Chapter 980 Blocking
Zeng Xu tirelessly stood in the perspective of a friend to analyze He Xianmo, "It's one thing for you to have hormones now, and it's another thing to get married and live, if nothing else, can your parents accept this type?" A woman's emotional experience should not be evaluated, but how many parents don't consider this when they look at their daughters-in-law? ”
He Xianmo looked at Zeng Xu and took his words quietly: "So you won't choose this kind of marriage when you get married." ”
"Of course not." Zeng Xu replied simply, "If you get married and live, you must choose a relatively simple one, it doesn't matter if you have been in love, you can't be too public." ”
He Xianmo: "The women around you are very flamboyant. ”
Zeng Xu: "Yes, I like this, but I won't marry such a woman." ”
His words are very frank, this should also be the voice of most men, and in front of He Xianmo, Zeng Xu does not have to hide it.
He Xianmo: "Zhou Ruo too? ”
After going around in a big circle, he finally said the question he wanted to ask the most.
"Me and Dara? Tie the knot? Zeng Xu seemed to have heard something fantastical, "What are you thinking?" ”
He Xianmo: "You haven't been together for a long time. ”
Zeng Xu: "It's because we won't get married that our relationship is so stable." ”
He organized the language for a while before he figured out how to explain this logic to He Xianmo, "Because I don't need to be responsible for each other, there is no mental burden, so I play together when I want to play, and I don't contact for the time being when I get tired, she has no expectations for me, and I don't have any requirements for her, we all enjoy this mode, but this kind of getting along needs a threshold." ”
At least he couldn't do that, which was not in line with his values.
He Xianmo clenched his fists slightly and asked him, "She is with other men, you don't care at all?" ”
Zeng Xu: "She didn't belong to me in the first place. ”
He Xianmo: "......"
Well, he shouldn't be able to experience Zeng Xu's chic in his life.
"This is the difference brought about by different emotional views." Zeng Xu knew that He Xianmo couldn't understand, "We are different in this aspect, but because we don't fall in love, it's no problem to be friends, if you find a person like this to talk about feelings, there will be no good results." ”
"Hmm." He Xianmo moved his lips, "Got it." ”
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After chatting with Zeng Xu that day, He Xianmo thought about it for a long time, and finally pulled Zhou Ruo's private account into the WeChat blacklist.
They are indeed not the same kind of people, and entanglement with Zhou Ruo will not end well.
Moreover, he didn't want to create a gap between a woman and Zeng Xu - even if the probability of this happening was low.
A week has passed, and He Xianmo has not contacted Zhou Ruo once.
As for Zeng Xu's side, He Xianmo didn't know very well, he had been on the clinic continuously this week, and his time in the office was limited, so naturally he couldn't talk to Zeng Xu every day as usual.
At the end of the visit on Friday afternoon, when He Xianmo returned to the office, he just took out his mobile phone and received a WeChat message from Lou Xiaojiang.
Lou Xiaojiang: [Doctor He, I'll see you in the hospital tomorrow morning, I'm sorry for your trouble. 】
Seeing this WeChat, He Xianmo remembered that he seemed to have promised Lou Xiaojiang to give her a private consultation last Saturday.
On Saturday.
As soon as this date came out, Zhou Ruo's face immediately flashed in He Xianmo's mind.
His hand holding the phone tightened a little, forced himself to calm down, and replied to Lou Xiaojiang.
[You're welcome, come tomorrow at nine o'clock.] 】
Later, Lou Xiaojiang sent another word of thanks, but He Xianmo didn't reply after seeing it.
Just remembered Zhou Ruo, He Xianmo opened the blacklist of the address book and saw Zhou Ruo's avatar inside.
He Xianmo usually doesn't use WeChat much, and the list is all people who are close to him, and there is only Zhou Ruo in the blacklist.
After he clicked in, he couldn't help but want to go to the circle of friends, but found that he couldn't watch it after being blocked.
He Xianmo's finger moved to the words "unblacklist", and after a long pause, he retreated from this interface while he was still sane.
In order to distract himself, He Xianmo opened the Moments page to refresh after a long absence, and after mechanically flipping down a few times, he actually saw the update of Zhou Ruo's work WeChat.
She updated a few group photos, and it was supposed to be in the lab in the background.
In the photo, she is surrounded by a group of people in the middle, smiling very brightly -
She may not have put on makeup, or she may only wear light makeup, with such a smile, it is a little more intimate and looks very easy-going.
It can be seen that her popularity at work is very good, otherwise the photo will not be arranged in the middle position.
Judging from the copywriting in the circle of friends, this should be the successful conclusion of the first phase of the experiment of a certain project.
Zhou Ruo's copywriting is all praising the members of the team and the company, and the only thing that mentions himself is the sentence "It's my honor to work with such an excellent person".
He remembered what the dean had said when he introduced her resume.
Cambridge University successfully graduated from the most difficult doctoral program, and was recruited into AS, working for two years to mix in the middle level.
He Xianmo has come into contact with too many people with excellent resumes, and smart and intelligent people are easy to be proud, and their gestures unconsciously carry a sense of superiority, even he can't escape this.
But Zhou Ruo can't see any arrogance in academic qualifications at all.
Although she doesn't feel close to people, it's not because of her academic qualifications, but because of her face.
It is precisely because of her face that people will subconsciously think that she is a person who has nothing to show for herself.
He Xianmo also suddenly realized that he never seemed to have "appreciated" Zhou Ruo's spiritual world.
His attention to her is all at the level of sensory stimulation, and when he sees her, the restless hormones will eat away from all reason.
This feeling is not enough to be called "like", let alone love.
He may have really experienced a window period for too long, forgetting the feeling of being in love, and being paralyzed by sensory stimulation.
Staying away from Zhou Ruo is the right decision, like quitting drugs.
Sinking in desire is a despicable behavior, and it is also something he has always looked down on.
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On Saturday, Zhou Ruo went out hiking with friends for half a day.
This time the hiking valley rain did not arrive, and the friends who usually play often pulled some new faces in, Zhou Ruo never expected that he would meet Cai Jiahe at this time.
Actually, it was a little down, but when I found it, the person was already on the bus, and I couldn't walk if I wanted to.
Cai Jiahe didn't come to Zhou Ruo on a special trip, but he was still very surprised to meet Zhou Ruo here, so he followed her the whole hiking.
Fortunately, he still knows restraint, and he is not as stubborn as before, although Zhou Ruo is annoying, he still saves face in front of others.
When he returned to the city after the hike, Cai Jiahe sat next to Zhou Ruo.
Zhou Ruo glanced at him.
Cai Jiahe seemed to realize something, and immediately explained: "I just want to talk to you, I don't mean anything else." ”
Cai Jiahe recently changed his glasses, and Zhou Ruo stared at him for a while, almost hallucinating He Xianmo.
I didn't see them so similar before.
Speaking of He Xianmo, Zhou Ruocai reacted that this person hadn't appeared in her world for a few days.