341. Second girl

On this day, the second girl came home from work, and Zhang Dayu went to her room on purpose.

The second girl had just taken a shower and sat on the dresser to wipe water on her face.

The door was open, and Zhang Daniu knocked on the door.

The second girl turned her head and said with a smile: "Big sister! Come on in! The door is open! So polite. ”

Zhang Daniu came in with a smile and sat at the desk next to her: "You have grown up!" Have your own private space. ”

"You're quite busy with this job, although we live under the same roof, but we rarely have time to chat, I knew that this kind of work was so tiring, I shouldn't let you study medicine."

"Didn't my brother-in-law also study medicine? Why don't you complain that he's too busy to take care of his family? ”

"Men and women are different, men focus on their careers, and women work just to ensure their quality of life, but give all your time to work, no matter how much money you make, you don't have time to spend, what's the point? For a woman to stay young, she must learn to enjoy life. ”

The second girl giggled.

"How many people can arrange work and life in an orderly manner like you, eldest sister? Most people have to spend all their time at work in order to make a living. ”

"I have so much money, you just don't work for the rest of your life, and I can afford to support you."

"Look, since I was a child, you told me that girls should be self-respecting and self-loving, self-reliant, and now they said that I should stop working so hard, don't you feel very contradictory?"

"You and Xiaobao, although they are my younger brothers and sisters, but in my heart, just like my child, that mother is not a unity of contradictions, I hope that the child will be successful and can do things at work, but I am afraid that the child will work too hard outside."

The second girl was a little moved.

"Eldest sister is like a mother, it is true, you are quite lax in your management of me and Xiaobao on the surface, but we all know that you have been helping and enlightening us in all aspects in your heart, and you have given us the most correct guidance at every step and every critical moment we have taken. You are one of the most qualified parents. ”

Zhang Daniu said with a smile: "This sentence is the best compliment I have ever heard in my life."

"Erniu, I came today to ask you, you are not too young, how is your personal problem? Do you have a boy you like? ”

"Eldest sister, I feel a little afraid of marriage."

Zhang Dayu was stunned.

"Why?"

"The people around me, except for you and your brother-in-law after they got married, have a good relationship, and few others seem to be happy, such as Sister Yingzi, Sister Chunxiang, and your friend Liu Yuhui, one by one, either cheating or domestic violence, it's terrible."

"You're so powerful, who can beat you with domestic violence."

"What about Sister Yingzi? People didn't dare to abuse her, but her mother-in-law and her husband joined forces to bully her, which was really chilling. ”

"Why do you always look at families who are not doing well? Most families are still happy, not only work hard, family and life also need us to manage with good intentions, many people can do a good job, but not run a family well, not only by luck, but by wisdom. ”

Erniu: "Before entering marriage, everyone thinks that they are looking for the best, but after living it, it is completely different from what they imagined, which is really a bit of a gamble."

"What kind of character inspires what kind of person, Yingzi's ex-husband Ling Feng, I didn't feel good at the beginning, but Yingzi had low self-esteem, and felt that as long as someone liked her, she would be grateful, so she had no requirements for herself, she looked down on herself, how could others not bully her?"

"Liu Yuhui! In order to get rid of her mother, she wanted to get married and leave home early, so she confessed herself early, and she didn't inspect the other party for a long time, and when she found out the problem, it was too late. ”

"Zhao Chunxiang is a willful character, from childhood to adulthood, her family loves her in every way, she has a smooth life, she doesn't know that people's hearts are sinister, other people's rhetoric, can't tell whether it's true or false, the bitter words of her relatives, she should be a deaf ear, so she finally paid the price for her willfulness."

"What about you! So wise, and after all these years by my side, I won't be confused! I've heard that many admirers come to the hospital to find you! Tell me, among those suitors, isn't there a single eye-catcher? ”

"Those are just adding to my troubles, I ......"

"Do you have someone you like?"

"Eldest sister, what do you think of Yang Guodong?"

"Yang Guodong, do you like him?"

"What do you say! How is he? ”

"It's okay, car king, young talent, diamond king old five."

"None of this is important, what matters is character. The two of you have known each other since childhood, and you know the roots, he is such an honest person, and he has never treated anyone badly, of course, his character is needless to say. ”

"He studied so hard, I'm quite discouraged when I think about it now, if I have a child in the future, my IQ will follow him, and I won't be in a hurry."

Seeing that the second girl said seriously, with a serious face, Zhang Dayu felt that this sister was cute.

She laughed.

"Yang Guodong's brain, are you still worried that his IQ is not enough? Oh, my God! By your standards, if his IQ is higher, what kind of character does it have to be? ”

"But it was really hard for him to learn."

"People haven't been enlightened for a while, but didn't they catch up with your help? He doesn't have an IQ, can he become a car king? Can you make that much money? You're asking too much, aren't you? ”

The second girl also smiled.

"Didn't I tutor him with his homework before, and there is a psychological shadow!"

"It's a shame that you're still studying medicine, you're so smart, how stupid can the child be, besides, people whose parents are so shrewd and capable, how bad can the genes be?"

Erniu: "Okay, the second question, in the future, their family will definitely want a large family to live together, I'm afraid that I won't get along well with his parents, like you said, his parents, including his sister, are all human spirits, especially his father, who used to be a high-powered person, I'm afraid of getting along with them under pressure."

"What's the pressure? How's your brother-in-law's house? My mother-in-law is picky, and my father-in-law is also the leader of the hospital, so we get along very well! They are all smart and cultivated people, we treat them sincerely, and they will not do things that embarrass others or themselves. ”

"Eldest sister, I admire you for this, you did a good job in your father-in-law and mother-in-law, my sister-in-law had opinions on you at the beginning, and then I was also influenced by you, but your best way is not to live together, reduce friction, you and your brother-in-law lived outside because you had to take care of me and Xiaobao, I would not move out for such a reason! And I don't have such a reason! ”