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Disappointed.
Zhou Ruo carefully smacked the word, and after more than ten seconds, he asked him, "Are you looking forward to seeing my family?"
"Sooner or later, isn't it?" He did not deny or admit it.
"I don't let Zhou Li and Zhu Zhu tell them, either because you can't see anyone, or because you don't want them to ask me questions about you for the time being." Zhou Ruo said, "I've been so tired lately, and it will take me a lot of energy to explain this matter."
"yes, I understand." He Xianmo nodded, their current relationship is indeed difficult to explain, and Zhou Ruo's side effects of progesterone in the past two days are also quite large, compared to her body, these are trivial things.
He Xianmo adjusted his breathing and said to Zhou Ruo, "I'm fine, you don't have to worry about me."
Zhou Ruo smiled, she picked up her mobile phone and saw the notice of the property, and asked him sideways, "Auntie and nutritionist have arrived, when will you move in with me?"
Moving to Westminster's villa, this is an agreement that the two of them reached the day before yesterday.
When He Xianmo heard this, his mood improved significantly, "I'm going to go to the clinic on Monday, is it too late to take a leave of absence on Tuesday?"
"You don't need to ask for leave, you put away your things tonight, and the moving matter has property and Lao Chen." Zhou Ruo said that he had already picked up his mobile phone and sent WeChat to Lao Chen.
Recently, He Xianmo has asked for leave frequently because of her affairs, although the previous few times were necessary leave, but Zhou Ruo still didn't want He Xianmo to delay too much work because of her, such as moving, so he didn't have to come in person.
Zhou Ruo did things resolutely, and after a few minutes, everything was already arranged, "You go back today to collect a carry-on luggage first, and Lao Chen and the people from the property will come early tomorrow morning, you go to work as usual, and go directly over there after work."
He Xianmo listened to Zhou Ruo's arrangement of these things, and suddenly had the illusion that he was being raised by a rich woman, and after this thought came up, he couldn't help but smile.
This laugh came too suddenly, and it successfully aroused Zhou Ruo's curiosity, "What are you laughing at?"
"It feels like you're covered." He Xianmo explained truthfully.
Zhou Ruo: "I didn't give you any money, where did you get this feeling?"
He Xianmo thought for a while and said, "I arranged all these things before."
He Xianmo has been taught since he was a child that men should take care of women, although he later accepted a lot of equal rights ideas abroad, but he subconsciously still has some machismo traits - for example, when he is in love, he always habitually arranges everything for the woman, no matter what the other party does, he thinks that he should be by his side.
The so-called "boyfriend's sense of responsibility".
He Xianmo and Zhou Ruo's relationship mode is different from the previous relationships, but the subconscious concept is still difficult to get rid of.
"Oh, do you think this kind of thing should be arranged by you?" As soon as he explained, Zhou Ruo understood why he felt like he was being fostered.
He is used to being the one who takes care of others in a relationship, and this kind of "giving" will make him feel that he is in control of the overall situation, and if the other party does not need him to take care of him, he will feel that he is not needed and insecure.
He Xianmo knew that Zhou Ruo did not agree with his idea, so he did not answer the question directly, but said, "I just want to take care of you more, and I hope you will be more relaxed."
"I see what you mean." Zhou Ruo nodded, "I fully understand your motivation for doing this, and I am grateful."
"But I think you have to think about this from a different perspective - you take care of me, it doesn't mean that you have to take care of everything between us, and it doesn't mean that you have to revolve around me every day, just like moving, even if you don't get there, it doesn't matter, and you don't need me to move by myself." Zhou Ruo patiently explained him, "Relax, don't frame yourself so many obligations."
He Xianmo: "...... Well, okay."
Zhou Ruo: "Okay, I know that it is difficult to change people's minds, you have been like this for more than 30 years, I will not force you to change immediately."
She took a step back, after all, He Xianmo's sense of responsibility and his love of taking care of his girlfriend are nothing
"I promise you, and I'll occasionally meet your 'needed' needs in the future."
HE Xianmo: "For example?"
Zhou Ruo: "For example—go shopping with me? I need to buy some pairs of flats."
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Zhou Ruo's limbs are a little swollen due to progesterone in the past few days, and the few pairs of sneakers in the shoe cabinet are not very comfortable to wear, so he wants to buy a batch of new ones.
He Xianmo naturally had no opinion on Zhou Ruo's request, and this was the first time they had gone out shopping together.
Like most men, He Xianmo didn't have much interest in shopping, and he used to rarely go shopping with women — a few times, Shi Lan and Xu Xuanruo said that shopping with him was too boring to provide any reference, as if they were following a robot.
Thinking of these previous lessons, He Xianmo and Zhou Ruo paid special attention to the "sense of participation" after coming to the mall, and he was even already working on the draft, thinking about how to praise him when Zhou Ruo asked him if he looked good - Zhou Ruo was not wrong about one thing, he really didn't have any aesthetics in picking women's clothes, but fortunately, Zhou Ruo usually wore only a few brands, and He Xianmo barely remembered the style by virtue of rote memorization.
But it was a bit difficult for him to open up new fields.
After thinking about it, the two of them had already walked to the counter of an outdoor sports brand, and after Zhou Ruo came in, he told the teller about his demand list, and then selected a few shoes through her recommendation - He Xianmo saw the row of shoes at his feet, his eyes swept over one by one, and began to think about which pair was better looking and suitable for her, so that he could answer as quickly as possible when Zhou Ruo asked him.
However, the problem in the default did not appear, Zhou Ruo took off the shoes he tried on his feet, said "all-in" to the teller, and then went to the counter with his bag to swipe his card.
He Xianmo looked at her back: "......"
Oh, he forgot that Zhou Ruo didn't need to think about choosing one or the other when she bought something, as long as she liked it, she could take it all.
As a result, He Xianmo lost his sense of participation in shopping.
When He Xianmo was in a daze, Zhou Ruo had already swiped the card, and several tellers were helping her pack a few pairs of sneakers that she had just tried on.
He Xianmo came back to his senses and looked at Zhou Ruo, "I'll send the things to the car first."
There are so many boxes, you definitely can't carry them around.
"No, I'll let them put it in the service center, and together with other things in a while, Lao Chen will send it directly to Westminster." Zhou Ruo grabbed He Xianmo's arm, "Do you have anything to buy?" Shall we go and have a look?"
"Nope." He Xianmo rejected Zhou Ruo's proposal, "Let's go, buy other things you need."
"I'm here to buy shoes, and the rest are too lazy to shop." Zhou Ruo looked at He Xianmo, "I'll give you a gift, what do you want?"
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