qin Chufeng and Qin Dazai are distant relatives, although this blood relationship is very far away. At the beginning, Qin's mother and Qin Chufeng's orphans and widows relied on Qin's mother to brag everywhere, saying that their family was Qin Dazai's relatives, so that they avoided being eaten by those jackals, tigers and leopards relatives and kept their family property. Qin Dazai personally came to Songzhou City to deal with the matter, released Qin Chufeng, and gave Qin Chufeng all the property of the Meng family, including the position of the county commander of Songshan County. Qin Chufeng didn't want to be an official, so he resigned from the position of county commander.

Qin Dazai was afraid that Qin Chufeng would get back the red spirit stone in the future, so he said that the position of the county order was reserved for him, and he could always want the position of the county order one day. As for Meng Fei, Meng Mu, He Qinglian, and Sun Mama were relegated to slavery and went to Qin Chufeng's house as slaves, they were disposed of by Qin Chufeng.

After Qin Chufeng went home, Qin's mother was whipping Meng Fei, Meng Mu, He Qinglian, and Mama Sun.

Meng Mu had already fainted, and there was only one breath left.

Qin Chufeng ordered the servants to stop.

Meng Fei shouted that he was wronged, saying that these things were all done by He Qinglian and had nothing to do with him.

He Qinglian scolded Meng Fei for being negative and crossed the river to tear down the bridge.

Qin Chufeng made these three people the lowest-class servants of the Qin Mansion, wearing iron locks to do the dirtiest and most tiring work. He was whipped once a month.

Qin's mother persuaded Qin Chufeng to take over the position of the county order, and then marry a new wife to inherit the lineage.

Qin Chufeng didn't listen to the persuasion, and went out to look for Yin Suyan. But I searched one city after another, but I couldn't find any trace of Yin Suyan. Qin Chufeng began to drink every day, numbing himself with alcohol. Yesterday, I saw a figure similar to Yin Suyan, and I stepped forward to confirm that I was beaten as a disciple.

Lin Xiaoyue said: This matter started because of the red spirit stone, you can blame me for giving you this thing.

Qin Chufeng said: This matter has nothing to do with you.

Lin Xiaoyue said: If a woman dies of heart, she often doesn't make noise when she leaves, even if you find Yin Suyan, she doesn't want to be with you, and Yin Suyan can't have children, why not listen to your mother's advice, take over the position of the county order, enjoy wealth, marry a good wife, give birth to children, and the relationship can be cultivated with a new wife.

Qin Chufeng said: The lady can't give birth because of my fault, how can I abandon her, if she dies, I will let her heart come back to life.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Once a woman dies, it is difficult to come back to life.

Qin Chufeng said: I miss her every night, my heart hurts when I think of her, I can't live without her.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Yin Suyan can't have children, will you still take concubines in the future?

Qin Chufeng was silent. In this world, men are very focused on passing on their ancestry.

Lin Xiaoyue said: You must think that Yin Suyan is jealous and narrow-minded, obviously other people's wives can take concubines for their husbands, but she stops you, in fact, Yin Suyan is kind and loves you, so it will be like this.

Qin Chufeng looked at Lin Xiaoyue in surprise.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Yin Suyan grew up in an environment where wives and concubines competed with each other, and knew the misery of wives and concubines, so she didn't want other girls to suffer like this. In this world, the love between men and women is the strongest, but also the most selfish, there is no room for others between the two, if the lover is with other people, the heart will hurt like a drop of blood. The wives of other men are allowed to take concubines because they do not love that man, or because they have only affection for him but not love.

Qin Chufeng was stunned.

Lin Xiaoyue said: If Yin Suyan is with other men, you will have heartache.

Qin Chufeng didn't dare to imagine the picture of Yin Suyan being with the others.

Lin Xiaoyue said: You can't accept it just by imagining, but Yin Suyan has to face you and other women again and again, kissing me and me.

Lin Xiaoyue walked out of the inn with Jade Barnacles and Chongming, and asked Qin Chufeng to think about it alone.

Lin Xiaoyue, Chongming, and Jade Barnacle went to a famous teahouse nearby to taste tea.

Chongming muttered: I don't know if Qin Chufeng has opened his mind.

Lin Xiaoyue said: If people change so easily, they won't be so hard.

The jade barnacle said: Master, Qin Chufeng's treatment of Yin Suyan is the kind of relationship that you said about feeling ordinary together, but it is particularly uncomfortable after losing it.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Men and women in the world have been together for a long time, and most of them have become such feelings, they don't cherish them together, and they regret losing them.

Jade Barnacle said: Qin Chufeng has liked many women, will he forget about silver and no makeup after a while.

Lin Xiaoyue said: I don't think so, Yin Suyan is a person who has entered the heart, how can he say that he forgets and forgets, Qin Chufeng is amorous and has no sense of family responsibility, no matter which woman follows him, life is not easy, Yin Suyan is a kind-hearted, intelligent and independent and strong woman, and she can't resist Qin Chufeng's wave after wave of tosses.

Chongming said: Qin Chufeng doesn't think so.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Qin Chufeng feels good about himself, and feels that he is affectionate and righteous, but being amorous will lead to unkindness, filial piety and righteousness are in a dilemma, and when he stresses righteousness, it is easy to ignore his family.

The jade barnacle said: Is it bad to talk about righteousness?

Lin Xiaoyue said: There is nothing bad about stressing righteousness, but it is necessary to strike a balance between family and righteousness.

Today, Jade Barnacle is shopping with Lin Xiaoyue and Chongming, but Jade Barnacle has no interest in shopping.

Lin Xiaoyue said: You don't usually like to buy some gadgets, why don't you buy them today.

Jade Barnacle said with a little worry: I have been with Gu Jian for a longer time, will I feel normal?

Lin Xiaoyue said: You are afraid that in the future, Gu Jian will not care as much about you as he does now.

Jade Barnacle nodded.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Xiaoju, men have their own careers and circles, and it is impossible to revolve around you every day, and always show that they care about you. If he doesn't have a career and social connections, how can he ensure your safety and prosperity, even if he is an ordinary man, he has to go out to work to support his family.

Jade Barnacle pouted: But, what should I do if he snubs me?

Lin Xiaoyue said: When Bigu Jian married you, with the bondage of marriage, he naturally felt that you would not leave, and he would be mentally relaxed, not as nervous and concerned about you as in the past, and you can't take this situation as a snub to you.

Jade Barnacle said: I'm still mentally unwell.

Lin Xiaoyue touched the head of the jade barnacle and said: Little pot, there is no easy word in the adult world. It's hard to be a man, and it's even harder to be a woman. After becoming a wife, she has to manage the housework, raise and educate children, manage relationships with her husband, and learn to be mentally independent.

Jade Barnacle said: It sounds so complicated, what are they?

Lin Xiaoyue said: To manage household chores, poor families have to do all kinds of work, such as laundry, cooking, sweeping the floor and wiping ashes. Wealthy families should manage their servants, establish rules, give both grace and authority, know how to make good use of people, distinguish rewards and punishments, and be able to settle accounts, manage finances, and open up sources and reduce expenditure. To educate children, we must understand basic medical and health knowledge, nutritious diet and health work and rest rules, so as to know how to raise children healthily. Not only must you find a good teacher for your child, but you must also know literature and martial arts yourself in order to teach your children skills. The cultivation of children's hearts is not enough to rely on moral education alone, but also to have a sense of morality from parents. You can't play on your own, but you ask your child to be diligent. You can't be self-willed, but you want your children to be sensible. What you can't do by yourself, it's useless to say the truth to your child thousands of times. Managing a relationship with her husband. That is, it is necessary to maintain a good external image, so as not to lose color and love relaxation, but also to read, learn talents, cultivate temperament, and make continuous progress, so that people will not gradually become bored. At the same time, it is necessary to communicate ideas with your husband, understand each other, create romance and some emotional interaction. Liking a person begins with appearance, falling into talent, being loyal to character, fitting character, obsessed with the body, and drunk with affection. In addition to thinking alone and undertaking alone, spiritual independence is also a kind of realm, a spiritual realm that can make oneself happy and happy whether others are present or not, whether they love themselves or not. If the housework is not well managed, the family will be full of chicken feathers and the family will be ruined. If your child's birth and education are not good, you will worry every day, and you will not be able to enjoy your old age when you are old. If the relationship between husband and wife is not well managed, they will either become enemies, or they will become the most familiar strangers, and they will live a life of seeing each other. I can't be mentally independent, and I don't have the ability to make myself happy and happy. If a man is good to you, you will be happy. If a man snubs you and treats you badly, you suffer. It is difficult to be happy by pinning one's own happiness and pain on others. Everything here is a university question, and it is not so easy to master. In addition to these, it is also necessary to have luck and meet a good partner. A good partner can alleviate half of the world's suffering. Women look for men in the hope that men can shelter themselves from the wind and rain. If you find the wrong one, then most of the wind and rain in your life are brought by men, such as Qin Chufeng. Of course, there are other problems to be solved, such as serving the in-laws, the courtesies of the man's family, the relatives walking, the family livelihood, external changes, and so on.

After Lin Xiaoyue finished talking.

Jade barnacles、Chongming had already heard the petrification on the spot。

Lin Xiaoyue patted Chongming and Jade Barnacle, and she just told her about the situation she would encounter in marriage, so she shocked the two of them and said: What's wrong with you, come back to your senses.

The jade barnacle made a bitter face and said aggrievedly: Master, the little pot is not married.

Chongming glanced at Lin Xiaoyue meaningfully.

Lin Xiaoyue knew that her remarks scared the jade barnacles, and made the jade barnacles afraid of marriage.

Chongming said: There are several women in the world who can have so many skills at the same time, and it would be good to be able to do one well.

Lin Xiaoyue said: So the world is always full of regrets, because manpower is limited. Some people say that a woman is a pearl before marriage, a wooden pearl after marriage, and when she is old, she becomes the eyeball of a dead fish, because the hardships of life have worn out pure kindness and beautiful expectations.

The jade barnacle stretched his face and said, "Master, don't marry Xiaoju."

Lin Xiaoyue said: Life will not be difficult because you don't get married. Xiaoju, you can't live your life under the protection of your father, even if you don't get married, you don't have to manage the relationship between husband and wife, you will have to face other problems one day, life is not only wind and snow, but also to pass the level, fight monsters and upgrade.

Jade barnacle said: Life is so difficult.

Lin Xiaoyue said: If you have the ability, it is not so difficult, you have a good partner who can help you share a lot.

Jade Barnacle asked: It is so difficult for a woman to get married.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Some men will raise their wives as daughters, and their wives' lives are as comfortable as they were before they got married.

The jade barnacle said: If the ancient sword can't treat me like Daddy, I won't marry.

Lin Xiaoyue sighed and said: Xiaoju, I have taught you so much, I still don't understand, you can't rely on others for a lifetime.

Lin Xiaoyue knew the reason, moved with affection, and after following the temptation, Jade Barnacle agreed to study hard to be a good wife and mother, but she would ask Gu Jian to treat herself like a father first, so that she could grow and progress slowly.