Chapter 98: Who is the stand-in?
Gu Zhun said in a cold tone, "What it should be is what it is, you are not bad to them, they are already seven years old, they should be able to distinguish right from wrong." ”
He and Shan have been married for a while, but the two children still lose their temper for the same reason. In his opinion, it is clearly vexatious.
Zhao Zhao was spoiled too much before, and the old mansion was extremely doting on the two children, and now it was time for them to change their temper.
Seeing this, he didn't want to say anything more, but said: "Then Mr. Gu, don't be too sad, if you reason with Zhaozhao and she can't listen, you can also try to let your mother and grandma say." Zhao Zhao is more familiar with them, and should be able to listen to their advice. ”
Gu Zhun nodded, "Okay, thanks for the reminder." ”
After dinner, go back to their rooms.
Gu Zhun called Chu Xiuyuan.
Knowing that Zhao Zhao had a temper, Chu Xiuyuan's first sentence was to ask: "Is it the stepmother you married back who made Zhao Zhao angry?" I knew that this kind of uneducated woman shouldn't have entered the door of our Gu family, and such a well-behaved child as Zhao Zhao was so angry that she didn't eat! ”
Gu Zhun said with a cold face: "Mom, you are biased against simplicity. Simple is very good to the two children, and now even Huainan has begun to accept her, only Zhaozhao is uncomfortable. ”
Chu Xiuyuan sneered: "Isn't it because Huainan is so coaxing? You want me to help you persuade Zhaozhao, but there is no door. Zhao Zhao is my granddaughter, what does that woman have to do with me? I didn't let you divorce, I was already looking at your face. Now I want to serve her as a mother-in-law, don't even think about it! ”
Chu Xiuyuan hung up the phone unhappily.
Gu Zhun pressed his eyebrows.
It seems that the rejection of simplicity is not only Zhaozhao, but also Mom.
Fortunately, they live separately now, and they don't have mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems to face every day. In the future, I don't plan to live together as a family, and I have more space for each other to avoid conflicts to the greatest extent.
There was no help from Chu Xiuyuan, so Gu Zhun had to call his grandmother.
"Eldest grandson, tell me you're here to report the good news!"
Grandma Gu's old naughty voice came from her mobile phone.
Gu Zhun said a few words, told Grandma Gu the reason for the call, and said apologetically: "Originally, I didn't want to trouble grandma about this matter, but I really didn't know how to communicate with Zhaozhao, so I had to call grandma for advice." ”
"You!"
Grandma Gu shook her head, "You are good at everything, but your brain is always used to doing things according to your businessman's routine." You must feel that Zhao Zhao did something wrong, and you want Zhao Zhao to learn a lesson, so you don't want to coax her, right? ”
Gu Zhun responded: "Originally, it was her fault. Grandma, Zhao Zhao is very hostile to simplicity. ”
"Isn't it because you're a father? You've never picked up and dropped off children before, but this time you went with a simple proposal, isn't Zhaozhao's heart just unbalanced? Maybe she's still wondering if you, the father, only care about the new mother, and don't care about her and Nannan at all! ”
"Xiao Zhun, the child has a big opinion on the stepmother, and in the final analysis, the father is not good enough. You only think about making the children accept simplicity in words, but you don't think about using actions to make the hearts of the whole family screw together. You've been married for so long, how many family events have you been to?
"Being together for a short time and not understanding each other is inherently contradictory, and the more you try to get one of them to approve of the other, the more counterproductive it becomes. It's easy to say that she is an adult and can always understand your hard work. But kids can't, they're a little bit older, and you can't hold them to the standards of adults. ”
Gu Zhun was thoughtful.
Grandma Gu continued: "It's not just about children, you are too rigid, it's the same in simple things, it's been so long, you marry someone into the door, just inspect people's character, and treat people as guests at home, do you think it's appropriate?" ”
Even during this time, Grandma Gu did not deliberately pay attention to the relationship status of the two children.
But I also want to know that there is no progress between them at all, and they still maintain the same politeness as before.
Grandma Gu became angry when she thought that her carefully selected granddaughter-in-law was treated like this by a stinky boy.
"In short, you can solve the problems of your small family by yourself. Unless you live with a simple cohabitation, my old bones will not be able to help you educate your children. ”
Grandma Gu also hung up the phone neatly.
Brigadier Gu put down his phone, lit a cigarette for himself, and stared at the thick night outside, his eyes deeper than the night.
A few minutes later, Brigadier Gu extinguished the cigarette butt, got up and walked out of the room, and came to the door of the children's room.
Pushing open the door, Gu Zhaozhao had calmed down and was sitting at the desk doing his homework.
Hearing the voice, she quickly looked up, saw that it was him, her mouth deflated, and she turned her chair in a stiff direction.
Gu Zhun's tall body approached, blocking a small piece of light, and said, "Zhaozhao, can Dad talk to you?" ”
Gu Zhaozhao cried and said angrily: "If you want to talk about that woman, I don't want to talk about it." ”
Gu Zhun half-squatted down, looked directly into Gu Zhaozhao's eyes, and said, "It's not about Aunt Jane, it's about our father and daughter." Do you think your dad doesn't love you enough that that's why you're angry? ”
Gu Zhaozhao grabbed the pencil and kept silent, but the grievances in his heart bubbled out one by one.
Gu Zhun's voice was low, sounding extremely patient, "Dad seems to have been ignoring you all the time, because of work and the Gu family, he handed you over to the elders to raise. It wasn't until I brought you in recently that I realized I was missing out on a lot.
"Dad doesn't know you very well and doesn't know how to get along with you. Did my grandparents tell you that my father was such a character who was not very close to people since he was a child, and my grandparents used to suspect that I had autism. ”
Regarding the matter of their father, the two children have long been ripe.
Dad has been excellent since he was a child, and he never worries about it, but he doesn't talk too much, and he is cold to everyone.
Later, my father became the heir of the Gu family, and he was under a lot of pressure, so he didn't like to laugh or talk anymore.
Originally, she could accept such a father, until her stepmother came, and her father was quietly changing......
Gu Zhaozhao wiped away his tears fiercely, "Then why doesn't Dad stay indifferent?" Why change because of her? Do you love her that much? ”
Gu Zhun stretched out his hand, wiped away the tears from the corners of Gu Zhaozhao's eyes, and said, "Dad is not for Aunt Jane to change, Dad's change is for himself." Speaking of which, you may think that Dad is a bit selfish, but the reason why I changed myself is that I want to have a warm and happy family, with a wife and children, and a beautiful home. ”
Gu Zhaozhao pursed his lips, "Then why don't you want it, you want it now?" Isn't it because of her that my dad has expectations? Didn't my brother and I make my father happy because of our existence? ”