"If I mess up, how hard it will be to earn this little face and opportunity, I don't dare to let go, for fear that they won't cherish it."

Gu Lei knows how difficult it is for Boss Li, to take care of the Li family, and to pull the Gu family to give the future, the uncles are really tired, this opportunity is begged, in exchange, it is not easy.

"Look, the little family is angry, you don't dare to think and dare to do it without Yu'er, you have too many concerns. Smart people are not good at this, and it is easy to miss opportunities with many ideas. ”

Grandpa Li raised his chin proudly, "My granddaughter doesn't care, she will do whatever she thinks of immediately, it doesn't matter if she is wrong, everyone in the family is watching, there are people with bright eyes and bright hearts, knowing that you are dedicated to the clan and everyone, if there is something inappropriate, uncle and brother will stand up, this is the person who can come to you." ”

Grandpa Li treats people sincerely, and he is a child who has grown up, and he teaches him hand-in-hand like his own grandson, and he broke it and crumpled it and said, Teaching Li Rui and Li Xi is the same, there is no difference.

Otherwise, Grandpa Gu doesn't care, anyway, my grandson won't be taught by someone.

"Yes, my grandson has been taught, but I am too timid."

"I understand your heart, when I took over the Li family, the difficulties were similar to those of the Gu family, and I was ostracized everywhere, and there were only three points left on the empty shelf. This bit of family business was earned by my hard work in the northwest, and it was bought with scars. ”

"Your uncle and your second uncle and brothers went to the northwest to make military achievements, and they didn't dare to make a mistake, for fear of losing face in the family. Your second uncle was cautious in the previous dynasty, and he was thoughtful and proper everywhere, but I was not satisfied, he was too timid, and he did it, how can you know who can't do it if you don't do it. ”

Grandpa Li is a bold and careful person, and Grandpa Gu is the same kind of person, and he is the hero who created the family business.

The family they inherited was full of holes, there were a lot of problems left in the custody of the heirloom for several generations, and the children and grandchildren were lying on the merit book to eat, drink and have fun, and they had begun to go downhill.

To this day, full of sadness, blood and tears, it is by no means the work of one person.

"You mean I can be more daring and not afraid to make mistakes?"

"Yes, you have to give everyone a chance to do it, the more opportunities you earn, the more people will jump up, just like a fish in a pond, if you throw fish into it, there will be fish in a hurry to jump out and eat first."

Grandpa Li showed him the way.

Gu Lei pinched his chin and searched for a while, understanding what to do.

"Then I'll dry the embroidery shop?"

"That's right, you can't do everything alone, so we still have to do it together."

"Okay, I'll go back and let Zhang Luo sister-in-law do it."

"There are many people in the family, Yu'er's idea is the right way, you need silver to eat, drink and Lazar, you don't need silver to train your children and grandchildren, you will understand your mind when you become a clan, and see your hard work, people's hearts are not cold in a day, nor can they be warmed in a day."

Grandpa Li sighed, "Don't blame your grandfather for being cold, the first emperor's method is very effective, a clan woman who can read and pass on the family, her role can affect three generations of children and grandchildren." ”

"Yes, I feel it now."

Gu Lei was already exhausted, and he could understand his father's depression and helplessness back then.

"Your mother is a good woman, anyone can blame her, you can't. She just doesn't have enough talent to bear the burden of Gu Hou Mansion, she is suitable for closing the door and living a small life like your third aunt. The world is impermanent, no one expected that the first emperor would make such a move, maybe this is the catastrophe of the Gu family. ”

Grandpa Li turned the jade Buddha beads in his hand, which his granddaughter brought back for him to play with.

"The core of the Gu family's problem is not enough unity, although the clan woman is not in the right way, but it is not all because of the woman, but the Gu family itself has left a lot of problems that have not been cleared up over the years."

"Don't look at the unity of the Li family now, you didn't see that your uncle had a lot of problems in the family when he was young."

"Back then, your Second Uncle Li's martial arts and your uncle were equal figures, but for the sake of the boss, he chose to go back to the former dynasty to earn a future and leave a way back for him, so he chose to back down without hesitation. Why retreat, the family is not united enough, there are too many problems, and the descendants need to stand up and sort out the overall situation. ”

"I can't go home in the northwest all the year round, military merit can't replace everything, but will make them think that they can go sideways when they go out, and they need to have a strong, responsible and open-minded descendant to stand up and manage the clan and restrain the clan."

Grandpa Li did not shy away from telling Gu Lei that the Li family had also taken detours, and they had sacrificed a lot to get to where they are today.

"If you don't get what you pay in return, don't say it doesn't mean you don't know. The second child ran for our father and son in the previous dynasty, asking for grain and grass and military salaries, the border of the former dynasty was inseparable, and the family management could not be left behind, and the second child paid all his efforts. ”

"Again and again, he gave the opportunity of Bo's military exploits to his clansmen and brothers, so that more uncles and brothers in the family could have gained a future and face, and with his ability, he could have gone to the next level, but he chose to give up high-ranking officials for the Li family."

"The second child is gone, the boss is in a lot of pain, but he doesn't have time to sink, he has to take on the entire Li family, Yu'er has nightmares along the way, do you think he doesn't know, what if he knows, can Yu'er not be sad or uncomfortable?"

Grandpa Li took a deep breath, "Yu'er and the fourth child were both taught by your second uncle, if I don't let her kill Geng Li, this fire will be held in my heart." ”

"The Li family has come to this day because their brothers have sacrificed a lot for each other, and it is because the descendants have united the clan for ten years and done everything with all their hearts to achieve this step."

"You have been studying in the Li family for many years, you know, the father of the fourth, fifth and third died on the battlefield in his early years, they themselves are widows and orphans, it is your uncle and second uncle who have worked hard to cultivate talents, and have not let the widows and widows fall behind, more than half of the fourth batch are lonely and widowed children of the year, what is happening now, we are worthy of the entrustment of our uncles and brothers."

Gu Lei's expression was very solemn when he listened, and he listened to the teachings with his ears pricked up seriously.

"One person's strength can't support a family, and your uncle's reputation and achievements were laid out for him by Li Jiaerlang's life."

Grandpa Li turned the Buddha beads, and after a long time calmed down before he spoke again, "Child, you have to contact your uncle and brothers, and sincerely think about them, and the whole clan can go further by twisting into a rope." ”

"Look at your grandmother, your aunt, and Yu'er, how much they have paid for the family, Yu'er also learned from her grandmother, you can don't do anything else, the old and weak and the widow's family must go around in person, and ask about family affairs, for fear that the slaves will not worry about treating the old and weak."

"The daughter of the Li family marries regardless of the concubine, the descendant must fill in the dowry, and there must be a gift for the married daughter at the end of the three festivals and six ceremonies, which is to beat the in-laws and give the support of the married daughter, and the unity of the Li family is earned with heart, not in vain."