210. Sister-in-law

"What a lifelong regret, don't scare me."

"Chunxiang, you yourself are studying medicine, you don't know that the emotions of pregnant women will affect the growth and development of the fetus!"

"I know! But it's not a lifelong regret! ”

"I'm really not scaring you, when the child's brain grows, the mother gets angry, it will affect the child's intelligence, and it also affects the child's concentration, the child is inattentive when he goes to school, how can the academic performance be good, not only the academic performance, do anything, lack of concentration, don't care, can't do well, the mother is angry when the child grows limbs, it will affect the health of the child's limbs, do you think some children have polio? The root of the disease was planted when the fetus was born. ”

"The fetus is not stimulated by the mother's emotions in the mother's body, and there will be no hidden dangers, so it is also the child's fever, why are some children fine, and some children will cause many sequelae because of fever?"

"Also, why do some children grow up to have a strong ability to resist pressure, no matter how they beat in society, the more frustrated they are, the more courageous, some children can't stand any setbacks, and they are depressed and collapsed at a little blow, which is a hidden danger planted in the mother's body, and the child born by the mother's emotional instability must not have the ability to resist pressure."

"Also, why do some children in their teens and twenties have serious diseases at a young age, and even die less, because mines are planted in the mother's body, and it is a matter of time before they detonate......"

Zhao Chunxiang was in a cold sweat when she heard this, although she was a doctor and knew that the emotions of pregnant women would affect the health of the fetus, but there were no specific cases, what her sister-in-law said was not unreasonable, and it was so detailed and specific, she did not doubt its authenticity at all.

"Sister-in-law, what you said is so conclusive, how do you know this?"

"No matter what I do, I will prepare in advance, pregnancy is such an important thing, even more so, the child is the hope of the future of the family! If you want to have a healthy and intelligent baby, don't you need to know about it? ”

"Sister-in-law, you are such a capable person! Although I am a doctor, but this knowledge, but you are not fully prepared, I know, many things rely on their own efforts, but the matter of giving birth, I thought that I can only rely on luck, what kind of child to have, just like opening a blind box, before opening, I don't know what the result will be. ”

"Giving birth to such an important thing, of course, you can't rely on luck, what kind of child you want to have, except for gender and appearance, you can grasp 90% of the rest."

"Really? Sister-in-law, are you so sure? ”

"Yes! Prenatal education can determine 90% of your child's future, such as health, intelligence, and child's personality. ”

"When you are pregnant, you are emotionally stable, you are in a happy mood, and the child you give birth to is naturally healthy, smart, emotionally stable, cheerful and lively, will there be anything wrong with such a child in the future?"

"Sister-in-law, if only I heard your words earlier, I've been in a bad mood since I found out I was pregnant for two months, what should I do? Will my child be affected? ”

"It's too late now, you can be happy every day from now on, and the child will be fine."

Zhao Chunxiang sighed.

"Sister-in-law, I really envy you, you can be calm and light at any time, just like the book depicts, Mount Tai collapsed in front of him and his face did not change, but in the face of those bad things, how can my mood calm down!"

"When you encounter a problem, solve it, not run away."

"Then how to solve the matter of my family? Sun Shaolin's business, he can't be busy alone, he doesn't worry about finding others to help, his brother and brother, to help, but also to create some trouble, Sun Shaolin's meaning, their family is so poor, looking for outsiders to help is also helping, looking for their own brothers, fertilizer and water do not flow into outsiders' fields, but they live in my house, making a mess of the house, I get angry when I see it. ”

From Sun Shaolin's point of view, he is right, he has made a fortune and should help his brother make money, but he didn't let them have a sense of boundaries, why should they live together? Work and life should be separated, and work and life cannot be mixed. ”

"You mean, let them rent a house on their own? They are used to saving, and they are reluctant to spend that money at all, thinking that our house is big enough to live in, and they take it for granted to live in our house. ”

"Or else! You go back and tell Sun Shaolin to let him open a dairy shop for his brother and brother, so that in order to do a good job, they don't have to eat and live in the store, so that they can make more money than simply helping your family, which not only solves their economic problems, but also solves their food and housing problems. ”

"Yikes! It's a good idea, and now the dairies are selling well, and they are opening their own stores, and the business is definitely booming, which is much better than helping our family work. In this way, each business will do its own thing, and life will not be mixed together. ”

"Yes! If you really want to help your brothers and sisters, you have to help them and solve their problems, they just don't have money! Let them make money, and if they have money, they can say anything, and it is better to give them fish than to give them fish. ”

Zhao Chunxiang is anxious, and he immediately went to Sun Shaolin to talk about this matter.

"Wait a minute, take these fruits back and eat them! I have a lot more in the house. ”

Zhang Daniu found a bag to put the fruit in.

"Sister-in-law, I'm sorry, I was wrong before."

"It's nothing, when I did that, I knew it was going to be like that, so I was mentally prepared."

"My mother said that it was they and my brother who asked you to do the thing, you didn't want to do it at first, but then you did it, I know you are for my good......"

"Don't say it, Chunxiang, I know the result, but I still do it, because I have a clear conscience, the other one, I am for your brother, for him, I am willing to be wronged, just like you are now, I obviously don't like Sun Shaolin's family, but they live in your house, you are not happy, you can only hide in your mother's house, feel uncomfortable, and you can't drive them away."

"Yes! Retribution comes very quickly, I was so troubled by you before, and now I am also troubled. ”

"It's good that you can think like this, you have grown up better than before, and the manifestation of a person's high emotional intelligence is to be able to think from the perspective of others. Your mother and brother oppose your marriage to Sun Shaolin, and you choose to forgive them, because they are your relatives, and if I object, you will hate me because you treat me as an outsider, and similarly, Sun Shaolin's family treats you as an outsider, does not consider your feelings, and lives in your house as a matter of course. ”

(End of chapter)