Zhang Jiaze said: "Sullen man. ”

Hua Xingcan said: "You mean that once a woman takes the initiative to hook up with him, he will take the bait?" ”

Zhang Jiaze said: "Not only your man, but I am also such a man, and it is difficult for me to refuse the initiative of a beautiful woman." ”

Hua Xingcan stopped talking, and frowned: "I really don't understand you men, is there nothing else besides that?" ”

Zhang Jiaze said: "So this is the difference between men and women, many men, especially married men, doing that thing with other women is as simple as eating when you are hungry and drinking water when you are thirsty, you want to eat when you are hungry, men are such creatures, you must not think that this is a man who doesn't love you." Give men a little freedom, and men will love you more. ”

Hua Xingcan's eyes widened in surprise by Zhang Jiaze's words: "You mean, let him mess around outside, he will love his wife more?" ”

Zhang Jiaze nodded: "That's right, because he will be grateful to you, grateful to you for giving him freedom." ”

Seeing that Hua Xingcan was silent, Zhang Jiaze continued: "So, there is an essential difference between this man and a woman, if a woman wants to do that with a man, she generally has to have a good impression of the man first, have a certain emotional foundation, have feelings first, and then talk about that, and rarely do that thing as soon as they meet." This is the essential difference between a man and a woman. ”

Hua Xingcan asked, "How can this be?" ”

Zhang Jiaze said: "So, now we can't judge what your husband did behind your back, but one thing is certain, even if your husband really does something outside, it's just a show, you can't take it seriously, you must not think that your husband will fall in love with the woman named Hongmei, he will abandon you and the child, and marry that woman, that is impossible." ”

Hua Xingcan said: "But...... There are so many ...... juniors now."

Zhang Jiaze smiled again: "Unless this man has an obvious dislike for his original wife, he will not easily marry a junior." ”

Hua Xingcan asked, "You mean to say that it's up to me?" ”

Zhang Jiaze nodded: "Yes, that's what it means." In my opinion, the most important thing for a woman is to be self-reliant, financially independent, not dependent on men, don't think that women are born to be appendages of men, don't think that women are born to rely on men to live, a woman, the most important thing, is to live her own wonderful. Don't you feel that women are already inherently behind men in some ways? For example, if a woman wants to give birth, she has a big aunt every month, she has to breastfeed her child, all of these things are only for women. ”

Listening to Zhang Jiaze's long talk, Hua Xingcan suddenly felt that his life suddenly brightened.