In the Yu Kingdom, the Yuan Shen Energy level 3 or above can be the head of a gate faction, and the level 2 or above is considered a master. Most of the monks' primordial energy is around the first level. Lin Xiaoyue took out the spirit stone and the six-pointed star array diagram, and explained to Bigu Jian that the six-pointed star array should be used to stimulate the spiritual power of the spirit stone, and guide the spiritual power into the body to increase cultivation.

Bigu Jian knelt down and bowed, saying: The disciple is not talented, and he cannot be so favored by the master.

Lin Xiaoyue picked up the Bigu Sword, Lin Xiaoyue was not used to others kneeling down at every turn, and said: Bigu Sword, the situation is unstable now, and a big melee will break out at any time, the cruelty of the war, you know it psychologically. I have raised the strength of the two of you in the hope that you will live. No matter how precious the spirit stone is, it is also a dead thing, how can it be important to be alive.

The jade barnacle said: Bigu Sword, don't shirk, the master has made a decision, and he will not change it.

Bigu Jian said: The master is very gracious, and the disciple has nothing to repay. In the future, if the master has an order, he will go to the soup and go to the fire in vain, and he will not give up.

The jade barnacle said: Master, how many green spirit stones did Feng Xinghe use, and he became a top monk.

Lin Xiaoyue's book: The green spirit stone is precious, and Feng Xinghe was not used every day in those years when he was seriously ill, but only used to save his life when he was sick. Wind Star River used a total of more than forty green spirit stones.

The jade barnacle said: There are no more than forty earth-attribute spirit stones, water-attribute spirit stones, and metal-type spirit stones.

Lin Xiaoyue said: You don't need so much, Feng Xinghe couldn't cultivate because of his body, and he didn't have a foundation for cultivation. And you already have a certain amount of cultivation, when you use the six-pointed star array to absorb the spiritual power of the spirit stone, and then run the Great Zhou Tian, you can better improve your cultivation.

So, the three of them were in the basement every night, using the six-pointed star array to absorb the spiritual power of the spirit stone and cultivate. Lin Xiaoyue absorbed the spiritual power of the red spirit stone. The jade barnacle absorbs the spiritual power of blue spirit stones and gold spirit stones. Than the ancient sword absorbs the spiritual power of black spirit stones, yellow spirit stones, and orange spirit stones.

After cultivating for half a month, the three of them all felt that their spiritual power had grown by leaps and bounds, but it was too much to consume spirit stones, and after only half a month, cracks appeared in the spirit stones. Lin Xiaoyue estimated that a spirit stone could last for about a month.

One night, the jade barnacle was tired from practicing, so he fell asleep next to Bigu Jian.

Bigu Jian put a cloak on the jade barnacle, looked at the jade barnacle lovingly, and sighed again.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Bigu Jian, why are you sighing.

He was a little sadder than Gu Jian and said: I always feel that Xiaoju doesn't like me very much.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Why do you think so.

Bigu Jian's cheeks were slightly red, and he said: Xiaoju, she doesn't like me very much, and she refuses to fully agree to the marriage, does she not like me, a person who is a Muna.

Lin Xiaoyue smiled slightly and said: Xiaoju is not very close to you, because I told Xiaoju that if you are intimate at will, you will be regarded as unreserved.

Bigu Jian said: Master, how could I think of the small pot like that.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Bigu Jian, I know you don't think so. But you are young and vigorous, and I am afraid that you will go off the rails. Now that the situation is unstable, and you have not married in the church, I am afraid that you will end in tragedy.

Bigu Jian said: What the master meant, the apprentice understands, now the situation is unclear, and the apprentice will not harm the little pot for life.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Even if the situation is stable and you don't get married, I will say this to Xiaoju.

Bigu Jian said: Master, I am afraid that the reputation of the small pot will not be good.

Lin Xiaoyue said: This is only a small part of the reason, the main reason is that after a man gets it, the passion will fade, and you will feel that you don't like the pot as much as before.

Bigu Jian said: Master, the apprentice's mind to the small pot will not change.

Lin Xiaoyue said: I believe that your mind will not change, and your feelings will not change, but your enthusiasm will be reduced, and Xiaoju is not mature enough, you will feel that you are not as good to her as before, and you can't stand this gap, and all kinds of negative emotions appear.

Bigu Jian blushed and said: However, sooner or later, one day it will be .......

Lin Xiaoyue said: The security of marriage will make people feel a sense of security and belonging, at that time, because of a sense of security, negative emotions will not be very large, if you have a child, your attention will be shifted to the child, and you will not care too much about it.

Bigu Jian said: Why don't you fully agree to the marriage?

Lin Xiaoyue said: Now that the situation is unstable, Yuzhijiang is afraid that Jade Barnacle will become a widow. Jade Barnacle is afraid that she will have to bear a lot after becoming a wife, and she can't be as happy, free and relaxed as she is now, and she has a little fear and insecurity about the unknown marriage.

Bigu Jian said: Master, after marriage, I will be good to Xiaoju and make her happy.

Lin Xiaoyue said: I know you will be good to Xiaoju, and Xiaoju also knows. However, it is human nature to have a sense of fear and anxiety about the unknown future. In addition, women are naturally sensitive, delicate in feelings, and attach the most importance to feelings and marriage, so no matter who they marry, even if they know that person well, they will also have a sense of fear and anxiety before marriage.

Bigu Jian said: Master, Xiaoju will always tell you if she has anything on her mind, does she need me when she is with me, or does she like me?

Lin Xiaoyue said: You don't mind if she is with you, but you don't like you. This kind of thing is generally most mindful of women, after all, men can separate feelings from bodies, and separate feelings from marriage, while it is difficult for women to do this.

Bigujian said: I have liked Xiaoju since I was a child, as long as I can stay by her side, I feel happy and satisfied when I look at her. When Qin Chufeng appeared, I was psychologically jealous and unwilling, but I still thought that Xiaoju was happy. Later, Xiaoju accepted me, I felt that I was the happiest person in the world, but I began to suffer from gains and losses, afraid of ignoring me after making Xiaoju angry, afraid that Xiaoju would not like me. I want Xiaoju to care about me in everything, and his heart is full of me. But I found that the little pot is only happiest when eating, drinking, and having fun.

Lin Xiaoyue said: I think maybe this is the reason why the relationship between men and women is difficult to last for a long time. Unconsciously have high expectations for your lover.,Want to completely possess each other's body and mind.。 At the same time, I am afraid of losing each other, and my emotions become anxious. These emotions can easily destroy the relationship, you have high expectations, and you work hard to get the expected return, but the more you expect, the more disappointed, the more disappointed, the relationship will be consumed, and even resentment will arise because of love. If you are afraid of losing the other person and become anxious, you will have suspicion and suspicion, feel that others don't like you, feel that others don't care about you, and suspect that others will leave you.

Bigu Jian said: However, how can you not look forward to liking someone, and how can you not worry about losing each other.

Lin Xiaoyue said: If you like someone, you will have the expectation that others will like you and put yourself first, which is a normal human heart performance. Liking someone and being afraid of losing each other is also a normal manifestation of people's hearts. If a person lacks the spirit of letting go of oneself and giving to others, or lacks the wisdom in this regard, the relationship between men and women will not last long. The love between men and women is the strongest and the most happy feeling, a gift from God, and not everyone can have it for a long time. Virtue and wisdom must be the same in order to be possessed for a long time. It is difficult for a selfish and unwise person to have love, and even if he does, he will lose it. Once lost, it can be especially painful. The Buddha said that there are eight sufferings in the world, and it is the most bitter to ask for it, love and parting.

After thinking about Lin Xiaoyue's words for a while, Bigu Jian asked, "Can my relationship with Xiaoju last long?"

Lin Xiaoyue said: Yes. This is also the main reason why I persuaded Xiaoju to choose you. Because you can let go of yourself for Xiaoju and have dedication, even if there are expectations and uneasiness, dissatisfaction and even disappointment, as long as Xiaoju does not die, your relationship can last for a long time.

Bigu Jian said: Thank you Master for pushing the small pot to me, because there is a small pot, I feel that there is beauty in the world.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Bigu Jian, you have troubles and uneasiness now, and Xiaoju does not have warm feelings for you because you do not have the wisdom to manage feelings.

Bigu Jian said: Master, Xiaoju once asked me to learn from you and please her.

Lin Xiaoyue raised her forehead and sighed, mourned for three minutes for Bigu Jian, and said: Everything is knowledgeable, and the practice of human feelings is an article. You just said that Xiaoju doesn't like your Muna, Xiaoju is not full of you, and is only happiest when eating, drinking, and having fun. Your problem lies in these three sentences.

Bigu Jian was puzzled: What is the problem with these three sentences.

Lin Xiaoyue said: First, Xiaoju really doesn't like your stupidity and feels bored with you. But this is your character, once a person's character is formed, it is difficult to change, this is your shortcoming. When I persuaded Xiaoju, I listed many of your advantages, telling Xiaoju that there is no perfect lover in the world, everyone has shortcomings, and only by psychologically accepting the shortcomings of others and the regrets of life can the relationship become complete. And tell the little pot that you have two sides of stupidity. The downside is that it's boring to be together. The plus side is that you won't be out there at night, you'll be single-minded with her, and you can stupidly not weigh the pros and cons. Xiaoju agrees with my point of view and is willing to accept and tolerate your shortcomings. So, your shortcomings are not a problem.

Bigu Jian said: Hearing what the master said, I understood why Xiaoju had changed so much and his attitude towards me had changed so much.

Lin Xiaoyue said: You said that you hope that Xiaoju's heart is full of you, which is unrealistic. Unless a person is an orphan, has no friends, no career, and no hobbies, he can be full of you. But even so, when you have a child, you will have a child in your eyes. And Xiaoju has a father, and I am a teacher and a friend, Yuzhijiang and I are really good for Xiaoju, you can't ask Xiaoju to be heartless, psychologically without a father and teacher. What woman in the world has no relatives and friends, women attach importance to feelings, others are really good to her, and she pretends to be others psychologically. The kind of woman who has no family affection and friendship, the kind of ruthless woman who is really good to her by others, but she is not psychologically good to others, will she fall in love with you, will her heart be full of you? Your request is not in line with the actual situation, and it is also a sign of your emotional immaturity.

Bigu Jian said: Master, the apprentice knows that he is wrong, and there will be no more unreasonable thoughts.

Lin Xiaoyue said: Xiaoju is the happiest when eating, drinking and having fun, not just now, but from childhood to adulthood. It's her hobby and entertainment. You already know why you accepted it before, but now you mind. You didn't say that you want to make Xiaoju happy, you don't even mind her hobbies and entertainment, and what do you say to make her happy, it's boring to be with you, and you can't have fun to enrich your life.

Bigu Jian lowered his head in shame and said, "Master, the apprentice knows that he is wrong."

Lin Xiaoyue said: In fact, in this matter, there is only one sentence in a thousand words, Xiaoju doesn't like you very much, doesn't take you as the center, and doesn't take pleasure in you, so that in this relationship, you don't meet the need to be loved, and you don't meet the need to be valued.

Bigu Jian's eyes lit up, and Shizun said to the depths of his heart.

Lin Xiaoyue said: If Xiaoju doesn't love you, he doesn't need you, he won't risk his life and rescue you from his subordinates.

After hearing this, Bigu Jian suddenly brightened up and showed a happy smile, he knew that Jade Barnacle loved him.