Chapter 12 Experiential Training Courses

Hearing the second brother's words, Chi Jingyuan was a little speechless for a while, and just when he didn't know what to say, the second brother took the initiative to break the brotherly warmth that had been formed so hard.

"Alright, now that we're done, let's get down to business." Ji Jingxu changed his serious style just now, his tone became weird, his flirtatious eyes looked over like hooks, and the question followed, "You and your little girlfriend from high school have also been sorted out." ”

Hearing 'talking about business', Chi Jingyuan had an ominous premonition, and sure enough, the ridiculous question came.

Ji Jingyuan didn't answer, but narrowed his eyes, smiled, and looked at the second brother obliquely.

"Don't use your face at home."

Chi Jingxu frowned, and expressed dissatisfaction with his younger brother's posture: "You said that the eyes are not small, and I used to like to squint because of poor eyesight, but now after vision correction, I still look like this, are you addicted to squinting?" ”

Seeing that Chi Jingyuan seemed to want to defend himself, the second brother didn't give him a chance, and then said: "Do you think I don't understand the idea of 'squinting your eyes, keeping a smile, and hiding yourself'?" It's okay to perform outside, and use such a set to deal with your brother at home? ”

"And even on the outside, your set doesn't work. A smile is precious because it is a way to show kindness when you meet someone you have a relationship with or affection for. “

"And you have the same smile on everyone, your smile is worthless, you see that the curvature of your eyes is basically the same every time, and the time to practice in the mirror is not short, right? Jingyuan, there must be a contrast to be precious. ”

Speaking of this, Chi Jingxu touched the handle with his hand, looked at his younger brother with a scrutinizing eye and said:

"But your expression is also quite interesting in reverse, when you meet everyone squinting and smiling, you look very close, but when you meet relatives and family, you don't have a lot of expressions, and you like poisonous tongues. If there are girls who know about you, they will definitely be interested. ”

"Eh, don't you say that this kind of strong contrast is really easy to arouse the curiosity of those little girls...... Forget it, back to business, did your girlfriend in high school sort it out? ”

“……”

Chi Jingyuan glanced at the second brother, returned his gaze to the TV, and said with a relaxed expression: "Of course." ”

"Oh! Daihatsu! Wuli Jingyuan can now treat the girls he has dated so sensibly? It's my brother! ”

Chi Jingxu was surprised to see his brother's performance, and said loudly while clapping his hands vigorously: "Hey Yigu, is this still the person who couldn't eat because he broke up with the girl he liked, and hid in the bed alone and cried secretly?" Ah jinjia, is this growth......"

"Yikes! Ji Jingxu! Chi Jingyuan's eyes widened, staring at the second brother who was shouting there, and he couldn't help but speak out as a second brother who was a funny artist in the entertainment industry.

Even if he was proud in his heart, he didn't want to mention it, but he had to admit that what the second brother said was the truth.

That time was when he had just transferred from the beautiful country to the peninsula high school, and it was the first time he had a relationship with a girl, and he devoted himself to it. Trying his best to care for and please each other, every day he shush the cold and ask for warmth, all his thoughts and ideas are from the other party's point of view, he thinks this is his love, he thinks he can go on like this until he gets married, and then until he is old.

As a result, after a few months, I was directly beaten by the sentence 'I'm tired', and my heart was broken, and I collapsed emotionally, hiding in the quilt and crying, and I was lost for a long, long time.

This memory can't be said to be black history, for Ji Jingyuan, this is an unforgettable and important experience for him, because this wholehearted but failed relationship not only brings him loss, but the most important thing is growth.

After that, he was not as helpless and blind as he was at the beginning, because of his appearance and family reasons, Chi Jingyuan was extremely popular in school, and there was never a shortage of dating partners.

Through a few years of rich dating experience, he has gone from being flustered when he saw the girl he likes shedding tears, from feeling like the sky was falling after being broken up, to now he can say 'goodbye' with a smile and a regretful tone without much turmoil in his heart.

"Haha......"

Seeing his younger brother's rare and somewhat angry appearance, Chi Jingxu was even more excited, because as Ji Jingyuan gradually grew up and became mature, after learning to hide himself with a smile, it was difficult for him to see such a younger brother.

"Very good, that's right, men should be like this, you have inherited the best genes in our family, how can you cry like a loser for a woman like a flower snake? Your advantages brother knows best, your face is matched with that deceptive smile, plus the contrast after getting to know him. This is the best for a little girl of your age. ”

Chi Jingxu took this opportunity to start teaching his brother his experience as a sea king: "When you meet these girls and feelings, you can't use yourself to experience them. ”

"You need to stand on a higher dimension and manipulate your body with your soul and consciousness, it's like playing a role-playing game, your soul and consciousness are the player, your body is the character you operate, and it has to be treated separately. In this way, no matter what kind of woman you meet, you can be invincible......"

"To treat the kind of girl who is obviously interested in you, you can't talk straight to the point, you must pay attention to the method, and the simplest and most practical thing is to push and pull"

"Generally speaking, 'pushing' is to make her have negative emotions, and 'pulling' is to make her have positive emotions, so that a push and pull will cause strong emotional fluctuations in girls, and they can't just push or pull, nor can they just pull or push. Of course, this method is only useful for those who are interested in you, but I believe that with my brother's charm, this precondition is not difficult at all......"

"I'm grateful for the experience you've shared, but it's not very practical for me to say that you can make Oh Ma and Nu Na beat you to death. Don't worry, although I'm not as free and easy as my brother, I'm not the first Ding I used to be. Chi Jingyuan interrupted the second brother's rambling and simply expressed his opinion.

Although he has suffered a lot of setbacks, and now he can be regarded as a veteran after many interactions, his emotional outlook is still much worse than that of his brother, the pure sea king.

His brother doesn't talk about any feelings at all, he only feels that he is playing a game, but Ji Jingyuan is different, he can play games, but he still hopes to meet someone who can invest in his feelings.

"Hoo ......"

The opportunity to educate his younger brother was ruthlessly interrupted, Chi Jingxu glanced at his younger brother a little unpleasantly, couldn't take a long breath, and said with a posture of a passerby: "You don't understand it very well now, but you will know that I am right in a few years." You will only find the one that really suits you after going through a lot of experiences...... Or those few. ”

"For us, we must not easily develop feelings, and my experience over the years is that human beings can restrain their actions, but they cannot restrain their feelings, because feelings are fickle."

After finishing speaking, Chi Jingxu squinted his eyes slightly, slurped, and looked like he was savoring life and seeing through the red dust.

"Hehe......" Chi Jingyuan shook his head and stood up, picked up his clothes and walked towards the stairs, and when he was about to go upstairs, he looked back and looked at the second brother with undisguised disdain:

"Do you think I haven't read Nietzsche's Poems?"

After saying that, he shook his head and sighed as he walked upstairs.

Chi Jingxu's face was pale, and he looked annoyed and angry as he watched his younger brother's back disappear as he walked upstairs, and then his face slowed down, revealing a bright smile, and he also shook his head, and said in a low voice:

"Stinky Boy ......"