宋雅竹 says:

"When I was training abroad, he followed ...... Other women are getting better. ”

Song Bonian asked reluctantly:

"You're abroad, how do you know he's on good terms with other women?"

Song Yazhu:

"I have a friend, Meng Furong took a picture of them watching a movie together."

Song Bonian asked:

"What else?"

Song Yazhu didn't know what his father meant, so he had to say hesitantly:

"And ...... He ran out in the middle of the night to help the woman get the baby to the hospital......"

Song Bonian:

"That's all?"

Song Yazhu nodded and asked puzzledly:

"Could it be...... Isn't that enough? ”

Song Bonian took a sip of tea and continued:

"Yazhu, it's all my father's fault, I didn't educate you on love, family and married life since I was a child. This is the disadvantage of our social education, when you are in school, the teacher only cares about teaching you the knowledge in books, and your parents only look at your test results, and the university will not teach you the knowledge of love, marriage and family, only rely on yourself to explore. When it comes to marriage and family, as a person who has come from the past, I have two experiences......"

Song Yazhu's eyes widened and she listened carefully.

Song Bonian:

"In the years since we were married to your mother, although we have quarreled and disagreed, we have never left home, never used our fists and feet, never blushed, never got angry......"

Regarding this, Song Yazhu has a lot of experience. Since childhood, she has grown up in a quiet, happy and happy family.

Song Bonian:

"Marriage is different from love, when you fall in love, you show each other only the best; After getting married, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, plus the birth of a child, all kinds of contradictions have come, and one thing is needed most at this time: tolerance. ”

Song Yazhu:

"Tolerance?"

Song Bonian nodded:

"yes."

Song Yazhu:

"He's out there with other women, can I still tolerate him? This ......"

Song Bonian:

"Did you see him sleep with another woman?"

Song Yazhu:

"This ...... Not ......."

宋博年 says:

"Isn't that right? Since you didn't see it with your own eyes, what evidence is there that he is having an affair with another woman? Aren't people just watching a movie with the opposite sex? Is it that serious? That kid likes to write novels and wants to be a screenwriter, maybe he just brought a friend to the cinema to watch a movie and discuss the plot of the movie? ”

Song Yazhu pouted and said coquettishly:

"Dad—are you doing this for his good or for my sake?"

Song Bonian:

"Me, it's for your good."

He deliberately put the word "we" very seriously.

Song Bonian:

"Therefore, as a woman, the most important thing in married life is to be tolerant, and tolerance means to turn a blind eye, and if there are some things that he can do, you don't care."

Song Yazhu:

"That'...... What if he really runs away with another woman outside, and the three of us are left? ”

Song Bonian:

"That's a good thing, too."

Song Yazhu:

"A good thing? How do I not understand? ”

Song Bonian:

"He would rather lose your capable, so considerate, and beautiful wife, and lose his own children, and run away with other women, such a man, what else do you want him to do? So, if he is really such a man, it is a good thing that he ran away. Then you can find a better man. Isn't it? ”

The haze that had permeated Song Yazhu's heart for a long time finally disappeared under his father's words. In the past, Meng Furong had also persuaded her like this, but she didn't even listen to a word. Now, with the passage of time and the increase of experience, coupled with the enlightenment of her father, Song Yazhu feels that the sun has shone into her life again.

At that moment, after losing her psychological baggage, she was relieved.

Song Yazhu let out a long breath, and all the unhappiness seemed to be exhaled with this long breath. Her mood suddenly improved.

Song Yazhu looked at her father and asked:

"Dad, what should I do now?"