Chapter 5: The Bird Depends on the Man
After graduating from college, Meng Furong went to a university in the city to work as a counselor, and then took the graduate school entrance examination, teaching English in the university, and was a standard intellectual woman. Meng Furong's husband Ding Guanghui is the owner of an advertising company, and their son Ding Yuanlong, who is 5 years old this year, and Zhang Yinuo are kindergarten classmates.
Meng Furong and Song Yazhu almost talked about everything, but Song Yazhu heard of what Meng Furong just said "is building a second child".
Song Yazhu's eyes widened in surprise: "You guys are making people?" Do you want a second child too? ”
Meng Furong had a surprised expression: "What? Which law says I can't have a second child? ”
Song Yazhu looked puzzled: "Furong, I didn't mean that, I meant ...... Aren't you preparing for a PhD right now? As a counselor, where can I have time to take care of my children? ”
Meng Furong said calmly: "I read my Ph.D., when I am my counselor, the child grows in his belly, we don't want to do anything to each other, why don't we have time?" It's a win-win-win ”
Song Yazhu paused and said, "What about after giving birth?" What do you do? ”
Meng Furong said: "After giving birth to a child, there is maternity leave, more than half a year." ”
Song Yazhu said as if she didn't believe it: "Then you can't take care of the child alone?" How tired we are, you see that we take Yinuo for a while, it takes one person to buy vegetables and cook, and two people to take care of the children, even so, I am as tired as a dog. ”
Meng Furong said: "Hey, is it as difficult as you said? Yinuo is not more than 5 years old now? As long as you have a child, you live a day, and the child doesn't live the same day? ”
Song Yazhu widened her eyes as if she didn't know Meng Furong, and said to Meng Furong: "Furong, I found that you have changed. ”
"What's wrong?"
Song Yazhu said: "In the past, you were a person who liked shopping and pleasure, but now why are you so focused on your husband and children?" What kind of ecstasy soup did Ding Guanghui pour you? ”
Meng Furong laughed: "What kind of ecstasy soup did he pour me?" Now the policy also allows a second child, I have always wished that I had an older brother or sister or something since I was a child, but it's a pity...... Now that I have this opportunity, of course I want to leave one more family member for Yuanlong. ”
Song Yazhu frowned slightly: "Why are you exactly the same as that nerd in my family?" What's wrong with all of you? Am I outdated? Can't keep up with the times? ”
Meng Furong smiled and said, "What trend, isn't it just such a reason?" ”
For the first time, the good sisters did not stand in the same camp as themselves, and Song Yazhu couldn't help but look a little lost. Soon, she discovered that her situation was completely different from Meng Furong's.
Song Yazhu complained:
"Hey, you can ask for one, your old man is so good at making money, he drives an Audi, our family is still a Focus scooter, your job is stable, the benefits are good, and there is not much pressure to have another child; Unlike us, that nerd has been refusing to go to work, writing novels on the Internet all day long, and he hasn't written any grades, what about me, I've been used to it for the past two years, and I'm too lazy to talk about him anymore, let him go. Although the pay for my graphic design job is okay, Alexander, often works overtime and is often criticized by the leadership...... Hey......"
Meng Furong took over the conversation and said:
"Aren't all vehicles used for transportation? In town, both the most expensive and cheapest cars can only drive 30 yards. Will my family make money? Now business is getting more and more difficult to do, listen to him ah, now small bosses are working for employees, and every month's salary has to be paid on time. Am I working really? Do you say that there is an absolutely stable job in the world now? You haven't entered our industry, you don't know our pressure, all kinds of topics, all kinds of assessments, all kinds of papers...... Forget it, don't talk about these worries. In my opinion, your nerd is a treasure. ”
Hearing this, Song Yazhu couldn't help but squirt out a sip of the tea he was drinking, and laughed loudly. Meng Furong hurriedly pulled the tissue and wiped it for her.
Meng Furong asked puzzledly, "You...... What's wrong with you? ”
It took Song Yazhu a long time to return to normal, and said seriously: "In the future, you are not allowed to tell jokes when I drink water." ”
Meng Furong said seriously:
"I'm not joking. Think about it, how many people still have dreams in this society? Everyone's dream is to make money, and they are dedicated to making money. In order to make money, some people ignore their conscience and do some things that hurt nature and reason...... So, I said that the nerd in your family insisted on writing for 5 years for his own ideals, and will continue to do so, think about it, is such a person a baby? ”
Song Yazhu said: "The ideal can be eaten as a meal? Just like his bear, if his mother hadn't raised him, he would have starved to death. It's okay to pursue ideals, but you have to meet the basic things of eating and dressing, right? ”
Meng Furong said: "He made your mother and son hungry? Let your mother and son sleep in the open? ”
Song Yazhu said: "That's not it, but it's ......"
Without waiting for Song Yazhu to finish speaking, Meng Furong said, "Isn't this right?" In my opinion, it's not a big deal for you to have a second child. Besides, it's not a bad thing to have a second child. ”
Song Yazhu looked at Meng Furong: "I can see it, I found the wrong person today, I should talk to other friends." ”
Meng Furong laughed heartily: "Haha, you, in my opinion, your problems are not problems at all, they are all pieces of cake, and the problems that Ding Guanghui and I are encountering now are the big problems." ”
Meng Furong looked at Song Yazhu and said lightly:
"Your problems, when the problem, the economic problem, the postpartum depression problem, are all small problems, and our problems are the big problems."
Song Yazhu lowered her voice and asked puzzledly:
"What the hell is wrong with you? What's wrong? Lao Ding has a junior outside? ”