107 Be empathetic
Standing in front of An Kang was a girl in a wedding dress.
is both beautiful and tall, and with bridal makeup, it looks very pure and lovely.
An Kang didn't recognize her at first glance.
This is a person who Ankang is very familiar with, Liu Xinran.
"Hello, Xinran!"
Liu Xinran frowned when she heard Ankang call her.
Ever since she met Ankang, Ankang has only called her two. Either call her by her full name by first name, or call her "Ran Ran". This "Xinran" naturally seems to be a little different, and it seems that he can't even talk about friends.
"Hello. Who is this friend? ”
Liu Xinran's eyes were fixed on Nanhua Yu.
An Kang glanced at Nan Yanyu, stretched out his hand to wrap his arms around her waist and said, "It's my daughter-in-law." ”
Nanhua Yu was not surprised, Chong Liu smiled happily, and said, "Hello! ”
Liu Xinran looked at Nanyan Yu and praised: "Your wife is so beautiful!" ”
Ankang said, "It's okay! Congratulations! ”
Liu nodded happily, indicating that she had received it. She pulled a man in a suit who was standing next to her and introduced her.
The man stretched out his hand to An Kang, his expression was smiling, but there was always an imperceptible sneer in his expression.
"Well-being, huh? I've heard it mentioned. You're busy, I'll post back to you. ”
An Kang nodded. The man took Yoo happily and walked in the opposite direction to Ankang.
An Kang and Nan Yanyu walked forward more than a dozen steps, looked back and saw that Liu Xinran was gone, and then let go of Nan Yanyu's hand.
Ankang said: "I'm sorry, I'll use you as a prop temporarily." ”
"It's okay, it's okay. Is this your ex-girlfriend? Nanyan Yu asked.
"How do you know?"
Nanyan Yu smiled: "Cut! I can't even see that, that's not a fool. ”
"Yes. Girlfriend many years ago. ”
An Kang felt that his performance just now was very strange. Obviously, he had put Liu Xinran down a long time ago, but why did he involuntarily act like that and say something like that just now. Perhaps, for Liu Xinran, there is something left in the hidden part of Ankang's heart, the part that is usually difficult to reach.
Ankang admits that he has always had mixed feelings about Yoo Xinran. Ever since he met Yoo Shinran, it had been.
Although there was a huge difference between Ankang and Liu Xinran's identities and backgrounds back then, Liu Xinran still took the initiative to associate with Ankang desperately, although Wen Qianqian was always behind her back.
At that time, Ankang had a natural inferiority complex in front of Liu Xinran, coupled with Wen Qianqian's intentional or unintentional blows, which made Ankang's inferiority complex stronger. But Ankang is the kind of person who becomes more and more courageous, and under the blow of Wen Qianqian, it arouses Ankang's fighting spirit.
However, Ankang increasingly feels that his relationship with Yoo Xinran seems to have evolved into a performance. The performance was shown to himself and Wen Qianqian.
When Liu Xinran proposed to Ankang to break up, although Ankang was very painful in his heart, this result was what he expected. He already knew that this day would come sooner or later, but he didn't know the exact date.
It is precisely because of psychological preparation that Ankang came out of the shadow of broken love much faster than expected. At least it was much smoother than getting out of Lin Mushuang's emotional entanglement.
Seeking to communicate, it was Liu who took the initiative. begged to break up, and Liu Xinran took the initiative.
When Liu Xinran came back from France to ask for reunion, Liu Xinran took the initiative.
The only time Ankang took the initiative was to refuse Liu Xinran's request to reunite.
Of course, not once, but many times, to be exact.
Liu Xinran understood Ankang's rejection as his self-esteem, so he left enough time and space for Ankang, hoping that he could slowly walk into Ankang's heart.
Liu Xinran's patience is good enough, but it is not so good that when Ankang was dating Zhu Xue, she was still looking forward to her brother coming back to marry her like a village girl in the countryside.
During this period, Liu Xinran also dated several men. These people were almost customized for her by Wen Qianqian, but after the passion, the warmth was gone.
During the time when Ankang and Zhu Xue broke up, Liu Xinran often asked Ankang to eat and go out for activities, but Ankang refused. At that time, on the one hand, he didn't have the heart to go out with a girl for romance, and on the other hand, his career was being challenged.
Liu happily faced Ankang's refusal again and again, and finally gave up. And after that, Ankang met Nanhuayu.
Ankang told him and Liu Xinran's love story to Nan Yu, and Nan Yuyu said with emotion: "It's still quite romantic." ”
An Kang said: "Romance is romance, but the ending is like it is predestined." ”
"You can't say that, big brother, I'm destined to do this. You're just out of love, and your ex-girlfriend keeps chasing you, and it's you who don't agree. In my case, it's called peeling the skin, and life is better than death. ”
Ankang knew that he couldn't take this sentence, so he was silent.
Nanhua Yu didn't say anything, and changed the topic.
Nanhua Yu is indeed an empathetic woman. Every gesture and smile can give people a comfortable feeling. This comfort comes not only from sight and hearing, but also from the resonance of the mind.
This resonance has nothing to do with the frequency of love, it is a kind of love that is stained with the spice of friendship in advance.
"Are you saying I'm empathetic?" Nanhuayu smiled, "Maybe it has something to do with my family." I was born and raised in Chongqing. It's a place with a strong human touch. And there are a lot of seven aunts and eight aunts in my family. Every child is a treasure at home, but he is an ordinary person in the family. So from an early age, I learned to communicate with different people.
There are many people in the family and many things. Slowly, such a character was formed. ”
Ankang shook his head: "I don't think so. Although many people are in a large and complex family environment, they do not go their own way in the same way. Don't you think Lin Daiyu is like that? ”
"Lin Daiyu is in a special situation."
"Then Xichun is also a special situation?"
"Of course, my aunt's daughter."
"What about Tanchun?"
"You're such an unsympathetic person. You can just follow my words and say no. "Nanhua Yu Jiao.
"Hahaha. Or are you walking more steadily on the road of empathy. ”
"That's it. I've been training for years. ”
Being empathetic is not a kind of self-strength.
Broadly speaking, empathy has two meanings. One is from nature, and the other is from prevention.
What comes from nature is the expression of true feelings. Out of precaution, it is a kind of helpless self-protection.
Maybe Nanhuayu's empathy was originally from nature, but after the baptism of life, there is more of a taste of prevention.