131. Education

"Then let her bully?"

"No, let's use wisdom to resolve it."

"For people like my mother-in-law, how can I solve it with wisdom?"

"Yingzi, before, I didn't know the character of your mother-in-law, through this period of observation and thinking, let me tell you if it is in line with her character."

"You say!"

"Your mother-in-law, this life is also soaked in bitter water, her husband died early, in those years, the eldest son was sick again, she herself was sick for so many years, she had a lot of bitterness in her heart, so she was mean to people, she was narrow-minded, withdrawn, uninformed, and loved money like life."

"Yes, big girl, you summed it up so right."

"Yingzi for this kind of person! Easy to deal with. ”

"How to deal with it, teach me quickly, I'm too difficult."

"This kind of person is a master who watches people cook, first of all, you have to stand up and let her know that you are not a bully, you have to have a bottom line and principles, and you can't touch it, such as yin and yang weird words like that day, you can't bear it, such as money, keep it yourself, especially now, you just asked for 20,000 yuan back from her, this money is hers in her opinion, you can't let her have this illusion, what's yours is yours, it has nothing to do with her, don't rush to please her at this time, otherwise, she will feel that this matter is your fault, within a month, don't take the initiative to ignore her, and don't give a penny of household money, hanging her. ”

"Not only that, you also have to say some words about knocking on the side bowl, for example, whose daughter-in-law doesn't work at home and relies on her husband to support her, what else does her husband buy her, Ling Feng buys you something, don't be polite, isn't the husband making money for his wife? He doesn't buy it, you have to take the initiative to mention it, it's impossible to rely on him to take the initiative, what do you need from your husband, don't think about it in your heart, don't say it, and then sulk if you don't get it, many stupid women are like this, there is a demand, say! Tell him! Then you get it, you are very satisfied and happy, his sense of worth comes out, the man needs to be recognized, that is, his sense of self-worth, let him pay, and then satisfy his sense of value, he is happy, you are also happy, why not! ”

"In this way, while Ling Feng still has a trace of guilt for you, let him spend money for you, buy clothes, buy jewelry, and no one at home does housework, ask a nanny and let him spend money. Make every effort to make his money, so that he has a sense of value in paying. ”

Yingzi: "Didn't you say how to deal with your mother-in-law?" How to say it is Ling Feng. ”

"You want to arouse Ling Feng's attention to you, no matter what method you use, you need your wisdom here, a man is cheap in his bones, you are obedient to him, he feels bored, indifferent to you, you do a little bit, of course, grasp the degree, he is willing to pay for you before and after the saddle, the husband is good to you, the mother-in-law sees it in her eyes, and she doesn't dare to make too much trouble with you."

"Now come back to my mother-in-law, when she realizes that you are not a soft persimmon, she can't shake your position in her son's mind, she has to adjust her own mentality and position in order to stay comfortable in this family, at this time, you just need to use a little trick, such as giving her a little benefit, giving her twenty yuan of pocket money every month, it's really just pocket money, let her son out, mother-in-law has not spent much money in her life, naturally she is happy."

"This money, you can't give too much, it's not that the more you give, the better, it's only twenty yuan a month at present, and it can only be given after two months, if you can't give it now, just give money, don't buy clothes or anything, this kind of person, you give her twenty yuan, it's better to buy something for her than to buy something for fifty yuan, and make her happy."

"If you have a child in the future, if she helps take care of the child, add ten yuan, if she can't take the child, ask the nanny to take it, ask the nanny to take it, let Ling Feng out, you still give your mother-in-law money to spend every month, and don't make her feel that you owe her, you have to give it to her, if she makes you unhappy that month, she won't give it, give her money, and let her make you unhappy, what is the reason, whose daughter-in-law spends money on her mother-in-law? Very little! Knock on her, let her be content, cherish. ”

Yingzi was embarrassed and said: "This is too difficult and complicated, I would rather go to work and choke myself enough than spend all this effort on this." It's too much brains. ”

"Being able to work is about whether you can make money, eat well, whether you can handle family relationships well, whether you can get family happiness, good marriage relationships, are all managed by heart, people who are lazy will inevitably suffer from poverty, suspicious of the world's troubles, people who don't want to work hard, will inevitably be burdened by people's feelings, hurt by others, and be coerced by the so-called fate to drift with the flow and not be autonomous, as long as you live in the crowd, you must try to learn how to get along with the people around you, otherwise you can only hit your head and bleed."

"Okay, good, I learn, I will learn well."

When she got home, Ling Feng saw Yingzi and greeted her, "Yingzi, you're back!" Come and eat! ”

When she went to the kitchen, there was only a little green vegetable soup with a few leaves floating in it.

Ming Ming told him that she would go home for dinner tonight, but they didn't wait for her, and only left a little soup for her.

As usual, she didn't care, and ate the rice with vegetable soup, but she was just educated by the big girl, if there is no change at all, then she is not educated in vain.

Ling Feng saw Yingzi stunned and said, "We have already eaten, you can eat quickly!"

She wanted to say, nothing, what to eat, but it occurred to her that the big girl told her not to speak with emotion, no matter what the situation.

Yingzi rubbed his arm: "Ling Feng, I'm too tired today, and I don't want to eat, you can give me a bowl of noodles!" Add to that a poached egg, and the doctor said that I need nutrition now. ”

Yingzi said, sitting on the stool, closing her eyes and recuperating, looking weak.

Ling Feng looked at Yingzi and felt pity, and quickly made a bowl of noodles with a poached egg on it.

The mother-in-law listened to it outside, and she was so angry that her lungs were about to explode, but she was helpless, her daughter-in-law had just come back, and if she ran away again, her son would be with her.

In the kitchen, Yingzi was eating noodles with satisfaction, while telling Ling Feng about her opening of the store tomorrow.

"Ling Feng, those breads and pastries, you have tasted them! How does it taste? If it were you, would you be willing to spend money on food? ”

"It tastes really good, if it were me, of course I would be willing to spend money to buy it, and we can't afford to eat it now."

"I heard from the big girl, you're making a lot of money now! Why is there only a little vegetable soup at home? Ling Feng, my mother's health is not good, I have to eat better, you take some money to my mother, let her buy more vegetables and come back, every meal of meat and eggs can't be less, if you don't spend money, why make money? ”

(End of chapter)