392 Fenestration theory
"That............ Which is it? β
Mei Fang subconsciously pretended to be garlic, which made Xiang Xiaoxia suddenly angry, and pinched Mei Fang's arm fiercely, and Mei Fang, who was grinning in pain, quickly apologized:
"Alright, alright............ I know, I know what you mean. β
Mei Fang covered his arm and said aggrievedly, "But we are not children now......
In fact, he was curious about how his mother had learned this secret through verbal temptation, but now was not the time to delve into it.
"Did you just do it when you were in love, or is it still there-" "Huh? β
Mei Fang only hesitated slightly, and Xiang Xiaoxia grabbed his ears with lightning speed, "I knew that you kid wouldn't break up with both of them for no reason!" β
"Hey Mom, don't be like this, it hurts............ Your son is the boss, a ............ who wants to face."
"Want face? If you really want face, you won't hang the two yellow flower girls from childhood to adulthood. β
Mei Fang spent a lot of effort to coax Xiang Xiaoxia to let her let go of her hand, "Don't think that Mom doesn't know your thoughts, fate and Youxi grew up with you, and the relationship between you and you for so many years is very deep, I know that you have a relationship with me and me, but this is not a reason for you to delay other people's youth." β
"What is called wasting other people's youth, we are fighting for youth together, okay?
Good? β
"My mother doesn't understand the things in the career, and I don't want to care about it, you are partners, so naturally you will continue to cooperate; But emotionally, you can't delay it any longer. β
Xiang Xiaoxia told Mei Fangdao, "Fate and Youxi are both good children, since I left last time, I have been thinking about it for a long time these days, I know that you are now a big boss with a net worth of more than 100 million, and your wings are stiff, so you start to learn from those bosses, and I think it doesn't matter if you have a big wife and a small wife at the same time, isn't it?" β
"Mom, why do you think so much about me?"
Mei Fang suddenly looked very aggrieved and angry, "What do you call a big wife and a little wife?" You say that there is a fate, who is big and who is small? Well? β
"It's because fate is as important as having a relationship in my heart, that's why I'm so entangled!"
Mei Fang responded, "I'm with fate, so I'm reluctant, she suffered a lot when she was a child, and she is not good at communicating with people, so she still has to rely on me; I'm with Youxi, I can't let go of fate, she is kind-hearted, simple-minded, and handed over to others, how can I guarantee that he won't bully fate? β
"Mom, if you think you can give up one, you tell me which one to abandon, if I think it's reasonable, I promise to listen to your arrangement."
Xiang Xiaoxia was speechless when she was refuted by Mei Fang, and after being silent for a long time, she continued, "Of course I can't let go of these two girls, but this society can't allow your kind of thoughts to come true, and the two of them will suffer a lot of grievances at that time." β
"What's more, even if my family agrees, how can the parents of the Yuanyuan family have a Xi family? Their family is such a precious daughter, why should they share a husband with others? What's more, our Lao Mei family has been innocent for generations, not seeking prosperity but seeking a clear conscience, and it can't start to change in your generation. β
Xiang Xiaoxia scolded and educated, and talked a lot to Mei Fang seriously, and Mei Fang now understands her mother's actual position on threesomes.
Of course, she has a bowl of water like herself, because Xia Yuan and Lin Youxi are both children she has watched grow up with, and she has no preference for the two, so she will not encourage Mei Fang to walk with anyone.
Mei Fang had been worried about her mother's unevenness before, after all, when the children were young, she did prefer to be more biased, but now it seems that there is no such obsession. 33
But Yu Li's words, she doesn't support Mei Fang and Xia Yuanlin Youxi being together at the same time, Xiang Xiaoxia's thinking concept is traditional and conservative, even if it is a favorable situation for her family, she will not completely stand in her son's position and consider him.
Bend.
Because Xia Yuan and Lin Youxi are also her heart, she can't watch these two girls suffer such a commission
But this is also the style of my mother Xiang Xiaoxia............
"All in all, this chaotic relationship between you, mom hopes that you can take the time to deal with it in this year, no matter which mom you choose, you will support you, and the other I will recognize as my goddaughter, so that everyone is still a family, but the identity is different."
Mei Fang knew that her mother was kind to Yuanyuan, so she couldn't quarrel with her, and after coming out of the kitchen, Mei Fang and Mei Ya were playing together.
Xia Yuan's expression was also very heavy, and when he saw Mei Fang's appearance, he was even more worried, and when Mei Fang sat next to Xia Yuan, Xia Yuan leaned into Mei Fang's ear and whispered:
"Quarrel?"
Mei Fang smiled and shook his head, "It's okay, don't worry too much, get used to it............"
"It's all my fault, blame me for leaking."
Xia Yuan said in a low voice, "I accidentally said that you would always press my hair in the morning when I was doing a homely meal just now, and Xiang's mother's face changed at that time. β
She asked Mei Fang with some grievances, "Does Auntie think that I don't love myself and slept with you before marriage?" β
"The point is not this, the focus is on ............ Forget it, don't worry too much about this just yet, just get along normally. β
Lin Youxi looked at Xia Yuan and Mei Fang with drooping faces on the side, and her face was as usual as usual, as if she was thinking about something.
Because of all kinds of bad things and troubles, Xiang Xiaoxia's mood is difficult to get better today, Xia Yuan, Mei Fang, and Mei Ya are all worried, and the atmosphere is a little dull when eating, and it is not as happy as every year in the past, only Lin Youxi and Mei Lijun occasionally cheer up, which makes the atmosphere a little easier.
After eating, Mei Fang offered to go out for a walk with Xia Yuan and Lin Youxi, and on the way, Mei Fang informed Xia Yuan and Lin Youxi of the content of the chat with her mother.
"Sure enough............ Mom or Mom. β
Xia Yuan felt a lot more relaxed after listening to Mei Fang's statement, "It turns out that she thinks that Ah Fang is sorry for us, so she wants Ah Fang to be dedicated to loving someone." β
Lin Youxi rubbed his chin and thought, "Then Ah Fang can choose fate, and I will be our mother's goddaughter, which is not bad." β
"How's that going to work! You've become my mother's daughter, and our relationship is not right. β
"That's what Mom had planned."
Lin Youxi reminded Mei Fang, "As long as you are sure of one of them, the other can only be a relationship like a righteous sister, and this shackle will make it impossible for you to make a move on the other person." If we want to rotate as a couple by tying the knot for a year and leaving the year apart, then there will be a lot of resistance. β
"Is Mother Xiang counted to this level? I didn't even expect it............ So that's it............ Youxi has become a sister, and if Ah Fang wants to marry her and have children, it will be difficult for everyone to accept it............"
Xia Yuan covered his head and said in distress, "What should I do then............ Shall we simply tell Aunt Xiang the truth? If you are honest with her, you may be able to get her understandingβ"
"That's definitely not going to work, now that I'm almost completely in a showdown with her, she still doesn't want to do it." Mei Fang shook his head and sat on the dam with his wives to watch the sunset, "My mother's moral level is too high, otherwise how can a mother not like her son bringing two wives back?" β
"Mom is not a high level of morality, she is a defender of feudal etiquette, holding those traditional concepts every day, and refusing to accept contemporary new concepts at all."
The voice that suddenly appeared behind Mei Fang startled all three of them.
I saw Mei Ya standing behind her brother Mei Fang, throwing stones to the river dam.
"I just want 2 sisters-in-law, I have wanted sisters-in-law since I was a child, I don't want any sisters."
"Xiaoya, when did you come?"
"You said that I would sneak over for a walk."
Mei Ya sat on the shoulder of her brother Mei Fang, "Actually, if you want me to say, if the elder brother and Sister Yuanyuan have a sister, just don't get a marriage certificate, don't care if the elders agree or not, as long as the raw rice is cooked and cooked, how can there be no grandchildren?" β
"You girl............ You have a lot of ideas. β
Mei Fang complained about his sister in disgust, his sister Mei Ya was involved in most of Mei Fang's life crossroads, and her brother's idea of a threesome had long been recognized by her, and she also played wonderful assists from time to time, Mei Fang was completely regarded as her own person.
"Although this can be done, to be honest, the relationship with the elders will be very stiff, and this is not the situation we want to have."
Mei Fang said softly, "We not only want the three of us to be together, but also to get the blessings of the elders, which is the most difficult point." β
"My brothers and sisters want too much, that's why they are unhappy." Maya took a glimpse of the sunset.
At this time, Lin Youxi was leaning on Mei Fang's shoulder and thinking about something, and after listening to everyone's speeches, she raised her head and said:
"Actually, I have already made some predictions about this matter............ At this time, I feel that we can learn from the 'fenestration theory'. β
"Fenestration theory?"
"Mr. Brother Xun, a well-known writer, has a very famous set of sayings, that is, people in our country like to compromise, if you want to open the window, everyone must not agree. But if you say you're going to lift the ceiling, they'll agree to open the window. β
"What do you mean
Lin Youxi held his cheeks and smiled, "Our mother's idea has always been based on the choice that Ah Fang has, grasps the initiative, and can choose a wife. β
"But what if the reality changes?"
"Actual conditions have changed?" Xia Yuan's eyes widened, "I don't really understand." β
Lin Youxi smiled slightly, "In other words, as long as we let Ah Fang have no choice at all, lose the initiative, and become a complete single dog, maybe our mother will have the idea of compromise?" β
Some people died, but not completely......