Chapter 4: Qian Long Becomes a Family
10, Qian Long blind date
The area was liberated on April 29, 1949, and with the establishment of the people's power, education also developed. Zhoucun Primary School has been built into a complete primary school, which means that the school can run a high primary school, which means that students in the fifth and sixth grades can complete their studies in Zhoucun Primary School.
Qian Long is nineteen years old, with a height of 1.72 meters and a sturdy figure. The two small round faces are black and red, and they are a standard crop man. Qian Doudou said: "Husband! It's time to find a daughter-in-law for Long'er, what do you think of our Zhenzhen? ”
Zhao Yuanqing said: "You are talking nonsense again! I told you a long time ago that they are cousins, and cousins are family affection, which cannot be married, and it is not good for offspring! Now our Zhenzhen is still young and is studying, don't talk about it in the future, let's find another one! ”
Looking for another? This is a problem for Qian Doudou! Although she grew up locally, she has been away from her hometown for many years, and now she has left her job at home, and there is really no suitable person among the people she knows. It's not easy to find another way!
Zhao Yuanqing suddenly said: "I heard that Han Xiaowei has a younger sister who is beautiful, I don't know what the situation is?" ”
Qian Doudou said, "Really? Then you can ask Mr. Han! Or ask Principal Zhou, aren't they relatives? ”
Just do it, Zhao Yuanqing was at the door of the third-grade classroom, and when he saw Han Xiaowei strolling around at the door, he asked, "Teacher Han is in a self-study class!" ”
Han Xiaowei saw that it was the principal who asked, so he said, "It's a self-study class!" ”
Zhao Yuanqing beckoned to Han Xiaowei and said softly, "Come here, I'll ask you something." ”
Han Xiaowei quickly walked over and asked gently, "Principal!" What's up? ”
Zhao Yuanqing saw Han Xiaowei coming over, and Chi Yi got up again, as if it was difficult to speak. The young man was in a hurry, and he was in class again, so he said, "Headmaster! If you have anything to say, just say it, hurry up, I'm still in class? ”
Zhao Yuanqing said: "It's not a big deal. It's my lover who wants to ask about your sister. ”
Han Xiaowei said: "I have several younger sisters, which sister are you asking!" ”
Zhao Yuanqing said: "It's your eldest sister, I heard that she looks pretty good, I don't know if I found my mother-in-law?" ”
Han Xiaowei said: "The eldest sister is called Han Daniu, she looks okay, she is only 16 years old this year, and she hasn't found her mother-in-law yet!" Why do you want to be a matchmaker? ”
Zhao Yuanqing hurriedly said: "Yes! You go back and tell your parents that we're going to visit as a family this Sunday! ”
In the evening, Zhao Yuanqing told his wife the news. Qian Doudou said: "Okay! Take action this Sunday, and tell Long'er when it's time to eat, so that he can prepare too! ”
Early on Sunday morning, when the birds were singing in the branches and the sun was still asleep, a young man was practicing his fists and kicks in the back mountain, only to hear the sound of whirring, and he was wet with a hot sweat. But he sat down, rested for only a few minutes, and hurried home.
He is Qian Long, and Qian Long is going to Hancun on a blind date today. Qian Doudou got up early in the morning and prepared breakfast, then woke up Qian Feng and said to her, "Feng'er! We have something to do today, and we'll go after breakfast. You just stay at home! ”
For the breakfast that everyone had together, Qian Doudou inevitably explained a few more words, which meant that Qian Long should talk less, and look at their eyes and act. So everyone changed their clothes, Zhao Yuanqing put on the carriage again, took out a few gifts, and after letting them sit in the car, he said: "Set sail!" ”
I saw Zhao Yuanqing raise his horsewhip and gently flash it on the horse's buttocks, and the red-maned horse gently ran away from Qianzhuang. There are only a few miles to Hancun, and it takes less than 20 minutes to get there, so why drive? It's swing wide! In modern parlance, it's about showing off your wealth! In addition, Zhao Yuanqing is the principal again, and the principal is also an official, although he is very small, he is always different from the common people. This is truly enviable!
Zhao Yuanqing has been to Han Village, but he has not penetrated into every household. When the carriage entered the village, he saw Han Xiaohan shouting from afar: "Principal Zhao! Here, here! ”
Qian Doudou also saw Xiao Han, and hurriedly said to Qian Long beside him: "Remember to call someone!" Qian Long just nodded. Han Xiaowei hurriedly greeted him and shouted: "Hello Principal Zhao!" Hello Mr. Qian! ”
Zhao Yuanqing just nodded. Qian Doudou said: "Hello Teacher Han! Hello uncle and aunt! (Calling uncles and aunts is wrong, you should call your eldest brother and sister-in-law).
Qian Doudou hurriedly pushed Qian Long forward, and also shouted with his aunt: "Hello uncle! Hello Auntie! ”。 The gift that Qian Long was holding was placed on the table, and he didn't know what to do!
Han Xiaowei's father is just an honest farmer, and he doesn't know what to do when he sees a living person! Or Han Xiaowei said: "Everyone please take a seat!" ”
Qian Long, who was at a loss, saw that everyone sat down, so he took a square stool and sat behind his aunt.
Mother Han saw that the big girl didn't come, and the protagonist didn't arrive, so what kind of drama was she playing! So, Han's mother spoke: "Xiaowei! Where's your sister? Go call her! ”
At this moment, a beautiful sister came out of the side hall and said, "Mom! What are you shouting? Han Daniu shouted generously: "Hello Principal Zhao!" Hello Mr. Qian! He leaned against Han's mother and sat down.
Han Xiaowei said to his sister: "There is another person, you also saw it, why don't you shout?" Han Daniu looked up at Qian Long, and Qian Long also happened to look up at Han Daniu at this time, but his eyes met for more than ten seconds. It was Qian Long who blushed and lowered his head first.
Qian Doudou didn't let go of Qian Long, and asked Qian Long gently: "How is it?" Qian Long whispered in his aunt's ear and said, "It's okay!" The meaning of this sentence is the meaning of matching.
Qian Doudou had a bottom in his heart, so he said to Han Xiaowei: "Teacher Han! What do you think of your sister? ”
Before Han Xiaowei asked, Han Daniu spoke first: "Don't ask my opinion, my parents' opinions are my opinions!" Han Daniu looked up at Zhao Yuanqing and Qian Doudou again and said, "Principal Zhao! Mr. Qian! You talk slowly, I still have something to do, so I'll leave first, please stay and have lunch! As he spoke, he gave Han Xiaowei a look and walked out.
Han Xiaowei followed the eldest sister to the door, and Han Daniu said softly to Han Xiaowei: "Brother! I agreed! Tell Mom and Dad to go! Han Xiaowei stood there stunned! After a while, Han Daniu disappeared.
Han Daniu left suddenly, leaving two sentences: 1. Don't ask my opinion, what does this mean? I don't say that I just listen to my parents' opinions; Second, please ask President Zhao and his wife to stay for lunch, is this polite, or is it an agreement? embarrassed Zhao Yuanqing, who was the principal. The front of the hall was immediately quiet.
Fortunately, it didn't take long for Han Xiaowei to come in, and he saw that everyone didn't speak. Han Xiaowei said: "My eldest sister said that she wanted to keep Principal Zhao for lunch. Mother! Come with me! ”
Han's mother got up and followed her son to the back hall, Han Xiaowei closed the door leading to the lobby, and then said to his mother: "Mom! What about your opinion? Mother Han pondered for a moment and said, "The young man is good! What did your sister say? ”
Han Xiaowei said: "My sister said, he has no opinion!" Listen to you! ”
Han's mother said: "This ghost girl, since you have no opinion, what are you going to run?" After a few seconds of pause, he asked, "Xiaowei!" What are their opinions? ”
This stopped Han Xiaowei, he thought: Teacher Qian only asked for my opinion, but she didn't express her opinion! So Han Xiaowei said: "Teacher Qian didn't say it, but looking at what she meant, it seems that she has no opinion!" ”
Han's mother said: "What does she mean like something, this is not good!" It must be obvious, and we don't end up making it impossible for us to get off the stage! ”
Han Xiaowei said: "Mom! Be! I'm going to find out! Then he turned back to his mother and said, "Don't go out again for the time being, listen to it later!" "Mother Han thinks it is reasonable, since she said that she would stay for lunch, she has to pretend to prepare the meal!
Han Xiaowei returned to the middle hall again and said to Teacher Qian: "I told my mother to tell her to prepare lunch, which was explained by the eldest sister, of course, we also have this meaning." ”
Zhao Yuanqing endured it all the time, why did he see Han Xiaowei running around, and he didn't see anyone who made a statement, so he said, "Teacher Han!" What is your opinion just now? You speak! Don't just mess with useless things, you don't need to eat, we can go back in a few minutes, don't be busy! It's still early for dinner! ”
Han Xiaowei also understands that President Zhao wants him to make a statement, isn't it easy to make a statement? It's just that the woman can't make a statement first! It's better for the man to take the initiative! So Han Xiaowei said: "Our attitude is, whatever your opinion is, we will have any opinion!" After that, he stared at Qian Doudou!
Han Xiaowei understands that the boss who is in charge is Mr. Qian. He just watched Teacher Qian make trouble. Qian Doudou laughed, then stood up and said, "Your big girl is good!" He took a fancy to our little dragon, and I am representing his opinion! Then he sat down happily. But he handed over the power to Han Xiaowei.
So Han Xiaowei also stood up and said: "Teacher Qian said well, I also said her opinion on behalf of my sister, she said that she has no opinion on Qian Long!" My opinion is that she agrees to have a relationship with Qian Long! ”
At this time, Han's mother came out of the back hall, and hurriedly said to Zhao Yuanqing and them: "You all said it well, since the two children are in love with each other, let them date for a while, are you right?" ”
At this time, Zhao Yuanqing breathed a sigh of relief, hurriedly stood up and said: "Talking about marriage is a matter of the future, let's contact more in the future, let's stop here today!" Beanie! Let's go! ”
Qian Long also stood up and shouted, "Auntie, uncle! Good bye! ”
The blind date is over, and you return victorious!
11. Premarital life
In September 1950, Qian Long and Han Daniu, who had been dating for two years, were already in love to the extent that they could go to bed, and Qian Long put forward a request for marriage, saying that if it weren't for the new society, they would have been able to get married a long time ago. But Han Da Niu said: "Big dragon! We can't get married yet, because my brother isn't married yet!" I can't be ahead of my sister as a sister! It's a folk custom, but it's coming soon, and my brother is getting married. ”
Qian Long said: "But I can't wait, what should I do?" As he spoke, he hugged the girl and kissed her, and the girl also greeted her warmly.
When Qian Long reached out to unbutton the girl's clothes, the girl pushed it away: "The dragon bear with it!" If you have Maomao, you will be embarrassed! What do you tell me to be? ”
In the past, the two of them were dating at Han Daniu's house, and it was okay to talk, but it was not okay to be intimate! Han Daniu's family has a large population, and it is okay to talk about love, but it is not possible to get in close contact. After a period of interaction, young people love each other, and physical contact is inevitable. Later, Qian Long found that his own home was a good place to talk about love. He thought: I live alone in the house, as long as my aunt is not at home, there will be no one in the left and right rooms, isn't this a good place to date Han Daniu.
Today's date is at his house, and his aunt is not home in the afternoon. Qian Long really wanted to do something "bad" with Da Niu, but Han Da Niu refused, but he couldn't force her. Qian Long expressed his displeasure, and Han Daniu felt bored when he saw that his beloved was unhappy! So she said, "Great dragon! For the sake of the future, let's bear with it! When you get married, everything satisfies you, so that you can eat enough every day, okay? ”
Qian Long said: "Okay! You're doing the right thing, I'll listen to you! ”
Although the two of them could hug each other, they never let Qian Long steal "cold rice".
This kind of scene was not long in coming, and finally Han Xiaowei got married on July 20. My brother is married, and my sister is emancipated! She took the initiative to say to Qian Long: "Da Long! Let's go and register our marriage! ”
Qian Long said: "It's not good to get married on this hot day, and it's easy to spoil the dishes when you hold a banquet." ”
Han Dayu said: "Let's register first, and then do it when the autumn is cool, isn't this not afraid of bad dishes, and won't delay you from doing bad things?" ”
Qian Long suddenly realized: "That's right! I didn't think of it! Girl! You are really smart! Or you're the best for me! Saying that, he hugged Han Daniu very affectionately and said, "Just do it!" ”
However, Qian Long still asked his aunt!
Qian Doudou said: "Good, good, good!" I will definitely have a lively wedding for you then! ”
12. Register marriage
On July 26, 1951, the weather turned slightly cloudy, and the temperature was a few degrees lower than that of the previous days. On the way back, the two of them jumped and jumped, kissed and hugged, Qian Long couldn't wait to straighten out the big girl on the road! Han Daniu said: "Dalong! Let's go back and say, you can take a good shower, and I'll come to your house in the evening, okay? ”
Qian Long didn't know how he got home, he only knew that as soon as he got home, he showed Qian Doudou the marriage certificate: "Auntie! I'm married, you see this is proof! ”
Of course Qian Doudou is happy, since her brother and sister-in-law left, the Long'er brothers and sisters have relied on her to help them, and now that Long'er has a daughter-in-law, she can relax.
Zhao Yuanqing was also very happy when he found out, and he said to Qian Doudou: "Doudou! You didn't work in vain! You can see that Long'er has a family, and you can laugh at your brother and sister-in-law! ”
Zhao Zhizhen said: "Dad! What you said is not right, as if the affairs of your uncle and aunt are the responsibility of your mother! ”
Zhao Yuanqing hurriedly explained: "Yes! Zhenzhen is right! I'm just saying that your mom worked hard, and now you can take a breather. ”
During the process of dinner, Qian Long always smiled. Zhao Yuanqing said: "Big Dragon! So happy? ”
Qian Doudou said: "Knowingly ask! ”
Zhao Yuanqing said: "It's not that I asked knowingly, I just want to remind young people not to be too fierce!" Things have to be done slowly, and long-term couples are not a one-day thing. ”
Qian Doudou said: "What did the old guy say? The dragon still wants you to teach! "It means that she has already taught it, so she doesn't need to worry about it! Indeed, her aunt quietly taught Qian Long. And Zhao Zhizhen only felt inexplicable! No matter what they say, Qian Long just eats. Qian Feng couldn't figure it out at all, so he asked: "Auntie! What do you say? ”
Qian Doudou said: "Don't worry about what you say!" Eat your meal, and when you want to know, my aunt will tell you. ”
After dinner, Qian Feng washed the dishes and inspected the field, which was the usual practice, while Zhao Yuanqing and his wife went out for a walk. Within a few minutes, I saw Han Dayu jumping up. When I met Zhao Yuanqing and his wife in person, I must say hello and hurriedly shout: "Uncle and aunt!" Take a walk! ”
Qian Doudou took Han Daniu's hand and said, "Are you here?" Have you eaten? ”
Han Daniu said: "I've eaten it!" ”
Qian Doudou said: "Why don't you come to our house to eat!" ”
Han Daniu said: "Aunt! I will definitely come next time! ”
Qian Doudou said: "It's all a family, don't see each other in the future!" ”
"Auntie! Good! As he spoke, his face flew red.
When he came back from a walk, Qian Doudou told Qian Feng: "Feng'er! Come to the right room at night and sleep with Zhenzhen! ”
Qian Feng replied happily: "Okay, aunt!" ”
Qian Long saw that Han Daniu came early, and he really didn't know how to start! I saw my aunt call my sister away, but I don't know how happy I was in my heart! In the past, it was Qian Long's front room, and Qian Feng's back room. But tonight is probably a little inconvenient, and I don't know how to operate, but my aunt did what Qian Long wanted to do, so why didn't he secretly rejoice!
The mountain breeze blows gently, a cool breeze blows by, the sun goes down early in the mountains, although it is July, but it does not feel a little hot. Qian Long felt hot.
He asked Han Daniu, "Are you hot?" ”
Han Daniu said: "It's not hot! ”
Qian Long asked, "Are you cold?" ”
Han Daniu said again: "Da Futian, how can it be cold!" ”
Qian Long slowly walked towards Han Daniu and said softly: "Don't be cold, take off your coat!" ”
Han Dayu smiled, not only took off her outer clothes, but also her underwear...
Han Daniu spoke: "It's not okay if I strip naked, you have to take it off too!" ”
Qian Long hurriedly said: "Yes, yes! I also take it off. ”
The big girl said politely: "Big dragon! As I said, when you get married, I will let you eat to your heart's content, make you raise your hands and surrender, and bow down! ”
It's not good to write about the things between husband and wife, anyway, the two fought for four ~ five rounds at night, and finally Qian Long surrendered and said: "Niu Niu! You're amazing! I'm taking it tonight! Let's rest! ”
The next morning, Qian Long, who usually got up early to practice boxing, didn't get up.
It was Qian Feng who woke up: "Brother! Wake up for breakfast! ”
There is also Han Daniu, she doesn't dare to shout, she can't make up her mind.
Han Daniu spoke first: "Sister Feng! Good morning! ”
Qian Feng had no choice but to shout: "Sister-in-law! Good morning! ”
Qian Feng hurriedly ran to the right room and said to her aunt: "My brother and she haven't gotten up yet, let's eat first!" ”
Qian Doudou said: "What she! You're going to call your sister-in-law! ”
Qian Feng said: "Auntie! I know, I've already called her. ”
Zhao Yuanqing said: "Feng'er! Let's eat first! Zhao Zhizhen didn't say anything, acting like a lady.
When Zhao Yuanqing and the others were about to finish eating, Qian Long and Han Daniu both came. Han Daniu hurriedly shouted: "Uncle and aunt are early!" We overslept today, and I promise my aunt that never again! "I blushed a little as I said that.
Qian Doudou said: "Yes! In the future, Long'er will rely on you to take care of you, and you will have to take on the responsibility of a housewife! ”
Han Daniu stuck out her tongue and said resignedly, "Aunt said yes!" Then sit down and eat.
I saw Qian Doudou take a bowl of eggs out, divide them two and say, "Eat and work in the field!" "It's so fresh, I work hard and I have eggs to eat!
Qian Feng said: "Auntie! How do I have no eggs? ”
"Yes! Here you go! Qian Doudou gave one Qian Feng and Zhao Zhizhen respectively. After thinking about it, I also gave a Zhao Yuanqing: "Husband! You can eat one too! ”
Zhao Yuanqing said: "If you want to eat, eat two, and don't eat one!" ”
Qian Doudou said: "Don't eat and pull down!" Leave it for the dragon to eat tomorrow! ”
Zhao Yuanqing said: "Okay! Eat one too! ”
He didn't let Qian Doudou take it back. And said, "Wife! You can eat one too! It's not like we can't afford to eat! Is it okay for everyone to eat every morning in the future? ”
Qian Doudou said: "Okay! Eat every morning after that. ”
It is now the holiday period, and Zhao Yuanqing is also busy with his four acres of land. The summer harvest and summer planting are coming to an end, but Qian Long has more fields, so Qian Long and Qian Feng are still busy.
Qian Doudou said: "Big girl! You and Long'er are already married, but they haven't passed the door yet, and they won't be married until they have a banquet. Then you will have to follow the dragon to work in the fields! Now you can go home and tell your mom and dad that we've chosen a date for your wedding! The date is October 1 of this year's solar calendar and September 1 of the lunar calendar. Remember: October 1 in the solar calendar, September 1 in the lunar calendar. The two of us will have to discuss everything in detail. This is your new home, you can come whenever you want, we warmly welcome! ”
Marriage is a watershed in life, a woman marrying a man is a man's internal helper and helper, since Qian Long wants to work in the field, you Han Daniu can't just eat idle meals, at least do some housework at home. Han Daniu understands, she doesn't need Qian Doudou to say, her mother has educated her.
So Han Daniu said, "Auntie! I washed a few clothes today and went back! When I come at night, I will bring a change of clothes, and I will live on both sides temporarily, and I will move in after the wedding, and live a good life with Dalong. ”
Qian Doudou said: "What a good girl! In the future, you will be the female boss of the Qian family! You are happy, at least you don't have to pass the in-laws, your life is so good! ”
Zhao Zhizhen generally doesn't take these things, she reads her books, and she is already a first-year high school student. But Qian Feng was a little moved, will I be able to find a man whose parents were killed or injured in the future! This is just the mother-in-law in the past, and the psychological impact of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship on women, how can there be such a thing? It's too far, but let's get down to business.
Today, Han Daniu came to Qian's house to have dinner, and she put down her burden and went to help Qian Doudou work. Aunt Chang Aunt kept screaming, Zhao Zhizhen was a little funny, and Qian Doudou was a little embarrassed! Qian Doudou said: "Big girl! You're newlywed! The bride can rest for a few days, and she hasn't officially passed the door yet! Just serve the dragon well! Saying that, Han Daniu's face turned red.
There are Zhao Yuanqing, Qian Long, and Qian Feng who are working in the field, and the sky is getting dark, and the work is almost done.
Zhao Yuanqing said: "Go home!" Save some time for tomorrow to wrap up, and you can rest for a few days. ”
In terms of work, Qian Long is an expert, and he does it quickly and well. Zhao Yuanqing is not a farmer after all, and he still has to learn a little bit to do farm work, so he can't get Qian Long, he can't get Qian Feng by planting rice, plus he is a little older, and his body is not supported, so he advocates calling it a day. Qian Long also advocated doing less, but he couldn't say it, he had been working for a day during the day, and there were still three points of land to plough at night! It's not ordinary physical work, but it's hard work. No wonder his aunt asked him to eat two eggs, can two eggs make up for it?
When the work arrives at home, the water for washing the face and feet is ready. For Qian Long, this is really a blessing! This treatment was only available when I was a child, and today I have it again. Of course, Zhao Yuanqing is also served, but Qian Feng can only do it himself. The family smiled happily and started dinner.
Qian Feng continued to sleep with Zhao Zhizhen, and in a few days, Zhao Zhizhen was going to study in the county seat again. There are indescribable and inexhaustible words between cousins.
The left room and the right room are two rooms, called the front room, the back room, and there is a kitchen next to the back room, and the kitchen is not used at present, because the two brothers and sisters of Qian Long have been eating at their aunt's house, and they were originally used. At that time, my aunt's family ate at Qian's house, and there were no literary and artistic activities such as TV at that time. The child plays all day during the day and can fall asleep as soon as he goes to bed. Adults are different, and couples are even more different, what are you doing? They have to work hard to give birth! Otherwise, the more backward the place, the more populous it is! It's poor.
Qian Long is tired all day during the day, so he should have a good rest at night! However, they are newly married! The smell of last night is spewing at him! The pretty face, shaking before his eyes; That wonderful figure is approaching him! His mouth was dry, he hugged Han Daniu's body tightly, turned over and lay on Han Daniu. Han Dayu asked softly, "My dear! Aren't you tired? ”
Qian Long said softly: "Don't be tired!" ”
"I'm really not tired!" Han Daniu said: "Don't be tired! Let's go! Let you eat to your heart's content! ”
This night, the two fought for three or four more rounds, and in the end, Qian Long was defeated.
The big girl asked, "Full?" ”
Qian Long said: "Hungry! ”
Han Daniu said: "Come back when you're hungry!" ”
Qian Long said: "I mean hungry! ”
Han Daniu smiled softly and said, "I'm hungry, I can't help it!" I'm going to order a late-night snack tomorrow! ”
On the night of the third day, the two fought two or three more rounds. Qian Long not only can't lift a gun, but he can't even open his eyelids! I didn't eat the supper I prepared, so I fell asleep on the bed!
Han Da Niu smiled! He said to himself, "Now I'm finally full!" But he touched Qian Long's body painfully and said, "Thank you for your hard work!" ”
On August 30, 1952, Zhao Yuanqing drove his daughter to the county seat to study. Qian Doudou took Qian Long's official letter of appointment to the Han family, and the folk custom is called a fixed day! Yes: October 1 of the Gregorian calendar, September 1 of the lunar calendar. followed by a dowry and gift money: ten quintals of rice, which were sent by horse-drawn carriage; Four sets of clothes in winter, four in autumn, four in spring, and four in summer.
Of course, the woman is not very casual. The Han family is also the first daughter to get married, and there are a lot of preparations to be made. That's an afterword.
Early in the morning of September 28, 1951, Han Daniu returned to her parents' home, which means that three days before the wedding, the bride and groom cannot meet. I left on the 28th and met again on the evening of October 1st, which was exactly three days. First of all, Han Dayu's task is to check how well the dowry items are prepared? The second is to spend time with my mother and family, and finally to go home to rest and rest for a few days to meet the new battle.