188. Marriage

When they arrived at the Zhao family, Zhao Chunhua told his family that they planned to get married, and everyone in the Zhao family was naturally overjoyed.

Li Jiahui said in disbelief: "Big girl, do you really agree?"

"Auntie, I'm sorry before, but I was too willful, and I didn't take into account Grandpa Zhao's old age, hoping that we would get married soon, and now I have figured it out, and Brother Chunhua is so good, I should cherish it."

Li Jiahui said happily: "I'll just say that you are a sensible and good girl, you can understand the hard work of our elders, just think about it."

Zhao Wenjie also said with a smile: "After going out to play for a few days, I figured it out, and this trip was not in vain."

Li Jiahui couldn't hold back her excitement: "I have to hurry up and find someone to watch the days and buy things."

Zhao Chunhua: "Mom, don't worry, I haven't finished my words!"

Zhao Wenjie: "What? You said? ”

"After we get married, we're going to go out and live. In other words, the wedding room is arranged in the eldest girl's house. ”

Li Jiahui's smile froze.

"What do you mean? Do you want to join the Zhang family and go to the Zhang family to be a son-in-law? Do you know that the Zhao family has been passed down for several generations, do you ask your grandfather if you agree to do this? ”

"Mom, it's just that I live in the big girl's house, and I don't count as a big deal."

"Isn't our house big enough to live in? When a son marries a daughter-in-law and lives in the woman's house, isn't it a wealthy man? ”

"Mom, the eldest girl's younger siblings are still young, we can't ignore it, right? Living in Zhang's house is to facilitate the care of Erniu and Xiaobao, and it has nothing to do with getting rich. ”

Zhao Wenjie: "I heard it, you are to take care of Erniu and Xiaobao, so you have to live with them, I think this is understandable......"

Li Jiahui interrupted her husband's words irritably: "What do you understand, this thing is absolutely not good, the son gets married and lives in the woman's house, what is this?" You're not afraid of others laughing, I'm afraid of others laughing! Isn't it just that Erniu and Xiaobao have no one to take care of? It doesn't matter, come to our house, our house can live. ”

"Erniu and Xiaobao are not used to living in our house, besides, grandpa likes to be clean, there are many people, it is inevitable that it will be noisy, grandpa is not comfortable, not only grandpa, but each of you will be disturbed in your life. We stayed at the big girl's house, and everyone was fine. ”

Zhang Daniu: "Auntie, in fact, this matter is not so complicated, now the younger brothers and sisters are small, we live in the past to take care of them, at this time, your body is good, you don't need us to take care of it, in the future, Erniu and Xiaobao grow up, start a family, you are also old, when you need to take care of it, we live back, a family, how convenient and how to come, isn't it?"

"Your grandfather is now old and needs to be taken care of, are you trying to evade responsibility?"

"If Grandpa wants to come with us, we're welcome."

Li Jiahui's hands trembled with anger.

"What nonsense are you talking about?"

Grandpa Zhao: "I'm in good health, I don't need to take care of me, and I don't need to go anywhere, I don't think it's a problem for Chunhua to live with the big girl after she gets married." Isn't it just to take care of my younger siblings? That's as it should be. ”

"Dad, this can't be ......"

Grandpa Zhao waved his hand: "What's wrong with this!" It's not that they have already said it, it's not that they are rich, it's just to take care of their younger brothers and sisters conveniently! This is a natural and natural thing. ”

"Jiahui, you are sometimes too good-looking, afraid of others gossiping, what are you afraid of? Live your own life, do you know that in order to keep others from gossiping, you have to embarrass your own people? ”

"It's not that I'm inconsiderate of them, didn't I let Erniu and Xiaobao come to our house?"

"People come to our house to live uncomfortably, they want to live freely in their own home, then follow them! Obeying other people's wishes, is the greatest kindness, the big girl didn't want to get married before, but she couldn't leave her younger brothers and sisters, and now she agrees to marry in order to follow us, we should also follow her wishes, people get along, isn't it to look at the problem from the other party's point of view, consider each other, in order to be safe? ”

Zhao Chunxiang, who had not spoken, interjected at this time.

"Grandpa is right, Mom, you are still a teacher, a cultural person, and your thinking is too conservative! Do I have to live with the man when I get married? I don't want to, and when I get married, I will live with two people. In this way, there will be no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. ”

Li Jiahui slapped her daughter.

"What nonsense? It's too selfish for you to think like this, you don't want to be with the old man after you get married, you just don't want to take care of the old man, how can I raise a child with no conscience like you. ”

"Didn't my sister-in-law say it just now? Now you are healthy and don't need to be taken care of, and if you need them in the future, they will come back, I think that's good! When you are young, you have your own living space, and when you are old, you take on the responsibility of taking care of the elderly, how can this be called having no conscience? ”

If it was before, Zhang Daniu heard Li Jiahui say that her daughter didn't want to live with the old man because she had no conscience and didn't want to take responsibility, she would inevitably kill her with a sword, and now, she was silent, on the one hand, she knew that Li Jiahui was indeed just targeting her daughter, not her, she didn't need to be victimized, she always suspected that others had bad intentions towards her with their words and deeds, such people always suffered from gains and losses, and made all relationships worse.

On the other hand, she is protected by Zhao Chunhua, and she can't afford to lose.

Sure enough, Zhao Chunhua said: "Mom, think about it, if you can't get over it on face, then it's okay to wait for three years to get married, three years later, Erniu and Xiaobao are going to college, they can usually live on campus, me and Da Niu can also live in our house, when my younger brothers and sisters go home on holidays, I and Da Niu go over to accompany them, is this okay?"

I heard that I would have to wait for another three years, but of course Grandpa Zhao was unwilling.

"This matter is so decided, after getting married, Chunhua went to live in the eldest girl's house, this is not far, just raise your legs, and Chunhua and Wenjie work in the same unit, see each other every day, what's not to do."

Everyone supports the idea of her son and daughter-in-law, but Li Jiahui is no longer willing, and she can only reluctantly agree.

Li Jiahui went to see the date and chose a day ten days later.

She also wanted to hold the wedding before Zhang Daniu's school started.

The time was a bit rushed, but at that time, there was no need to pay too much attention to the wedding, no wedding photos, no decoration of the new house, no engagement dress, just buy a new set of clothes to wear.

Li Jiahui was not very satisfied with the fact that her son lived in Zhang Daniu's house after getting married, and Li Jiahui did not prepare anything for marriage, but just booked a banquet in the hotel.

(End of chapter)