181: I can't even coax anyone
Sure enough, hearing her say this, Shang Yan immediately let go of his hand, and finally waited for her to return to Jinyuan, he was naturally reluctant to let her go to Pear Blossom Forest Villa.
Especially when I saw the group photos she posted on Weibo yesterday, there were Gu Junxi in several of them, and there were very few photos of him and her, but there were so many photos of Xu Li and Gu Junxi that he was almost too many to count.
Xu is too concerned, so all reason is attacked by jealousy and possessiveness.
I can't bear the pain of the cold war with her anymore, but I also know that her anger must not have subsided, and I am afraid that I will go to her too abruptly, first, I don't know what to say, and second, I will break up unhappily like last time, annoying her again, and it is even more difficult to coax.
In addition, he really has no experience in coaxing people, so he doesn't know how to coax.
Stimulated by those group photos, the gods sent the ghost to find Nie Moyu to come up with ideas.
In his words, the best way to coax a woman is to buy and buy, all kinds of limited edition bags, shoes, jewelry, come in turns, yes.
Shang Yan shook it over, "You used these methods to coax Wen Wan?" ”
Suddenly there was silence.
"Your mouth, it's really a pot that can't be opened, no wonder my sister-in-law can be angry with you for so long, I don't even treat me well, I think I deserve it, you go, I'm going to heal myself, my heart aches."
Shang Yan sat there without moving, "Xu Li is not as superficial as the women you dated before. ”
Nie Moyu: "......"
This mouth is really unpleasant!
When he said that those women were superficial, the meaning in his words was that he was superficial!
"Tell me what made her angry?"
Shang Yan was silent, and made Nie Moyu die in a hurry, "No, brother, if you don't say it, I can't give you a reference." ”
He gave him a cool look, and then briefly told him about the wedding anniversary and the painting.
After listening, Nie Moyu gave him a thumbs up, "It has to be you, do you know where you started wrong?" It's wrong there on the wedding anniversary, women have always liked to talk back, and my sister-in-law is the kind of person who has a hard mouth and a soft heart. ”
"She is looking forward to her wedding anniversary, but as a result, halfway through, you ran away, she waited for you for so long, not to mention that you are still looking for Jiang Qingyun, she is your childhood sweetheart, if I am my sister-in-law, I will also have to blow up, not to mention bombing, I will divorce you."
Hearing the 'divorce', Shang Yan frowned, a little displeased, "Jiang Qingyun and I are not that kind of relationship. ”
"I know, but the identity of a childhood sweetheart is already quite embarrassing, you are really confused about this, what about your previous shrewdness? If you put yourself in your shoes, is it because they have known each other for more than ten years? ”
Shang Yan pursed his lips and was silent.
That's true.
Seeing that he didn't speak, Nie Moyu continued, "So, people have only known each other for more than ten years, you and Jiang Qingyun have been friends since childhood, and you didn't take the initiative to explain when you went back, and you didn't take the initiative to admit your mistakes, originally a sentence 'I was wrong, let's make up for an anniversary tomorrow', you have to make things serious, don't you deserve it?" Sister-in-law, you are light. ”
"Let's talk about painting, you are obviously jealous to death in your heart, you have to say it, and you live in the company, what do you let your sister-in-law think, to put it bluntly, this cold war is your beginning, and your attitude is still so bad, why do you ask your sister-in-law to forgive you because of your words?"
Shang Yan pursed his lips, "What should I do?" ”
"Admit your mistakes, hug her, and say, baby, I was wrong, it's all my fault, don't be angry, forgive me, I won't dare next time, if she asks you what is wrong, you will say, I am wrong, although my sister-in-law is a little arrogant, but she is not the kind of unreasonable person."
"Women, what I care about most is your attitude, your attitude is not good, if you are still that kind of cold, high-minded attitude, I dare to guarantee, with the temperament of my sister-in-law, you are ready to get married for the second time, if you sincerely apologize, even if she sees you so sincerely, her anger has disappeared by half, and it will be easy to talk later? If you coax again, it will come naturally. ”
The picture of the memory stopped at this end, and he looked at Xu Li with an angry face.
Xu Li really thinks that he is a wood, he is simply a 10,000-year-old rotten wood, he is vigorous and resolute in the shopping mall, he has good means, and he calls for wind and rain, but once he sets foot in emotional matters, he is like a seventeen or eighteen-year-old stunned young man, with a stupid mouth and a stupid brain.
Not even coaxing people.
I'm really angry with her.
She sat down angrily, took a deep breath, tried to calm her irritable and irritated heart, and kept telling herself.
He has always been like this stuffy gourd, his mouth is like a seal, and he cherishes words like gold, hasn't he been used to it for a long time?
Now what to put in the air.
But...... The more I thought about it, the more angry I became.
Shang Yan sat next to her, took her hand, and explained in a low voice, "It was me who was wrong that day, I came back late, and I didn't apologize to you in time, and I ...... I didn't mean to, it suddenly fell out of the cabinet, I picked it up and looked at it, and accidentally tore it. ”
Why did it turn into a quarrel later, in fact, in the final analysis, it was still his own jealousy that was at work.
Gu Junxi and her have known each other for ten years, and there are many good memories between them that he and her have never had, just like in that painting, such a warm and beautiful scene.
She and the child sat on the swing rocking chair, Gu Junxi stood behind them to help them rock, and there was a dog next to her.
It's like a picture of a family of three.
It made him almost mad with jealousy.
Bad emotions couldn't help but sprout, and even he didn't know what kind of position Gu Junxi was in in her heart, and what kind of position he was in.
So at that time he asked, 'Is he important to you?' She replied almost without thinking, 'Of course it is important', and it set off a storm of jealousy that was fiercely suppressed in his heart.
In this marriage with her, he is not confident, because no one knows better than himself how this marriage came about.
Coupled with her attitude towards him in those years, he deeply felt that she hated him.
Now she doesn't resist him like before, she can share a bed with him and talk about dating, but once she is resisted by a third party, he can't help but worry, and she will be afraid that in her heart, his weight is not heavy enough to match Gu Junxi.
To put it bluntly, this is a sign of low self-esteem.
The word inferiority complex is used on him, which is somewhat disobedient, so that no one can imagine his inferiority complex, after all, he is so good and has such a good background, there should be no word 'inferiority' in his life dictionary.
But only he knows how deep his feelings for Xu Li are, how paranoid he is, and how afraid he is of losing her.
(End of chapter)