154. Winter vacation

Zhang Yu didn't expect Liu Yulan to say that she would not marry Lao Feng before she could speak.

"Auntie, you have to understand Huihui, she has been hurt by Wu Laosan, she has a psychological shadow, she doesn't want a man in the family to appear, she said she is afraid of ......"

"I know, I'm sorry for her, Wu Laosan coveted her at the beginning, and was almost harmed by him, that scene, don't talk about her, I'm scared when I think about it, but Lao Feng won't, he is an honest man, but it's a pity that Huihui doesn't accept him......"

"Auntie, do you think Lao Feng is an honest person, how long have you been in contact with him, do you really know him?"

"Let's be in contact for more than three months! He lives nearby, often comes to my shop to buy steamed buns, and he knows each other from time to time, and he often helps me with work, and he is very real. ”

"I heard you were going to get married next week?"

"That's right! I didn't expect Huihui to react so much to my remarriage, I thought she would support me, forget it, don't mention it. ”

"Auntie, Huihui is against it, because she is afraid that you will repeat the mistakes of the past, and the other one, she is not used to having a man in the family, not to mention that the Feng family has four men, so it is understandable that it is difficult for her to accept."

"I know this, she told me everything, she said, if I remarry, she will run away from home and never come back, she is my only child, she does this, doesn't she want my life?"

"So, you dismissed the idea of remarrying, just for Huihui?"

"She went to college in other places, I am a woman, busy with business, it doesn't matter if I am tired, I am afraid that Wu Laosan will come to the door again, since Huihui went to college, I have seen Wu Laosan snooping on me outside my store several times, do you know it? For a while, I was terrified, for fear that one day, Wu Laosan would come into my store and choke my neck again...... But since Lao Feng came to my store to help, Wu Laosan has disappeared, and in appearance, Wu Laosan is not Lao Feng's opponent. ”

"Auntie, I understand your feelings, you want to find a man, have a companion, and have a dependence, but if you don't understand this man and stay with him, not only can he not shield you from the wind and rain, on the contrary, all the wind and rain in your life are brought to you by him, Wu Laosan is an example."

"Lao Feng is not such a person, how can Mr. Wu compare with him."

"Auntie, you've only been in contact with him for three months, and I think it takes at least a year to get to know someone! So you and Lao Feng are indeed a little in a hurry, or let's learn more about it! Since you've already failed once, you should be more cautious this time. ”

"Anyway, Huihui doesn't agree, so I won't think about it anymore."

"Auntie, I mean, even if Huihui doesn't object, you have to think carefully, let me help you analyze, even if Lao Feng is really an honest person and a good person, the two of you are together and can rely on each other, but the two of you are people with children, Lao Feng's three children are still in school, it is the time when you need money, and it is also the time to grow your body, the amount of food for three and a half children a day is equivalent to the amount of food for three days of your mother and daughter! Their monthly expenses add up to the equivalent of three months of your mother and daughter's expenses! Have you thought about this? ”

Liu Yulan was silent.

"Auntie, Lao Feng's salary in the machinery factory is only sixty yuan a month, is it enough to support the four of them? Isn't it enough to just eat? Over the years, there must have been a lot of famine, right? After you get married, you will be a joint debt, will you pay them back? ”

"Also, now, your daily income, in addition to the various expenses of your mother and daughter, there is still a sum of money left, your savings are increasing year by year, when you are old and can't do anything, you can help Huihui take care of the children, you can give your grandchildren a little money to buy candy to eat, you can also buy whatever you want, live a leisurely life, if you marry Lao Feng, can you still have any money left over from the money you earn now? In addition to selling steamed buns every day, you also have to wash clothes and cook for the four old men, are you tired? ”

"When you get old in the future, you have to marry a daughter-in-law for Lao Feng's three sons and take care of the children, you won't have a day in your life, are you tired?"

Liu Yulan was thoughtful.

Zhang Yu continued: "In this life, people want more and pay more, you want Lao Feng's care and dependence, and you yourself also have to pay a lot, compared to what he gave you, you probably pay more, right?" If you think clearly, what you get and what you pay is unbalanced, if you are clear and still feel that it is worth it, and you have no regrets, then I didn't say it. ”

"Physical and financial efforts are not the most fatal, the most terrible thing is that you helped Lao Feng raise his three sons and start a family, will they treat you like a mother? If not, can you accept it? Even, some children even hate you, you have become their enemy when you are old, are you willing? Can you stand it? Do you have a peaceful old age? ”

"So, in order to covet that little bit of dependence, you have to pay more, and even fall into the whirlpool of pain that you can't extricate yourself from, think about it, can you get it?"

"Your current troubles are nothing more than that your daughter is not around, you will sometimes be lonely, Wu Laosan will occasionally pass by the door, you are a little worried in your heart, these are easy to solve problems, lonely and lonely, everyone has it, people are born lonely, no one, there are people to accompany you all the time, so learn to endure loneliness, it is not a difficult thing, compared to the troubles brought by those lively lives, such loneliness is a kind of enjoyment, as for Wu Laosan, for so long, why are you afraid of him? It's a big deal to call the police and let the police deal with it, he is a person who deceives good and fears evil, you see that he is not afraid, he naturally does not dare to provoke you, you seem to be very afraid of him, he dares to come in. ”

"You choose to marry Lao Feng for fear of being lonely and afraid of Mr. Wu, and he can't stay by your side all the time, so in the end, the person you can rely on is yourself."

"If you marry Lao Feng, your troubles are, how to make more money to feed the family, what to do, the children do not reject me as a stepmother, the child makes mistakes, you dare to criticize him, you are a vicious stepmother, you don't criticize him, you are an irresponsible stepmother, no matter what you do, someone will accuse you. Even if the three children are sensible and obedient, they will get married in the future! Do the three daughters-in-law take you as a stepmother seriously? Your own children are not necessarily intimate and close to meat! You only have to support your stepson, but you can't expect them to support their old age. Isn't it fragrant that you spend all your time, energy, and money on your own daughter? I have to raise three stepsons to find trouble. ”

(End of chapter)