Episode 568 He's not a scumbag
At the end of the evening party, Ruan Yi and Ling Wei left together.
Ling Wei drank wine, and Ruan Yi drove back to the hotel with her.
On the way, Ling Wei asked Ruan Yi, "What did you go out with Jiang Yu to talk about?" ”
Ruan Yi: "He said he liked me. ”
Ling Wei: "Then how did you get there?" Did you say yes? ”
Ruan Yi: "I told him about my situation. ”
Ling Wei: "Okay, although I don't think there's any need to say it, if you have a burden, you should really talk about it in advance, but according to what I know about Jiang Yu, he probably won't mind." ”
Ruan Yi pinched the steering wheel a little tighter and didn't respond.
Ling Wei: "So what do you think, do you want to develop it?" The two of you are a good match. ”
Ruan Yi: "Wait until I take care of the divorce...... It's not appropriate now. ”
Ling Wei: "If your marriage with your husband has a little spark, I won't bring you to an occasion like tonight, he hasn't cared about your feelings, why should you consider him, to put it mildly, is there any difference between you and him?" ”
Ruan Yi pursed her lips, "Sister Wei, he actually didn't do anything wrong, don't talk about him like this in the future." ”
"As my friend, the balance in your heart must be unconsciously tilted to my side, from my point of view, he really didn't do anything that a husband should do after we got married, but all this is because this marriage was calculated by me, I was wrong first, he didn't retaliate against me or abuse me, he was already good to me."
Ruan Yi said a lot of words very seriously, and Ling Wei rubbed her eyebrows after listening to it.
In fact, she understood all these truths, as early as when Ruan Yi told her the reason for marriage, she knew it.
But as Ruan Yi said, as Ruan Yi's friend, she will unconsciously speak for her.
Ling Wei was silent for a while, then sighed: "I just think you like him and feel sorry for you." ”
Ruan Yi: "I liked him, but there is no rule that if I like him, he must respond, it is his own choice to pay his feelings, you can't use this to kidnap him, let alone blame him because he didn't meet his expectations." ”
"At least, in my opinion, he was never a scumbag."
Ling Wei also laughed.
Yes, many times, people call them "scumbags" and "scumbags" in their relationships, essentially because the other party does not meet their expectations.
Putting aside those who abuse and cheat money by domestic violence, if measured by feelings, "scum" is a very subjective and abstract description.
Ruan Yi is not wrong in this analysis, Xu Siyan just didn't meet his expectations, and he can't talk about scum.
It's just that......
Ling Wei turned her head to look at Ruan Yi, her cold and calm face was illuminated by the neon outside the car window.
"It's tiring to live so soberly." Ling Wei smiled and said, "If you have to be confused occasionally, life will be much better." ”
The more sober you are, the more painful it is.
Assuming that Ruan Yi feels that Xu Siyan is a scumbag from the bottom of his heart, scolding him a few times a day can be regarded as offsetting some of his emotions.
But she knows the logic so clearly...... After more than three years of marriage, how did she come over?
Ling Wei didn't dare to think about it.
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After Ruan Yi sent Ling Wei back to her room, she returned to her suite.
Ruan Yi turned on the light and changed her clothes, then stood in front of the floor-to-ceiling window and looked down.
Compared with the northern city, the nightlife in the southern city seems to be richer, although it is early in the morning, but there are still a lot of cars on the road.
Ruan Yi stared at the traffic downstairs for a long time, and replayed all kinds of pictures of her marriage to Xu Siyan for more than three years in her head.
Recalling it like this, Ruan Yi was shocked to realize that she and Xu Siyan had never gotten along in private-
Even if there was a short time together, it was because of Wan Liu and Xu Moyan's affairs, such as arranging for Xu Siyan to pick her up, or helping her move.
Other than that, there is no more.
Ruan Yi didn't know if Xu Siyan would usually remember that he was married, probably not, this marriage was his shame to a certain extent.
The end is also a relief for him.
Ruan Yi went to the bathroom to take a shower, and before going to bed, she made a brief list of the things she would take with her in the future, although she didn't know when she would be able to move out, but she always liked to plan ahead.
After making the list, Ruan Yi fell asleep.
Early the next morning, Ruan Yi got up a little late, and didn't open his eyes until after eight o'clock.
When I opened my eyes, the phone next to my pillow rang.
It's Jiang Yu's call.
Ruan Yi promised him to go out to play today last night.
Ruan Yi took the phone and picked it up: "Good morning." ”
Jiang Yu: "Early, are you up?" ”
Ruan Yi: "Well, I just woke up. ”
Jiang Yu: "Then I'll pick you up at the hotel and take you out for breakfast, right?" ”
He said, "Nancheng's special xiaolong, I don't know if you've eaten it before, take you to taste it." ”
Ruan Yi: "Okay, then I'll go wash up." ”
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Ruan Yi and Jiang Yu made an appointment to meet downstairs in the hotel.
After Ruan Yi washed up, she simply changed into a set of clothes, tied her hair casually and went out.
She wore a long dress and canvas shoes, and the whole person was very plain.
Jiang Yu came by car, he stopped in front of the car, and when he saw Ruan Yi coming, he opened the passenger door for her.
After getting into the car, Ruan Yi saw that the ornaments in Jiang Yu's car were butterfly specimens.
The butterfly was beautiful, with sapphire blue and peacock green wings, intense and eye-catching.
Ruan Yi couldn't take his eyes off it.
Jiang Yu noticed this scene and asked her with a smile: "Do you like it, I'll send you back." ”
Ruan Yi: "...... No, I don't need it. ”
She doesn't know anything about butterflies at all, she is a complete novice in this regard, and she only went to catch butterflies to give Xu Siyan a gift before.
Jiang Yu: "Put it in your car, I still have a lot of it at home anyway." ”
Jiang Yu insisted on sending it, but Ruan Yi shirked it several times without success, and finally had to accept it.
Ruan Yi played in Nancheng for three days, and Jiang Yu dutifully accompanied her for three days.
At first, Ruan Yi had some scruples, but Jiang Yu was very measured, saying that he was a friend temporarily, he was really just like a friend, and he didn't have any deviant behavior when he went out to play.
Ruan Yi hadn't gone out to play for many years, and playing with Jiang Yu for a few days was a distraction.
Ruan Yi bought a lot of things, and on the day she left Nancheng, it was also the airport where Jiang Yu took her.
When saying goodbye, Jiang Yu smiled and said to her, "Come back when you have time." ”
Ruan Yi: "You are also welcome to Beicheng." ”
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In the past few days in Nancheng, Ruan Yi has not forgotten to buy gifts for the elders.
After returning to Beicheng, she sent the gifts back one by one.
Wan Liu and Xu Moyan saw Ruan Yi so sensible, and then thought about Xu Siyan's attitude towards her, they felt even more pity.
When Ruan Yi was having dinner at Xu's house in the evening, she received a WeChat message from Fu Xiaozhi.
Fu Xiaozhi: [Ruan Yi, are you free, Zhuzhu wants to propose to Thursday, come and join in the fun. 】
Ruan Yi was stunned when he saw the news.
On this occasion, Xu Siyan should also go.
Ruan Yi instinctively wanted to escape, but after thinking about it, this might be the best chance for her to meet Xu Siyan alone in the near future.