Mother Lin hasn't seen her sisters for a long time, of course she is entertaining, "What do you want to eat at noon, I'll let Ah Qian go grocery shopping." ”

"No hassle." The last time my aunt came to Xialing Village, it was when the house was built to do wine, and the last time there were many people, I just looked at a rough idea, and now I can't help but say again: "Your house is built well, it's really bright." ”

"Now that the glass is good, the windows can be opened bigger, so it looks bright." Mother Lin pulled her sister to sit down on the sofa.

"Mom?" The aunt sat on the sofa and looked around, "Ah Qian and my brother-in-law are not here either." ”

"Ah Qian took her mother out for a walk, and Lin Jianguo was in the field."

When my aunt heard this, she was about to stand up, "There is work in the field, I don't want to sit here anymore, let's go to the field and help you do something." ”

"Oh, you're welcome." Mother Lin pulled her back, "There are people in the field to help, don't you see that I don't go to the field much?" ”

Mother Lin called Lin Qian as she spoke, "When are you two going to go home when are you going to go?" Your aunt is here. ”

At this time, Lin Qian was taking her grandmother to shop in the snack street in the capital, and when she heard this, she immediately took her grandmother home.

Before Lin's mother hung up the phone, Lin Qian arrived at the door.

"Hey, aren't you coming back?" Auntie said.

"Auntie." Lin Qian said hello, and her grandmother laughed directly when she saw her aunt, "Hey, why are you here?" ”

Mother Lin said, "Where have you been wandering around?" ”

"It's in the village."

"Talk to your aunt, I'll make a cup of tea."

The aunt hurriedly said, "No, don't be busy." ”

Auntie came mainly to see grandma, now ordinary people are like this, into the factory all year round rare to have a break, aunt today is rare to be free, so hurry up to Xialing Village to see grandma.

I haven't seen her for a long time, so I naturally have a lot to say, so Lin Qian sat next to her and handed melon seeds to my aunt.

"Are you still used to living here?" The aunt held her grandmother's hand and asked her how she was doing.

Grandma said, "Habit, you can stay too." ”

My aunt knew that she was confused, and she was relieved to see that she was clean and in good spirits.

"Come, tea." Mother Lin came out with a cup of brewed tea, and the water used was the spiritual spring on the mountain, and she deliberately put tea leaves in order to cover up.

Sure enough, my aunt just took a sip and praised: "Your tea is really good, I wanted to ask last time I came, what kind of tea is this?" If it's not too expensive, I'll buy some. ”

Mother Lin didn't know what to say for a while.

On nonsense, it has to be Lin Qian, of course, she is also skilled, many times it is true and false mixed together, just like now, "Auntie, the good thing is not tea, but the water for making tea." ”

Mother Lin looked at Lin Qian, she couldn't figure out what she wanted to do, did she want to tell the abnormality on the mountain?

"Water?"

"Yes, this water has a lot of origin, it is spring water near our village, and it has a sweet smell of its own." Lin Qian said, "I'll fill you with a bucket, and you can go back and make any kind of tea." ”

"Yes!"

"Of course it is." Lin Qian poured her a cup of water boiled with a spiritual spring.

"It's really better than ordinary water, you have this water on the mountain, you can get a mineral water factory out of it."

"That's not necessary." Lin Qian said, "There are not many springs in the mountains. ”

In addition to coming to see her grandmother, my aunt had other things to ask Lin's mother, so she followed Lin's mother to the kitchen, and while helping to choose vegetables, she gossiped: "Isn't Xiaogang going to get married next month?" How much are you going to give? ”

Mother Lin knew she was going to ask this question.

My aunt said: "My idea is that our two families will send the same, and save this and that." ”

Mother Lin nodded, "I also have this idea, if you don't ask me, I also want to ask you, that is, how much money to give?" ”

"When Xiaoyun got married before, it was three thousand, right?"

"Yo, Xiaoyun, it's been a few years." Lin Ma said.

"yes, it's a bit unsightly to send another three thousand now." The aunt sighed, "Now the price of everything is rising." ”

"Four thousand dollars is not very good."

"Yes." The aunt said, "Or five thousand?" "Speaking of 5,000, my aunt is a little heartbroken, now a month's salary is 5,000 yuan, send a red envelope, send a month's salary, how can it not be heartbroken.

Mother Lin raised a question at this time, "You said to send 5,000, if the second sister-in-law knows about it, what do they think in their hearts?" ”

"Then I don't care what they think." The aunt fished out the unprocessed bean sprouts next to her, "Xiaoyun got married early, and it was okay to send 3,000 at that time, but now it's really a bit ugly to send 3,000, mainly because the woman's relatives send more, if we send less big brother and sister-in-law, they probably won't be able to raise their heads." ”

"Hey." The aunt sighed heavily, "It's time to send money and trouble." When our two children get married in the future, let's say okay, how much money I give you, you will give me as much as you want, so as to save me this trouble! ”

"That's easy to say."

The aunt asked, "Then our two families will set up 5,000?" ”

"It's five thousand."

"Okay." The aunt was calm and light on the surface, but her heart was dripping blood, "My eldest brother called me that day, saying that he wanted to buy a car and a house, and it is estimated that it will take a lot of money to get married."

Now I can't afford to get married. ”

Mother Lin said: "Everyone is like this, as long as you don't have it, it seems that you can't keep up, and there is no way." ”

My aunt said: "So now the society says that it is good to have a daughter."

But in fact, can the daughter afford to get married? If you don't pay for the man to buy a house, your daughter will live in that house and you won't know what to be said of, and people will be unhappy, and if you go back here and it's not your home, you will be angry to death. ”

Mother Lin thought so.

The aunt laughed as she spoke, "What kind of society do you say is it now?" Children don't actually want to get married, adults urge all day long, really urging, and here and there with money, calculate this calculation So, how many people become enemies at the last step.

Who is this marriage for? ”

Mother Lin shook her head, "Then who knows, anyway, I thought it through, if she finds such a person, if she wants to get married, then she will knot, if she can't find it, then let her go."

If you really find a wrongdoer, you will harm the child for a lifetime. ”

"That's right."

Lin Qian didn't expect her mother to think so clearly.

For ordinary people, the most important thing is birth, old age, sickness and death, giving up urging marriage is equivalent to giving up the birth of the next generation, and accepting the old age, illness and death of their children alone.

Although you have children and a partner, you may not necessarily have someone to accompany you in the future, but without a partner, you will have to face these things by yourself.

Her mother can think like this, as an ordinary person, she can think through it.

For Lin Qian, finding a partner is obviously meaningless and inexplicable, she has been through countless life and death difficulties, and she has long reconciled with loneliness and death.

She is capable enough to face the world on her own.

The longer she lived, the more she leaned towards the Heavenly Dao.