Chapter 89: Why Didn't You Say It Earlier
Han Qingshuang rested for a while, and was called by the medical staff who went and returned, and returned to the carriage after a while.
"Second sister-in-law, what is the doctor looking for you?" Su Shilei asked nervously.
"Oh, he wanted to ask about the first aid, and I told him." Han Qingshuang replied, and then looked at the little girl who was still in shock, "Your name is Yuanyuan, right?" ”
The little girl nodded, she knew that this beautiful aunt had just saved herself.
"You must be careful the next time you eat, you can't eat too quickly, otherwise it will be easy to get into trouble." Han Qingshuang touched her head, and said to the old lady: "Especially things like dates, before the child is six years old, her esophagus is not very good at digesting these things, so if conditions permit, you still have to peel and eat them." ”
"I see." The old lady also came back to her senses and looked at Han Qingshuang gratefully, "Girl, thanks to you, otherwise I wouldn't have the face to go back to see her father." ”
"Auntie, it's our side that has a bit of responsibility," Han Qingshuang smiled apologetically, "It would have been nice to remind you earlier." ”
"It has nothing to do with you, my granddaughter was hungry when she was young, and she always lost some food." The old lady looked at the round round and let out a long sigh.
"This child's mother has always wanted a male baby, so as soon as Yuanyuan was born, she was not treated very well by her mother." The old lady touched her round head lovingly, "I think that both male and female babies are the same, and my son is also from this point of view, and it is not that he can't give birth, and he wants a boy to have another one in two years." ”
But her mother was a little stunned, thinking that Yuanyuan had robbed her of the opportunity to give birth to her son.
"Her father and I love him and her very much, but her mother has been harsh behind her back, and her father is busy at work, so he didn't notice it at all."
"Later, when Yuanyuan was starved by her mother for a few days and didn't eat, she secretly ran out to pick up things thrown by others to eat, and her father found out."
Speaking of this, the old lady wiped her tears, her eyes full of distress.
"Her father and her mother had a fierce quarrel, although our family is not rich, but we also feel that there will be no shortage of food and drink, we don't understand why she is so ruthless as a mother not to give food to her children."
"Later, I learned that her mother felt that everything in the family had to be left to her future son, and her daughter was nothing in her eyes."
Su Shilei was very angry when she heard this, "Is she also a woman herself?" Why do you look down on women so much? ”
"Alas, the education she received in her mother's family is that everything in the family belongs to her younger brother, so she is so stubborn from the root."
The old lady was also very speechless, you said that if their man's family was patriarchal, it would be okay, she was a mother, and she was so harsh on her only child, she really couldn't understand.
"She may just want her child to replicate the path she has walked." Han Qingshuang glanced at Yuan Yuan, who was leaning on her grandmother's side, "Maybe this is the life her mother lived when she was a child, when she has control over the life and death of others, she will copy what she experienced in her childhood to her daughter." ”
There are actually many such examples in later generations, and she has a girlfriend who studies psychology and told her many similar things.
So for such things, Han Qingshuang still knows a little bit.
"Since then, her father has not dared to let her watch the child at home, so he sent the child to me." The old lady patted the round eyes that couldn't be opened, "For her sake, her father and her mother couldn't communicate many times, and finally chose to divorce." ”
"Good departure!" The fat man and Su Shilei said in unison.
Divorce in this era is not as casual as in later generations, and it is common to see divorces after a week of marriage, as if it were commonplace.
In this era, divorce is a big thing, and most people are reluctant to divorce if it is not in the end.
"If you want me to say, you should leave, what's wrong with the girl, I think the girl is a caring little padded jacket." The fat man's face was also uneven, "My kid is a naughty one, a leather monkey, but his sister is very well-behaved." ”
"It is undeniable that our family does favor boys, but we will not treat our own daughters harshly, no matter what, it is also our own child."
What the fat man said is very true, in this era, maybe it is not only in this era, but even in the future life before Han Qingshuang left, the idea of patriarchy has always been there.
Although countless people are clamoring for equality between men and women, can men and women really be equal in that society?
As for the fact that Han Qingshuang has worked hard for many years, it is very cruel to say, no.
She has to work harder than men to stand in a position of dialogue with them on an equal footing.
Some men are born with the feeling that women are weaker than them and inferior to them.
There is no way to reverse this kind of ideological imprisonment.
But there is only one way for Han Qingshuang to treat this kind of person, which is to do a better job than that person and slap him in the face.
This is a kind of disadvantage brought about by inheriting culture, and society is indeed progressing, but there are not many people who are advancing together.
"If I have a girl in the future, I will definitely love her very much." Su Shilei also spoke.
Han Qingshuang laughed out loud, and patted Su Shilei angrily, "How old are you, you want to have a child?" ”
"You, now the focus is still on learning, and when you know more and more knowledge, you will know that many things will only happen because of ignorance." What Han Qingshuang said is very meaningful.
She dared to guarantee that even if Yuanyuan's mother had a little cultural level, she would not be very high.
After receiving higher education, it will be inexplicably a little shameful to do these cheap things.
Yuanyuan was already asleep, and Han Qingshuang simply asked the old lady to put her on the bed on their lower bunk.
"Auntie, where did you get off?" Han Qingshuang asked as he helped Yuanyuan cover the quilt.
"We went to the provincial capital, went to her father, said that we would go back to readjust and prepare to send her to school in September." The old lady replied.
"Will Yuanyuan Dad pick you up later?" Han Qingshuang saw the old lady nodding, and said, "We'll help you send it to the place in a while, Yuanyuan is asleep, and it's not convenient for you to take your luggage." ”
"Alas, well, thank you, girl." The old lady smiled gratefully, "I'll just say what to do later, thank you." ”
"Thank you, when you're out of the house, you can help." Han Qingshuang also saw that the old lady was very sensible, and it was really difficult for her granddaughter to get out of the car, so she offered to help.
If the old lady felt that the fault was on them at the beginning, Han Qingshuang definitely did not have this attitude.
Now everyone is a very reasonable person, and she can naturally give convenience.
The train soon arrived in Cheng'an City, Han Qingshuang and a few people packed their luggage in advance, and when the train stopped, Han Qingshuang hugged the sleeping Yuanyuan, the fat man and Su Shilei took most of the luggage, and the old lady carried some lighter ones, and followed the flow of people out of the train station.
As soon as I arrived at the exit of the station, a tall man waved to the old lady, "Mom, this way." ”
The old lady hurriedly led a few people to the man's side.
"Mom, where's Yuanyuan?" When the man saw it, the old lady was a little anxious about carrying something in her hand.
"Yuanyuan fell asleep, and a kind person helped me hold it." The old lady hurriedly said.
Han Qingshuang and the others also walked to the man's side, and the man was relieved to see the child in Han Qingshuang's arms, and hurriedly took it, "Give it to me, thank you so much." ”
"You're welcome, just help." Han Qingshuang gave Yuanyuan to the man, and said to the old lady, "Auntie, let's go first, remember to go back and take Yuanyuan to the hospital to see." ”
"Okay, girl, thank you so much." The old lady grably grabbed Han Qingshuang's hand, "Where are you going?" Or, let my son give you a ride. ”
"You're welcome, we still have something to do, let's go." Han Qingshuang nodded to the man and left with Su Shilei and the fat man.
Behind him, I heard the man ask the old lady, "Mom, what's wrong with Yuanyuan?" Why do you have to go to the hospital? ”
The old lady told the man about the situation on the train.
"Why didn't you say it earlier, it's thanks to that girl, and you didn't say thank you." The man was very annoyed that his daughter was rescued by others, and he didn't even say anything.
"This has just met, haven't you had time to say it......" The old lady is also very innocent.
Han Qingshuang has already taken Su Shilei and them farther and farther, and they will definitely not be able to catch up, so they have to see if there is a chance to meet them next time, but the provincial city is so big, the chance is too small.
"Let's save the parting ways." Han Qingshuang looked at the fat man and smiled slightly, "Maybe when we go to the wholesale market, we can still meet you." ”
"That's a good feeling, haha, then I'll go first." The fat man laughed, said goodbye to the two, and walked directly to another place.
"Sister-in-law, where are we going?" Su Shilei looked at Han Qingshuang and asked confusedly.
The provincial city is so big, he was a little confused as soon as he got out of the car, and he followed the cold frost closely.
"Let's buy the train ticket for the return journey first." Han Qingshuang originally wanted to go directly, but suddenly remembered that now is not the time to buy tickets directly with your mobile phone in the future.
Thinking of this, Han Qingshuang took Su Shilei to the ticket hall.
There are a lot of people in the ticket hall, and there are many scalpers soliciting customers, asking if they want tickets.
Han Qingshuang ignored the scalper for the time being, she now wanted to see if she could buy a ticket back at the window, and if she couldn't buy it, she would think about the scalper again.
"You stand here and don't move, wait until I say hello and come back to you, do you hear?" Han Qingshuang told Su Shilei that there are too many people here, and if you get lost, it is really difficult to find.
"I know, sister-in-law, I'm sixteen, and I'm not a child." Although Su Shilei feels that the number of people is panicking, he is more or less an adult, and he still has this ability.