Chen Xiang began to realize that both the male and female hosts in the family are very important, and the two need to work together to make the family good. Chen Xiang didn't mention the matter of the original unit to Wang Yan.

Now, as long as there is something really going on in the unit, you need to work overtime or something. He will also make it clear to Wang Yan in advance, explain clearly what he is working overtime for, and who he is with. If he says it clearly, Wang Yan will understand. When he is idle, Chen Xiang will also take the initiative to call his daughter. Slowly, the days passed warmly and ahead.

Rong Rong is a child with a quiet personality, who doesn't talk much and likes to think quietly. Rong Rong was a little shy, embarrassed to take the initiative to play with other children, but, when she reached the age of playing, she said in front of her mother again and again: "Mom, you give me a little sister, play with me-"

Wang Yan had told Chen Xiang about Rongrong's "request" as a "fun talk" before.

After hearing this, Chen Xiang said: "Rong Rong has no brothers and sisters, as far as she is, she will indeed be lonely, now there are many only children, in addition to children in school contact with classmates, there are very few children who can be contacted after school, and there are not many playmates." ”

"Yes, we don't have a Beijing hukou, Rongrong goes to school in his hometown, and he is the so-called left-behind child. If you're not happy at home, we don't know if there is anyone to play with her. "When she said 'left-behind children', Wang Yan's eyes suddenly became astringent, and she felt that her daughter was very pitiful and could not grow up with her parents freely and happily like other children. What can make her stay married to this day is her daughter Rongrong. But his daughter was not by his side.

Chen Xiang stretched out his hand to help Wang Yan wipe away the tears that overflowed from the corners of his eyes, and comforted: "It's okay, her grandmother loves Rongrong very much, and Rongrong should be happy at home." “

"That's right, otherwise, Rongrong will be bitter!" Wang Yan had a distressed expression on her daughter's face.

"If you want to have a daughter, call your daughter." Chen Xiang said and handed his mobile phone to Wang Yan.

"What's the use of making a phone call, it's nothing more than making children obedient and studying hard. The child didn't have anything to say to us, so he knew to agree. Sometimes I don't want to answer our calls. Wang Yan's heart was filled with sourness again.

Chen Xiang felt that what Wang Yan said was the truth, children were separated from their parents, and they also missed their parents, but they couldn't understand what their parents missed them. After a long time, children and parents will feel alienated. "One day I'll take you to the hospital to remove the ring and have another baby. In this way, Rongrong has company. Chen Xiang said suddenly.

Wang Yan smiled, "Don't be funny, if you give birth, who will bring it?" ”

"When the time comes, let her grandmother bring it with her, and I will earn more money to send it to them." Chen Xiang said.

Wang Yan smiled and said, "Let's talk about it." ”

On this day, Wang Yan passed by the playground and saw a group of children running around, and remembered Rong Rong's words: "Mom, you give me another sister and play with me." Wang Yan hadn't taken Rong Rong's words seriously before, but now that the child was not around, she felt sorry for the child and remembered Rong Rong's "request". After Wang Yan had plans to have a second child, she immediately discussed it with Chen Xiang.

Wang Yan is such a character, whatever comes to mind, as long as he identifies it, he will do it, and rarely consider the difficulty behind it. Even on important marriage issues, she is like this, if she can think more and investigate more, she may not marry Chen Xiang. But, in that case, she is not Wang Yan, Wang Yan has a reckless element in her character, she does things more intuitively, she is emotional.

Lying in bed that night, Wang Yan suddenly said to Chen Xiang: "Accompany me to the hospital this weekend, take the ring, and let's give birth to a little sister to Rong Rong." Her tone was not a negotiation, it was a decision.

Chen Xiang was accustomed to Wang Yan's tone, and he didn't think it was strange, but he wondered why Wang Yan wanted to have another child all of a sudden, before, she didn't agree to let her give birth many times. Chen Xiang asked, "Why do you suddenly want to give birth?" Wang Yan said: "It's not sudden, I've been hesitating for a long time." Now Rongrong is at home by herself, just her grandmother takes her, and the child has no playmates, so she is too lonely. ”

Chen Xiang said, "What if it's not a girl." ”

Wang Yan smiled and said, "It must be." ”

Chen Xiang said, "It's good to have a boy. It's all a companion. ”

Wang Yan said, "It's better to be a girl." There are either two boys or girls in the family. When we grow up like this, we also have a common language, we have things to discuss, and we can help each other. Wang Yan thinks very far, she thinks that boys and girls have different psychology, different social roles, and it is better to be of the same gender. However, if it were a boy, she would accept it. She will interpret it in another way, and there is an element of optimism in her temperament. Your own things are good, let alone your own children.

Chen Xiang accompanied Wang Yan to the hospital, and after the ring was removed, Wang Yan felt that there were about to have new changes and hope in her life.

After Wang Yan decided to have another child, she was mentally relaxed a lot, and she didn't keep pestering Chen Xiang's past, after all, two or three years had passed, and if she entangled those again, she herself felt that Chen Xiang would change from self-blame to a natural mentality.

Wang Yan and Chen Xiang exchanged a lot of words. Sometimes, she would ask Chen Xiang about her childhood life, and she would also tell Chen Xiang about her stories and dreams when she was young, Chen Xiang listened a lot and found that Wang Yan had many similar experiences with herself: after all, they were all from the countryside, and rural children had to help the family with housework in that era, and they all had the idea of changing their fate through reading. The more communication there is, the more Chen Xiang appreciates Wang Yan.

Once Wang Yan said to Chen Xiang: "Do you know? I was very diligent when I was a kid. No one asked me to work, and I thought about washing the pot and washing my clothes every day, but the clothes were not clean, and I was beaten by her grandmother. “

"How old were you then?"

"Seven or eight years old. Do you think I'm too energetic? Every day, when I come home from playing at my neighbor's house, I want to work when I get home. “

"You were so diligent when you were young, helping your family with housework, why are you so lazy now that you don't clean up your house." Chen Xiang asked rhetorically.

"You don't understand this, in fact, I'm still very diligent." Wang Yan retorted.

"Why are you diligent? Look at our table, it has never been tidy. I haven't seen you fold the bed properly, and you never help brush my shoes. Chen Xiang took the opportunity to complain.

"You know what? I've thought about this question too, and I've also thought about why I don't like housework anymore when I'm older. Wang Yan stared at Chen Xiang and said: "People's diligence is different in different periods. When I was a kid, I didn't have anything in my head, but I knew how to work. When I got older, I felt that I should focus my time on studying and on something meaningful. I think it's good to have a clean house, but it's a waste of time to clean up and mess up. Don't you notice that I never waste time going to soap operas, not wasting time shopping? “

Chen Xiang felt that Wang Yan's words were not completely unreasonable, so he really hated the messy appearance of the house, so he said: "That house must also be neat and tidy, so that people are in a good mood inside." “

"Then you can clean it up, too." Wang Yan said.

"I cleaned it up, and you messed up again. I'm too lazy to take it. Chen Xiang squinted at Wang Yan, as if he didn't clean up the house, it was really all her problem.

"Come on, you." Wang Yan said: "If you like to be neat, you can clean it up again if it's messy." If you don't want to clean up, don't blame others. ”

"Here we go again, look at how other people's wives clean up their homes." Chen Xiang said.

"Do you know why you haven't been able to make a fortune until now?" Wang Yan suddenly changed the subject.

"That's because you don't do housework. Experts say that the more capable a man is, the more he likes to do housework! Wang Yan moved out of the expert in a serious manner.

"What bullshit theory." Chen Xiang was disdainful.

"Elm head, ignore you, I'll read a book."

Chen Yan found that Wang Yan was very willful in some aspects, for example, she thought that cleaning up the house was a waste of time, so she really rarely cleaned up, so she still went her own way when she quarreled.

Chen Xiang also found that Wang Yan was a bit dead-eyed, for example, she decided that she had almost never really given up in her heart when she decided to take the postgraduate entrance examination. Chen Xiang persuaded her that if she couldn't pass the exam, she would go to work hard, and there was nothing wrong with it. But Wang Yan persuaded: "This is a bridge to my dream, and I don't want to give up."

Chen Xiang still couldn't help laughing: "What major ideals do you have, do you have to use the postgraduate entrance examination as a bridge?" ”

"You don't understand." Wang Yan was dismissive.

"I'll listen to it, and I'll help you analyze it." Chen Xiang was amused by her words.

"Then I'll tell you about it." Wang Yan said with a straight face: "I always feel that people have to do something valuable in life, in my opinion, it is not very important how much money you make, the important thing is to be able to help others." I want to become a teacher after I finish graduate school, so that I can definitely spread the right ideas to children. I want to open up to those late students who are enlightened, so that they can avoid detours. ”

"You're thinking too simply. You're not going to be a politics teacher, you're thinking about how to get your children's grades. Chen Xiang corrected.

"That's not a contradiction. In short, you don't understand. Wang Yan said, sighed and said: "I myself also found that I was very conflicted, obviously short of money, if I have money, I can help many relatives and friends around me, but I lack the motivation to make money." What's going on? “

Chen Xiang pursed his lips, glanced at his eyes, fiddled with a disdainful expression and said, "You have never been hungry, and a full man doesn't know that a hungry man is hungry." If you can't drink water one day, you'll have the motivation to make money. ”

"It's like you've been hungry." Wang Yan rolled his eyes at Chen Xiang and said.

When I first came to Beijing, I couldn't eat enough several times, and I couldn't walk with my hands on the wall. Well, I thought, just let me eat and tell me to do anything. Chen Xiang fell into deep thought.

Wang Yan glanced at Chen Xiang and said, "No wonder when I saw you for the first time, I always felt that there was sorrow hidden between your eyebrows. Seems lonely. ”

"What, when you saw me, I was already very good." After a pause, Chen Xiang sighed and said, "Hey, your husband was competitive when he was young and never admitted defeat. When I was in my twenties, I always felt that there was nothing in the world that I couldn't do. However, people's energy is really limited. Now, see if you haven't achieved anything. ”

"You didn't do nothing, you didn't work normally, you learned a lot. It's just that there is no distinction between good and bad, and bad things are learned. Wang Yan said.

"None of this is a big deal, men should do their own business. You don't understand, I'm just learning the bad things you say, and I'm also using them to do things one day in the future. Chen Xiang said.

"Come on, people who really do great things have a pure and noble mind." Wang Yan retorted.

"You say this makes sense, ambitious people can withstand temptation and loneliness." Chen Xiang responded, then turned to Wang Yan and asked, "Then you say, your husband has changed now, why hasn't he done a big thing?" ”

Wang Yan said with a smile: "It's not time." When you're completely rotten your tail, you'll be able to do big things. ”

Every husband and wife have a different way of getting along, and if argument is one kind, Chen Xiang thinks that he and Wang Yan belong to the kind that understands each other through arguments and promotes affection.

Chen Xiang himself has learned from the pain, thinking that if this man does not have persistent ideals or obsessive things to do, then this man will definitely have emotional problems in life. He summed himself up like this, and when he shared this understanding with Wang Yan, Wang Yan believed that not only men, but also women should have a persistent job. Looking back on herself, she felt that she was willful and unsuitable for society. She was ashamed.

Wang Yan thinks of his parents, most of his life has been farmers, but this farmer label at least makes people think of them when they think of them, they feel stable and reliable; She thought of her uncle, who kept fish, and whenever she thought of him, she associated him with his fishpond; She thought of her aunt, who was a teacher, and thinking of her would associate her with her identity as a teacher; She thinks of Chen Xiang by her side, and when she thinks of Chen Xiang, she associates him with furniture design. This kind of connection makes people feel warm and reliable, and it is a distant landscape.

Although the scenery is different from the scenery, those who persevere in a certain job have given others an eternal scenery after all. And what about yourself? Without an accurate label, Wang Yan considers herself piecemeal. It turned out that when Wang Yan went to work, as long as she felt that the working environment was complicated and the interpersonal relationship made her dislike, she would resolutely leave her job. This time, Wang Yan decided not to quit her job even if she was pregnant, to go to work hard, and to train her will by maintaining a job.

Chen Xiang felt Wang Yan's endurance, and he secretly decided to start his own business and do something. And at this time, he actually didn't have any extra money.

In this way, in this weak family, there have been three decisions: Chen Xiang's entrepreneurial plan, Wang Yan's postgraduate examination plan, and Wang Yan's plan to have children.

Wang Yan was pregnant, and slowly had severe morning sickness, this time Wang Yan did not quit her job, she shared a small house with her comrades in Haidian. In this way, you can reach the company after 15 minutes of walking to work every day. Moreover, every time she commutes to and from work, she can pass through the west gate of the National People's Congress, and when she walks through, she can see students running and playing ball in the playground, and she can see retired teachers who are exercising. She wants to be a teacher herself, and after retirement, she can feel the active life of the school for a while.

When Wang Yan proposed to live near the company, Chen Xiang objected. He didn't agree with Wang Yan not going home at night, but one morning, when he drove Wang Yan, he saw Wang Yan spitting out yellow juice from motion sickness, Wang Yan shouted bitter mouth, saying that when the yellow bile was about to vomit out, he also felt sorry for Wang Yan. However, when Wang Yan was not by Chen Xiang's side, Wang Yan herself would think crookedly, wondering if Chen Xiang was chatting with other women on the Internet, and wondering if Chen Xiang would bring other women back.

Thinking too much, Wang Yan was annoyed, and after being irritable, she became angry and simply didn't go home on Saturdays and Sundays. Chen Xiang could not tolerate Wang Yan not returning home on Saturday and Sunday. He angrily asked Wang Yan why she didn't go home. Wang Yan said, "I got motion sickness in the car, I vomited uncomfortably, and I didn't want to go back." ”

Chen Xiang said fiercely, "I'll pick you up." ”

Wang Yan said angrily: "Don't pick it up, I won't go back." ”

Crooked thinking is not Wang Yan's patent, Chen Xiang heard Wang Yan say that he didn't want to go home, and he also thought crookedly, "You don't want to go back outside, maybe who are you with?" ”

Wang Yan said angrily: "You can't care. Just take care of yourself. It was fine, Wang Yan's crooked desire to bring out this quarrel made Chen Xiang really suspicious, he said, "You come back to me, I will give birth to the child, and I will do a paternity test." There's a problem, see how I clean you up! ”

Wang Yan hung up the phone and ignored Chen Xiang. Chen Xiang stopped calling, and drove directly to pick up Wang Yan, and when Wang Yan saw Chen Xiang, her heart was soft and sweet, and she obediently followed him.

They are not young, but they are like children, and they spend a lot of the best golden time in life arguing about feelings. Wang Yan realized this, and Chen Xiang also realized this. They didn't say anything to each other, but they were determined in each other's hearts to change this situation. They each decided to focus their energy and heart on their dreams.