The weather in Yuncheng is very hot, this kind of weather, Dodo can't sleep on a bamboo mat, can't drink ice water, his body is weak, it's uncomfortable to lie on the bed, Wen Mi boiled brown sugar water for her to drink, Dodo didn't drink it after two sips.

"Dodo, this miscarriage is also a small confinement, it's not a joke, you will fall ill if you don't raise it yourself, I didn't sit down well at the time, plus I have been holding Qiqi, and now I have various problems with the shoulder, neck and lumbar spine, like the weather forecast, it hurts on a rainy day."

Wen Mi, as a person who came over and is the eldest granddaughter of the Gao family, seriously enlightened Dodo, but Dodo was not so easily affected.

"We women are so great, why don't we let men have children? If a man can have children, I will definitely spoil him to heaven. ”

Dodo immediately retorted.

"Looks like you're much better now." Du Xinlai said while pouring water and taking medicine for her.

"It's good to be young." Wen Mi said, "You must raise it well, otherwise it will affect future fertility, you are still a nurse, and your medical knowledge is richer than ours, so you don't need me to nag anymore." ”

"It's so troublesome to have a child, I still won't give birth in the future." Dodo didn't think so.

Hearing this, Du Xinlai took a sip of coffee and quickly put down the cup.

"I support Dodo, it's a woman's right to have a child or not, don't treat us women as a tool for giving birth to a baby, I am in charge of my uterus, it's useless to force anyone if I don't want to give birth, if I want to give birth, I will go to the sperm bank to choose a high-quality sperm." Du Xinlai said.

"Sister Xinlai, you are so cool, I really worship you to death." Dodo excitedly tried to get up.

"I have a life, and I have no regrets, I also envy Xinlai's freedom, I can do whatever I want, I can work if I want to, and I can resign if I want to." Wu Wenmi said.

"It's not too late for you to wake up now, when Kiki is older, you can find someone to take him to school, and you can find a job you like." Du Xinlai said.

"I thought so too, but my in-laws wouldn't help." Wu Wenmi was worried.

"Damn, can't you just pick it up? Your in-laws are too much, this is their own grandson with their surname. Dodo said angrily.

"They think that I am from the countryside, and marrying into their family is a blessing and a high climb, so it is natural for me to take care of my children." Wen Mi's mood was a little low.

"What redneck? We are just a suburb of Cloud City, and the quality of life in small cities is much better than that in big cities. Dodo was so angry that he wanted to jump again.

Du Xinlai pressed her.

"Don't blow up as soon as you hear something, take care of yourself, it's still difficult for Qing officials to cut off family affairs, you have to use your brains to deal with Wen Mi's in-laws, Wen Mi is different from your situation now, she is married to Li Le, Qiqi is so old, and their family is indeed out of the house, and they still pay it in full, which is why they have confidence." Du Xinlai said.

"Well, a woman wants to get pregnant and have a child when she marries, and it is natural for a man to provide a nest, how can it be like we have taken a big advantage, wait for me to get better, I will go to your in-laws to theorize and see what flowers they can say." Dodo said.

"Looks like you're getting better?" Du Xinlai threw a slap in the eye.

"Nope." Dodo obediently lay down.

"To deal with Wen Mi's mother-in-law, she should be made to feel sorry for her son and grandson." Xinlai continues to provide ideas.

"It's useless, I was unwell once, and I wanted them to help me bring Kiki, but they didn't care, and asked me to order takeout for Kiki." Wen Mi said.

"It seems that the Tao is a bit deep." Dodo said.

"If you have to take care of the children at home, you have to go out to work, I just said find someone to pick you up, but not necessarily in-laws, isn't there a night nursery and a part-time job? You can deliver it yourself in the morning and ask a part-time worker to take care of Kiki in the evening. Du Xinlai thought for a moment and continued.

Wen Mi was thoughtful, she got married and had children after graduating from college, others have always felt that she is enjoying happiness, she doesn't have to go to work, the old man still lives nearby, her husband's family is well-off, she doesn't have to worry about money, and she doesn't have to deal with the conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but who knows the bitterness in her heart, taking Qiqi alone is really much more tiring than going to work.

Wen Mi's home, with a table of dishes on the table, Li Le's parents are cooking in the kitchen.

"Mom, it's so delicious, your craftsmanship hasn't regressed at all." Li Le patted his ass.

"Don't slap my ass, your dad did it." Li Mu said.

"Dad, when did you become so good at cooking?" Li Le asked a little disbelievingly.

"Your mother's cooking is not delicious, I learned it myself from Douyin videos." Father Li said proudly.

"My mother's cooking is delicious, why is it not delicious?" Li Le said as he ate eagerly.

"Maybe I'm old, and it's always impossible to put salt." The mother-in-law smiled shrewdly as she ate a piece of meat.

The camera cuts back to Du Hinlai's residence.

"Part-time work has to be reliable, and it is a little difficult to find the right person, in fact, I am not very relieved, the Internet is not often broken out of nanny child abuse incidents, what if Qiqi is beaten with a psychological shadow?"

"Forget it, I'll bear with it any longer, endure it until elementary school, and Qiqi can go to and from school by himself." Wen Mi said.

"It's not good for you to go on like this, how long have you not worked? If you continue like this, will there still be a company that wants you? What if there are no companies that want you anymore? You're going to have to look up to people for so many years, and you have to think about it yourself. Du Xinlai said.

"But Qiqi, I really can't bear it, I'm afraid that he won't kiss me if I go to work, and I'm afraid it will also affect Li Le's work." Wen Mi said.

"They just fancy you to be soft-hearted and easy to bully, your in-laws are, so are your aunts and aunts, and Li Le will be the same as them in the future, sister, this society is so realistic, you have to think more about yourself, as long as you can make more money, it can be solved, you can find a 9-to-6 job, go home every day, Qiqi is slowly growing up, what he needs is high-quality companionship, not a mother who is busy every day and gets depressed." Du Xinlai said.

Wen Mi's hand trembled.

"Actually, I was already depressed, after giving birth to Qiqi, I stayed in the hospital for four days, when the hospital gave a sister-in-law, I came back from the hospital, I watched him alone, at that time the wound I cut on the side has not healed, it is difficult to get up, and I have to breastfeed, Qiqi is so hungry that I cry, but I just don't eat my nipple, before the sister-in-law said that it was because of my short nipples, she couldn't eat, and asked me to use a fake nipple to suck him, but the fake nipple caused insufficient stimulation, and I couldn't suck much, the milk has not been enough, and I was reluctant to wean, so I kept chasing milk, As a result, I couldn't sleep for a few hours a day, and at that time I really wanted to jump off the stairs with Kiki. Wen Mi said these things calmly, as if he was telling someone else's story.

Dodo was so angry when he heard it, thinking about what a woman would face when she gave birth, goosebumps fell all over her body.

"Big cousin, why didn't you tell us then?" Dodo asked.

Xinlai didn't question her, she just hugged her in the past, she was a cold-blooded and impersonal woman, but she was still different from her cousins who grew up together.

"Neither of you are married, Dodo is still in high school, Xinlai is in Shanghai, and you have never had children, so it's useless to tell you." Wen Mi said.

"What about the aunt and the aunt-in-law? Don't they care? ”

"My mother has always cared about her restaurant, and she always told me that women survive like this, and the confinement is out, and then it will be fine." Wen Mi said.

"Big cousin, you shouldn't have picked it up, right? Why is your aunt so much different from Wen Yu? Dodo said.

"Don't talk nonsense, if you were born in your aunt's family, it's the same thing, it's good that your mother didn't give birth to a younger brother when you were a child, otherwise you think you can be so chic now." Xinlai said to Dodo.

"How can our family have so many old feudal thoughts." Dodo is still not convinced.

"You forgot? I have never forgotten that when we went to my grandmother's house, my grandmother cooked noodles for us, and only Wenyu's bowl had poached eggs. Wen Mi said.

"No, I have it too, but it's hidden under the surface." Dodo said.

Wen Mi was surprised, she always thought that her grandmother was patriarchal, but she didn't expect it to be different for her?

"Because you were still surnamed Gao at the time." Du Xinlai gave a white look.

"It turns out that it's still like this, it seems that the roots of our family come from my grandmother? In the future, if I want to give birth to a daughter, I will definitely be spoiled to death. Dodo said.

"Raise the present first." Du Xinlai said.

"Second cousin, your words are too poisonous, don't talk nonsense, what should you do if you say second cousin?" Dodo said.

"It's not like there's no place to take care of your children and work at the same time." Du Xinlai said as he looked next door.